Group sex.

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    Sep 13, 2014 3:29 AM GMT
    I can't stop thinking about sex with at least a couple of guys at the same time. X
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    Sep 13, 2014 3:44 AM GMT
    I know it will happen sooner or later. Would love some advice on how to handle myself when it does happen. Xx
  • Apparition

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    Sep 13, 2014 4:09 AM GMT
    dont be in a relationship when it happens, ends poorly.
    also, much easier in a hot tub.
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    Sep 13, 2014 4:12 AM GMT
    Thanks for the advice. I'm not in a relationship just now. Xx
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    Sep 13, 2014 4:27 AM GMT
    Oh and I love the hot tub suggestion. I'll have to find some horny guys to join me. Xxxx
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    Sep 13, 2014 6:11 AM GMT
    Any takers. I'm willing to travel. Xx
  • vhotti26

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    Sep 13, 2014 1:20 PM GMT
    Group sex and even threesomes are more hassle than they are worth. I prefer a good one on one anytime.
  • Svnw688

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    Sep 15, 2014 3:38 PM GMT
    Oh back when I was just out of college I did a few group sex sessions. Always LATE at night after drinking (translation: horny and impaired), but always SAFE. It's really hot, and something everyone should safely (translation: condom) do if they're thinking about it. It's really hot.

    I went over to bottom for a guy, and while we were going at it other guys started dropping by. He was texting. I knew what was up, and was super horny, so I went along with it. I took it for a few hours. Really hot and safe time.

    Do it (safely) if you want. You probably won't regret it. But I completely agree that on a regular basis, that would be way too much coordination and trouble than a simple 1 on 1, which is the best for day to day needs. Think of group sex as similar to Xmas, something that happens (at most) once a year.
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 15, 2014 3:54 PM GMT
    I've done it before settling down. Can be fun. Can be boring. Depends on the guys. Obviously. I only went to one anonymous group and it turned out to be a bunch of bottoms all hoping to be the only one surrounded by a roomful of tops... lol I just left. Just be realistic in your expectations and more prepared to laugh than recreate the best porn scene of your life. And be careful. Remember, lots of communicable things can communicate even with condoms in use.
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    Sep 15, 2014 5:01 PM GMT
    I think bottoms enjoy group sex more than tops. I have even seen it online where most of the guys looking for group sex are bottoms. Anyway, I have never done it.
  • oldfart

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    Sep 15, 2014 6:47 PM GMT
    3+ can be a lot of fun, especially because we play safe - I think the extra players sorta make up for the less intense activity.

    My best ones have been when everyone enters into it as team work: there's a common goal, everyone gets to play, and some guys are just better at some "specialties" than others. But that team spirit is what makes it come together:icon_exclaim.gif

    When it doesn't work, everybody ease up and laugh with each other (not *at* each other, OK?)

    When you're just starting out, choose your fellow players carefully, and it's good to talk about it bit first - so you're all on the same page. And go easy on yourself - give yourself space to learn and practice up.

    Go team!
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    Sep 16, 2014 4:39 AM GMT
    It's called "gang bang" with the jerk off.

    Otherwise, its just multiple penetrations.

    Done them all. Don't like someone in my ass.

    But in saying that, I recently did a threesome (2 men and a lady) which was quite nice. Might do it again

    Tommy
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    Sep 16, 2014 7:25 AM GMT
    TravelinMan saidIt's called "gang bang" with the jerk off.

    Otherwise, its just multiple penetrations.

    Done them all. Don't like someone in my ass.

    Tommy


    Thanks for that image. Brb. Going to kill myself.

    Jonny
  • oldfart

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    Sep 16, 2014 7:56 PM GMT
    TravelinMan saidIt's called "gang bang" with the jerk off.

    Otherwise, its just multiple penetrations.

    Done them all. Don't like someone in my ass.

    Tommy

    Hmm... Never seen *any* anal play in the ones I've been part of.

    Maybe there is more than one way to play the game.

