Confused

  • Slender95

    Posts: 41

    Sep 10, 2014 6:54 AM GMT
    So like I'm 19 and still a Virgin...I come accross guys that define themselves as top,bottom,vers etc and that really confuses me....I do know that one day I wanna have sex with a Man but I really don't understand all these bottom,top stuff...I would like to know how do you determine all those stuff and please be patient with me coz I am still new to the gay world scene....I don't wanna emberass myself just when I'm about to have sex with the Man of my dreams please help...
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    Sep 10, 2014 1:15 PM GMT
    You determine top, bottom, verse etc based on what you enjoy more and if you don't know yet try it all lol
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    Sep 10, 2014 1:56 PM GMT
    Those really should be verbs and not nouns. You shouldn't define yourself by what you enjoy in the bedroom to give and get pleasure.
  • GaeTim

    Posts: 1

    Sep 10, 2014 3:15 PM GMT
    Hi Pukszen, I remember being in your situation when I first came out only I was about 28 and married to a woman! Man it's been a long haul but a good journey since.

    It's real simple actually, top is the one fucking, bottom is the one getting fucked and vers is someone who will do both.

    You seem to be taking your time, doing it right and I say good for you http://c.rjstatic.com/images/icon_biggrin.gif
    So good luck in your journey and please remember to be safe.
    Tim
  • Slender95

    Posts: 41

    Sep 10, 2014 5:27 PM GMT
    Hahaha but the problem is that I don't know where I fall under....All I know is that I want a normal but good sex and affection...I like romance..Thank you all guys for taking your time to explain all this...