What is the point of being mean here?

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    Sep 16, 2014 5:00 PM GMT
    Yeah, some of My words have been harsh...but they were a response.

    I came on here a long time ago.

    We didn't always agree but We got along.

    What the hell happened???
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:03 PM GMT
    Dunno, the meanies usually just get their asses handed to them like what happened to Pazz and Jonny last night or MisfitToy had his nudes leaked and posted everywhere. Karma is a bitch and it's fun to watch.

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    Sep 16, 2014 5:05 PM GMT
    I see this thread turning out very well.
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:13 PM GMT
    I am learning it is a communication issue... I blurted out stuff for a long time without providing any reasoning and I guess I got what I deserved for that. But now I am learning how to communicate with total strangers in a way that protects my underlying issues rather than expose them totally and offending people. I am learning the difference between what is mine and what is theirs. I will walk the fine line as best I can everywhere on this earth.
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:16 PM GMT
    " you shouldn’t feed the trolls by giving them attention.

    The evidence suggests that negative feedback can perhaps actually create trolls.

    It also suggests that people getting negative feedback are more likely to give others negative feedback, too, spreading the infection."

    http://cs.stanford.edu/people/jure/pubs/disqus-icwsm14.pdf


    The smarties at Stanford confirm what we already know.
    Now if we were only wise enough to practice it.
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:21 PM GMT
    It all depends on what your definition of MEAN is

    Are you saying MEAN as in cursing at other people name calling being racist MEAN

    Or MEAN as in being opinionated on what you believe in and standing up for your rights and for others MEAN kind of way?
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:21 PM GMT
    He started it...
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:28 PM GMT



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    Sep 16, 2014 5:36 PM GMT
    kevex saidDunno, the meanies usually just get their asses handed to them like what happened to Pazz and Jonny last night or MisfitToy had his nudes leaked and posted everywhere. Karma is a bitch and it's fun to watch.


    look, who is talking about Karma! You go around talking shit about people even without any provcation. I wonder how pathetic and sad your life is.
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:38 PM GMT
    It is really that hard to not talk to someone who's a jerk? It takes little effort to not respond lol
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:45 PM GMT
    kevex saidDunno, the meanies usually just get their asses handed to them like what happened to Pazz and Jonny last night or MisfitToy had his nudes leaked and posted everywhere. Karma is a bitch and it's fun to watch.



    LOL. Orly? What happened to me last night????
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:55 PM GMT
    Can't love all of gods creations:
    This forum is odd; by blocking just 1 or 2 members you can really change how this place appears. It really depends what you are looking to do. If you want to argue on the internet you can't expect a lot.
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:56 PM GMT
    Some guys just fancy themselves as divas.icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 16, 2014 5:59 PM GMT
    IDK, but I stopped trying to figure it out. I just scroll past it and respond to the people who seem actually on here to engage in a good way. There are plenty of smart and hot guys on here (and some that are both!). Cash, I always enjoy your posts.
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    Sep 16, 2014 6:02 PM GMT
    pellaz saidCan't love all of gods creations:
    This forum is odd; by blocking just 1 or 2 members you can really change how this place appears. It really depends what you are looking to do. If you want to argue on the internet you can't expect a lot.


    Yeah, I blocked jmusmc85, Scrufypup, venue, dannyboy, Pazzy but they keep coming to me. Ughhh icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 16, 2014 6:05 PM GMT
    kevex said
    pellaz saidCan't love all of gods creations:
    This forum is odd; by blocking just 1 or 2 members you can really change how this place appears. It really depends what you are looking to do. If you want to argue on the internet you can't expect a lot.


    Yeah, I blocked jmusmc85, Scrufypup, venue, dannyboy, Pazzy but they keep coming to me. Ughhh icon_confused.gif


    Hey fatboy, answer my question. What happened to me last nite???
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    Sep 16, 2014 6:08 PM GMT
    tmac saidIt is really that hard to not talk to someone who's a jerk? It takes little effort to not respond lol


    ouh please, op is a lying sc*m
    he is such a sh*thead
    he is pathetic
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    Sep 16, 2014 6:40 PM GMT
    Who knows icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 16, 2014 7:40 PM GMT
    http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/monkey-cage/wp/2014/09/09/why-reddit-sucks-some-scientific-evidence/

    Before responding to a Meanie, keep this in mind:



    Trolls and poor quality posters get far more encouragement from negative attention than good posters get from positive attention.


    Some people thrive on negative feedback and find it affirming.


    Such people both infect others and

    drive away nearly everyone else.
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    Sep 16, 2014 7:51 PM GMT
    Most people on RJ are not mean, just a very vocal minority. I think the following comments (taken from an active RJ profile) sum up the value of this site far better than I could:

    "I joined this site about 5 or 6 years ago as a torso who wouldn't even show his face in the chatroom. (And believe it or not, I did come for the workout advice haha) I've talked to, and have met so many cool people. Honestly the friendships that I built on RJ before I was completely comfortable in my skin with being gay helped give me the strength to be myself and live an open honest life. For a long time, it was my only outlet. You guys helped completely change my perspective of what it meant to be gay and in doing so helped me evolve into the confident, happy person I am today. So anyway, sap fest over. To put it succinctly in one word, THANKS icon_smile.gif"
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    Sep 16, 2014 8:17 PM GMT
    pazzy saidcan we or most of us agree that kevex only purpose here is to be an annoyance to everybody in here? i think its best that we all should just put him on ignore or report him.


    I tots agree bitch
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    Sep 16, 2014 8:19 PM GMT
    pazzy saidcan we or most of us agree that kevex only purpose here is to be an annoyance? icon_lol.gif


    Just leave it or he'll say you're attacking his character. Don't play into his hands icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 16, 2014 8:21 PM GMT
    He maybe was annoyance when I was gone from this place, but since I am back i don't see how Kevex is being a bigger troll than any of you RJ forum ''stars''
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    Sep 16, 2014 8:23 PM GMT
    atlanticshore saidHe maybe was annoyance when I was gone from this place, but since I am back i don't see how Kevex is being a bigger troll than any of you RJ forum ''stars''


    I have come to realize there are no such things as trolls on RJ. People just call each other a troll when someone says something they dont like.... kinda like a small child
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    Sep 16, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
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    atlanticshore saidHe maybe was annoyance when I was gone from this place, but since I am back i don't see how Kevex is being a bigger troll than any of you RJ forum ''stars''


    yeah, you have a point BUT real talk, there's people that unintentionally do trollish behavior and there's people that intentionally do it. kevex is the latter.


    my honest opinion you were completely defeated against blackcat and I had no idea why you got all dramatic and seemed like you made fool out of yourself