    (And I don't like anal either - haven't done that for 35 years, but who's counting?)
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 16, 2014 8:06 PM GMT
    You guys are no fun.
  • xBEHEMOTHx

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    Sep 16, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    I've had a few group sessions..mostly with 2 bottoms and myself or one a guy just wanted to watch his fb take it from another guy..they can be fun but exhaustive especially if your the only top
  • vhotti26

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    Sep 16, 2014 8:59 PM GMT
    xBEHEMOTHx saidI've had a few group sessions..mostly with 2 bottoms and myself or one a guy just wanted to watch his fb take it from another guy..they can be fun but exhaustive especially if your the only top


    It's just a hassle, you have to switch condoms all the time when switching. Sucks.
    Only time I enjoyed a threesome was when I was in the middle of a sandwich. That can be fun.
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    Sep 17, 2014 4:35 AM GMT
    Well, everyone has to have a good sense of humor, because 3/4 of the stuff that you've fantasized about isn't physically possible. You can have a good time trying, but recognize when it's time to try something else.

    Group gropes (no penetration) can also be pretty fun. But everyone can't just go for the hottest person.
  • TommyM4M1958

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    Sep 17, 2014 5:20 AM GMT
    Hi, when I was 16, I met a 30 year old man.I had heared he was gay. He owned a small bussiness and I was in the closet. I wanted out so bad but was scared.I begged him for a job. Eventually we were talking and he told me he was gay. I admited that was why I asked for the job. He asked what exactly I wanted. I told him I had always wanted to try sex with a guy. He made love to me and I told him I wanted him to help me make sure I would never stop wanting men. I moved in with him and within a week he started sharing me his friends. It started out as 3 somes and eventually it grew into 3 men, then 4 evintually as many as 6. I have continued this through th years. Safely since the late 70's. It is very addictive, but very erotic. Needless to say, he gave me exactly what I ask for. He died 17 years ago, but I still look for kinki guys to fulfill my erotic needs. Safety is a must these days. So if your thinking about trying my lifestyle, please be safe. Condoms are cheap. Have fun. TommyM4M1958 ;)
  • oldfart

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    Sep 17, 2014 7:05 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidWell, everyone has to have a good sense of humor, because 3/4 of the stuff that you've fantasized about isn't physically possible. You can have a good time trying, but recognize when it's time to try something else.

    Group gropes (no penetration) can also be pretty fun. But everyone can't just go for the hottest person.

    Roger that.
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    Sep 20, 2014 4:23 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]oldfart said[/cite]3+ can be a lot of fun, especially because we play safe - I think the extra players sorta make up for the less intense activity.

    My best ones have been when everyone enters into it as team work: there's a common goal, everyone gets to play, and some guys are just better at some "specialties" than others. But that team spirit is what makes it come together:icon_exclaim.gif

    When it doesn't work, everybody ease up and laugh with each other (not *at* each other, OK?)

    When you're just starting out, choose your fellow players carefully, and it's good to talk about it bit first - so you're all on the same page. And go easy on yourself - give yourself space to learn and practice up.

    Go team![/quote


    Are you talking about soccer, football teams?? hahaha who scores first takes the ball the whole game?

    Its not my thing, though I respect that
  • oldfart

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    Nov 28, 2014 5:01 AM GMT
    On that "teamwork" thing, laugh all you like - that's a good thing - and also check out wiki *Team sports:

    a group of individuals:
    on the same team,
    work together
    to accomplish an ultimate goal
    with a set of rules –
    players working together equally
    in a supportive, trusting atmosphere,
    communicate,
    each athlete has patience and perseverance since the goal might take some time to meet.

    When sex is play, then we're the players, right? Athletes? Whether it''s one-on-one or more. This is, after all, Real *Jock*...

    The *good* groups I've been in worked like this - everyone on the same team, safe, healthy and fun. Fun's the whole point, isn't it?
    And it helps to practice...icon_biggrin.gif