Is it wise to fall in love with a guy that stays overseas??

  • Slender95

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    Sep 12, 2014 11:27 AM GMT
    I have this weakness of mine of finding overseas guys HOT!!like for instance I was chatting with a guy from New York...We never spoke that much but I can tell I am falling for him because he said he is a down to earth kinda guy,he is mascular and he is a sensitive Man....I can love this Man with all my heart but he stays in New York!!Not only is that country far from mine but damn there are also kinda too HOT guys over-there!!So like I don't know if I can continue conversation with this Man but he is a good Man!!Oh please Guys I need advice...I fear that I might be falling for what is impossible to even happen!!
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    Sep 12, 2014 11:43 AM GMT
    U are like me . U like people u can't love!
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    Sep 12, 2014 2:46 PM GMT
    a husband should be your biggest investment. dont know why anyone would want to setup for failure on a process that is difficult at best for the average situation.

    didnt they made a song; finding love in a hopeless place. can be done i guess.
  • Sunny_x9

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    Sep 12, 2014 4:35 PM GMT
    hi
    U gave ur preferences in that guy and said
    U wud love him whole hearted
    and, there wud be lot of other hot guys in that location
    where is that whole hearted love if u have so many
    other hot guys in ur mind already
    well, that's what I think
    anyway , take care
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    Sep 12, 2014 6:45 PM GMT
    Yes it is,
    Otherwise he's around to ruin the fantasy you built up in your head about him
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    Sep 12, 2014 6:47 PM GMT
    I find that foreign men bring a lot less bullshit with them and their laundry lists are a lot shorter.
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    Sep 12, 2014 6:53 PM GMT
    It's like Hispanics say: "Amor de lejos es amor de pendejos".
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    Sep 12, 2014 8:05 PM GMT
    guido4life saidU are like me . U like people u can't love!


    So funny. It's easier to "love" someone you rarely ever see. Especially if you have an open relationship and are sexually incompatible. You still get bragging rights for the amount of time invested in the charade. Especially on websites such as this.
    And if they die you can consider yourself their "widow." No need to actually attend their funeral.
    These relationships work best for those fearful of intimacy.
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    Sep 12, 2014 9:48 PM GMT
    It's definitely not wise to fall for guys that live in another country. There have to be some nice young men nearby. I know it's hard, but you have to put yourself out there.
  • BloodFlame

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    Sep 13, 2014 12:16 AM GMT
    Oh sure... I remember following for a guy who lived overseas and it was hard to accept that it wasn't to be. Now, if you or the other person is a traveler, I don't see what's wrong keeping the field open in the chance that you'll meet but if not, it's best that you look in your ares (or near your area) unless you feel you can handle a long distance relationship.
  • being_human

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    Sep 13, 2014 5:25 AM GMT
    canadian_stud saidYes it is,
    Otherwise he's around to ruin the fantasy you built up in your head about him


    touche'.
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    Sep 13, 2014 6:22 AM GMT
    kevex saidIt's like Hispanics say: "Amor de lejos es amor de pendejos".


    megusta
  • secondstartot...

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    Sep 13, 2014 9:06 AM GMT
    no
  • Slender95

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    Sep 13, 2014 12:26 PM GMT
    guido4life saidU are like me . U like people u can't love!


    No I don't like them but I love them!!They become friendly,caring and that just makes me weak....I'm really falling in for such guys...
  • Slender95

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    Sep 13, 2014 12:29 PM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidI find that foreign men bring a lot less bullshit with them and their laundry lists are a lot shorter.


    Yeah!And they just become everything I ever wanted in a Man....Oh and their friendlyness shows care,love and kindness...
  • Slender95

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    Sep 13, 2014 12:30 PM GMT
    kevex saidIt's like Hispanics say: "Amor de lejos es amor de pendejos".


    It sounds dope dude!!Mind to translate in English though??
  • Slender95

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    Sep 13, 2014 12:35 PM GMT
    BloodFlame saidOh sure... I remember following for a guy who lived overseas and it was hard to accept that it wasn't to be. Now, if you or the other person is a traveler, I don't see what's wrong keeping the field open in the chance that you'll meet but if not, it's best that you look in your ares (or near your area) unless you feel you can handle a long distance relationship.


    Yeah there Guys that are hot,attractive and sweet but still they aren't overseas!!Even if they were to say they visited many states but still I like those permanent guys....I've done distance friendship but I don't think I will survive with a distance relationship...
  • Slender95

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    Sep 13, 2014 12:37 PM GMT
    BloodFlame saidOh sure... I remember following for a guy who lived overseas and it was hard to accept that it wasn't to be. Now, if you or the other person is a traveler, I don't see what's wrong keeping the field open in the chance that you'll meet but if not, it's best that you look in your ares (or near your area) unless you feel you can handle a long distance relationship.


    Yeah there Guys that are hot,attractive and sweet but still they aren't overseas!!Even if they were to say they visited many states but still I like those permanent guys....I've done distance friendship but I don't think I will survive with a distance relationship...
  • vhotti26

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    Sep 13, 2014 1:21 PM GMT
    How can you say you love anyone if you have never met the person? Are you frickin serious?
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    Sep 13, 2014 2:39 PM GMT
    Which is the larger number? My shoe size or the OP's IQ? Me thinks it's the former.

    Aren't you the same guy who two days ago was in love with a married man and was going to work as his "gardner" so you and him could make hot passionate love behind his wife's back? :/
  • Slender95

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    Sep 13, 2014 3:11 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidWhich is the larger number? My shoe size or the OP's IQ? Me thinks it's the former.

    Aren't you the same guy who two days ago was in love with a married man and was going to work as his "gardner" so you and him could make hot passionate love behind his wife's back? :/



    lool Nah Man It was not like that!!Now you make me sound like a whore...What I meant was that this Guy came with a proposal for me....And besides Man I did not accept it but I was hell considering it and I must say that There are also local guys I like but I find overseas guys interesting....
  • Slender95

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    Sep 13, 2014 3:14 PM GMT
    vhotti26 saidHow can you say you love anyone if you have never met the person? Are you frickin serious?



    Some Guys you can just tell by the way they speak that they are good or bad...Speak I mean what they write...Yes they might be telling me what I wanna hear but I know the difference between being real and pretending...
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    Sep 13, 2014 4:55 PM GMT
    No it's not.

    it's not wise, it's desperate.

    & not realistic.

    total waste of time.
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    Sep 13, 2014 9:03 PM GMT
    Pukszen24 said
    guido4life saidU are like me . U like people u can't love!


    No I don't like them but I love them!!They become friendly,caring and that just makes me weak....I'm really falling in for such guys...
    me as well man , it's not good !!!
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    Sep 13, 2014 9:33 PM GMT
    there is this Lebanese hunk and he should be having babies with those great genes ! icon_biggrin.gif