Short top problems

  • highforthis

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    Sep 09, 2014 9:06 PM GMT
    I rather look a lot uglier and be 6 inches taller.

    Seems like all the bottoms are looking for "tall" guys. A bottom friend of mine even admitted that most people like him would prefer an below-average-looking tall guy over a hot shorter guy.

    I really like the way I look, and I could pass for straight, and have no problems getting girls. I'm also attracted to guys who look similar to me.

    But in the gay world this pretty face is more or less useless on a top... The guys I'm into aren't into me, but would love to trade places because all I get are them big beefy guys who are not my type coming after me.

    It's not like I want to top guys who are average or taller; I tend to go after guys my size, but even guys who are several inches shorter than me think I'm too short for them!

    #rant
  • whytehot

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    Sep 13, 2014 11:13 PM GMT
    Lol 200 views no replies... has every shorter top out there decided to be a bottom?

    The rule I believe is to weigh more than the "passive" partner, just like it's not uncommon for shorter straight guys to be with taller girls.
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    Sep 14, 2014 4:28 AM GMT
    Honestly, I can assure you it's not your height. I know lots of short tops who get plenty of action. I hope this doesn't come across as an insult because I don't mean it to be, but...I believe it's because you're androgynous looking. If I didn't know better, I would swear the pic of you in the pink jacket was a girl, and even the pic of you drinking the beer could go either way. Bottoms especially tend to like masculine guys, so I think that might be your problem and they're just telling you it's your height to save your feelings. But if you don't know what the problem is, you can't fix it, right? I'd suggest getting rid of the feathered hair style and maybe growing some facial hair. I guarantee your sex life will change overnight.
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    Sep 14, 2014 11:05 AM GMT
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  • highforthis

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    Sep 14, 2014 5:34 PM GMT
    Yeah I know I know, the beard is super trendy in the gay world these days. Kinda annoying since so many of them are clearly compensating for feminine behavior.

    But I like the way I look, and like I said, I have no problem getting girls, so if I'm masculine enough for them, why not for the gays!?
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    Sep 14, 2014 8:12 PM GMT
    highforthis saidI rather look a lot uglier and be 6 inches taller.

    Seems like all the bottoms are looking for "tall" guys. A bottom friend of mine even admitted that most people like him would prefer an below-average-looking tall guy over a hot shorter guy.

    I really like the way I look, and I could pass for straight, and have no problems getting girls. I'm also attracted to guys who look similar to me.

    But in the gay world this pretty face is more or less useless on a top... The guys I'm into aren't into me, but would love to trade places because all I get are them big beefy guys who are not my type coming after me.

    It's not like I want to top guys who are average or taller; I tend to go after guys my size, but even guys who are several inches shorter than me think I'm too short for them!

    #rant


    bottoms who are tall want someone big bodied to man handle them and give them the sense of protection and bring out their feminine side. they don't believe a short guy can do this. of course once they find such a big bodied man and they realize he only has a baby dick, then they call for an open relationship. There's just no pleasing people.
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    Sep 14, 2014 9:26 PM GMT
    highforthis saidYeah I know I know, the beard is super trendy in the gay world these days. Kinda annoying since so many of them are clearly compensating for feminine behavior.

    But I like the way I look, and like I said, I have no problem getting girls, so if I'm masculine enough for them, why not for the gays!?




    I've had facial hair WAY before it was trendy so I'm not suggesting it to be trendy. I was suggesting it to get you laid more, which is what you're complaining about.

    Girls prefer more effeminate looking men unless they're ovulating. This has been proven in studies. Gay men tend to go for the more extreme version of masculinity. I can't tell you why, but that's the reality (in general.)

    If you're happy with yourself, that's all that matters, but you'll just have to accept you might not be getting as much sex as you like.
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    Sep 14, 2014 9:44 PM GMT
    From experience, girls can be into all kinds of guys.

    Among gays, it's closer to the Michael Fassbender variety. At least it's what gay media wants people to think

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    Sep 15, 2014 1:38 AM GMT
    I think it's all in the way you play your game. Shorter guys can easily attract taller bottoms, but you need to exhibit strength, confidence, and desirability. I have a friend (5'7) without any facial hair who was able to eventually convert a 6'2 arabic top into a submissive bottom. Everyone has buttons.
  • tajsreve

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    Sep 16, 2014 7:37 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidI think it's all in the way you play your game. Shorter guys can easily attract taller bottoms, but you need to exhibit strength, confidence, and desirability. I have a friend (5'7) without any facial hair who was able to eventually convert a 6'2 arabic top into a submissive bottom. Everyone has buttons.


    DAMN this is so true. I should have read this before I posted on the other forum. I needed this reminder. Thanks.
  • highforthis

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    Sep 19, 2014 8:13 PM GMT
    ^^haha that is encouraging!