Would you give flowers to a guy? How would you feel if a guy gave you flowers?

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    Sep 11, 2014 9:44 PM GMT
    You are going on a date, guy gives you flowers
    Or you are going on a date, you buy flowers to a guy

    I had this conversation with one person, let's just say or views where completely opposite
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    Sep 11, 2014 9:46 PM GMT
    If I know he likes flowers, yes.
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    Sep 11, 2014 9:50 PM GMT
    I'm allergic
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    Sep 11, 2014 9:53 PM GMT
    I like to give.....&.....I like to receive!

    Actually, I make all the gifts I give. :-)
  • Kazachok

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    Sep 11, 2014 11:33 PM GMT
    Yes, flowers are very nice. Expensive, unless you grow them, but nice.
    I would be flattered.
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    Sep 11, 2014 11:34 PM GMT
    If I liked him a lot I'd probably think it's sweet, but I generally don't care much for flowers.
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    Sep 11, 2014 11:35 PM GMT
    I don't want flowers. I'm not giving flowers. Flowers are not my thing. Now chocolates are a different story.
  • Webster666

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    Sep 11, 2014 11:56 PM GMT
    Nobody has ever brought me flowers or anything else.
    I'm very thoughtful. I even give chocolates to my chiropractor, and he loves it.

    The thing is that you cared enough to do something thoughtful, not whether he liked flowers.
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    Sep 11, 2014 11:57 PM GMT
    I think it's a sweet gesture, but I don't care for flowers.
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    Sep 12, 2014 12:20 AM GMT
    For several months I found myself single and began dating. One, ten years younger with a body to die for, picked me up at my door in his Hummer (figures) and on the way to our destination he saw a lady selling bouquets on the side of the road and pulled over, bought one, and gave it to me to hold. I was so stupid I gave it back to him when we arrived. They were for me. I thought about it and realized "Yeah, I'd like flowers!"
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    Sep 12, 2014 3:28 AM GMT
    Hell yes I would give a guy I truly cared about or loved flowers, especially on his birthday and during Valentine's day. And yes I would like receiving flowers. Flowers are from nature and it says to a person, "you matter to me that I would try to figure out the best way to say I love you from nature." Well that's just my opinion, but I'm a romantic by nature I guess.
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    Sep 12, 2014 3:36 AM GMT
    atlanticshore saidYou are going on a date, guy gives you flowers
    Or you are going on a date, you buy flowers to a guy

    I had this conversation with one person, let's just say or views where completely opposite


    I wish this was a world where men could give men flowers. Whatever is in your heart and mind at the time that expresses it in nature should be expressed. I would take flowers right now far more than a lusty, sweaty, hard body with a nice looking dick. Flowers are precious things... Like the tears of God.
  • Webster666

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    Sep 12, 2014 6:55 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidFor several months I found myself single and began dating. One, ten years younger with a body to die for, picked me up at my door in his Hummer (figures) and on the way to our destination he saw a lady selling bouquets on the side of the road and pulled over, bought one, and gave it to me to hold. I was so stupid I gave it back to him when we arrived. They were for me. I thought about it and realized "Yeah, I'd like flowers!"



    I like that. Very nice.
    One time, my ex partner came home with flowers and made a point of announcing that they were for the house. Whoa, if I didn't know before, I knew then that the relationship was over.
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    Sep 12, 2014 7:11 AM GMT
    No flowers on a first date! You don't even know the guy. As pointed out, he might hate flowers. The date could also be a complete bust, and you could feel foolish for having done so. Or, he might think that you are pushy or desperate, and will try to get away ASAP.

    All that said, once you get to know each other, if you discover he likes flowers, sure, give him flowers on a romantic date or special occasion.
  • buddycat

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    Sep 12, 2014 10:10 AM GMT
    I would like to get flowers from a guy I never met, that's Impulse!! Actually not, because if I wasn't attracted to him and accept them it may be taken the wrong way unless it was just a friendly gesture. I would rather get them after a few dates.
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    Sep 12, 2014 10:47 AM GMT
    Inside every man lives the seed of a flower, if he looks within he finds beauty and power.

    I wouldn't mind, any gesture is fine by me but id prefer a plant icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 12, 2014 3:11 PM GMT
    silver_phoenix saidFlowers are for breeders.


    You're such a hater haha
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    Sep 12, 2014 3:11 PM GMT
    Webster666 said
    eagermuscle saidFor several months I found myself single and began dating. One, ten years younger with a body to die for, picked me up at my door in his Hummer (figures) and on the way to our destination he saw a lady selling bouquets on the side of the road and pulled over, bought one, and gave it to me to hold. I was so stupid I gave it back to him when we arrived. They were for me. I thought about it and realized "Yeah, I'd like flowers!"



    I like that. Very nice.
    One time, my ex partner came home with flowers and made a point of announcing that they were for the house. Whoa, if I didn't know before, I knew then that the relationship was over.


    Can you explain?
  • Sunny_x9

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    Sep 12, 2014 4:11 PM GMT
    hhmm
    how to say , anyway
    as by my choice or nature I m top
    and when I use to date a teen guy I use to get
    Flowers to him (give to him in a private place though)
    but he liked it . but I don't like if he gave me flowers
    (he never did that anyway)
    well so that's how it is with me
    take care
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    Sep 12, 2014 4:53 PM GMT
    Flowers are nice to give and receive, but not on a first date IMHO. They're best given when you go to someone's home for dinner, a visit, or something private - and practical, so the flowers can be properly cut and arranged. I like when people give me flowers and I've never had anyone I've given them to object.
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    Sep 12, 2014 4:55 PM GMT
    Sweetooth said
    Webster666 said
    eagermuscle saidFor several months I found myself single and began dating. One, ten years younger with a body to die for, picked me up at my door in his Hummer (figures) and on the way to our destination he saw a lady selling bouquets on the side of the road and pulled over, bought one, and gave it to me to hold. I was so stupid I gave it back to him when we arrived. They were for me. I thought about it and realized "Yeah, I'd like flowers!"



    I like that. Very nice.
    One time, my ex partner came home with flowers and made a point of announcing that they were for the house. Whoa, if I didn't know before, I knew then that the relationship was over.


    Can you explain?


    The cost difference between saying the flowers were for "the house" or for his partner would have been $0. Now ex-partner just wanted to be a nasty ass.
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    Sep 12, 2014 5:20 PM GMT
    I can honestly say that I have never received a gift that I didn't appreciate.

    And YEAH - I LOVE flowers.

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    Sep 12, 2014 5:25 PM GMT
    Sure why not, it's sweet.

    Though after a few dates, something more tanigable and expensive would be nice.
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    Sep 12, 2014 5:26 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidSure why not, it's sweet.

    Though after a few dates, something more tanigable and expensive would be nice.


    How are you not a gold digger?
  • BoyKrazy

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    Sep 12, 2014 5:30 PM GMT
    I would totally give a guy flowers and would happily accept them as well!