Why are gay men so dramatic and fight over everything?

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    Sep 17, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
    These forums are horrible icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 17, 2014 9:16 PM GMT
    Just like when some black people that have suffered racism bash whites, or some women become feminazis and blame everything on men or even when elderly people criticize younger generations (secretly envious of youth). An exaggerated attempt to overcome or make up for a character trait by overexaggerating its opposite. They want everyone to validate them but at the same time they want "revenge" on life.

    tl;dr : A mix of overcompensation, boredom and anger towards life.
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    Sep 17, 2014 9:18 PM GMT
    I'm not!! icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 17, 2014 9:51 PM GMT
    Also I wanted to add that a lot of people think that by being harsh towards others, they will be happy. Like using racism to end racism or sexism to end sexism. It's counterproductive. They will achieve nothing. Just like someone once said: "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of harming another". You're just making things worse. People need to learn to just let go and stop getting butthurt so easily. We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. If you keep bumping on shit from the past, you wont have a bright future.
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    Sep 17, 2014 11:01 PM GMT
    l0stcanvas saidThese forums are horrible icon_neutral.gif


    LOL icon_biggrin.gif

    I expected a statement of purpose and then just that..

    Almost died :S icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 17, 2014 11:03 PM GMT
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    Sep 17, 2014 11:03 PM GMT
    tmac saidI'm not!! icon_cool.gif


    I'll second that! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 17, 2014 11:05 PM GMT
    dayumm saidwhy_must_everything_be_a_contest_t_shirt



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    Sep 17, 2014 11:17 PM GMT
    dayumm saidwhy_must_everything_be_a_contest_t_shirt



    Hehehe
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    Sep 17, 2014 11:17 PM GMT
    dayumm said
    tmac saidI'm not!! icon_cool.gif


    I'll second that! icon_biggrin.gif


    Thanks I try. Well technically I don't try. That's the secret icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 17, 2014 11:38 PM GMT
    i think a lot of them really get off on it.

    still others just have nothing whatsoever going on in their lives and this 'drama' substitutes; it fills their day.
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    Sep 18, 2014 12:13 AM GMT
    kevex saidJust like when some black people that have suffered racism bash whites, or some women become feminazis and blame everything on men or even when elderly people criticize younger generations (secretly envious of youth). An exaggerated attempt to overcome or make up for a character trait by overexaggerating its opposite. They want everyone to validate them but at the same time they want "revenge" on life.

    tl;dr : A mix of overcompensation, boredom and anger towards life.


    Whether I agree with you or not, this is actually well stated.
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    Sep 18, 2014 12:14 AM GMT
    Because fuck you, that's why.

    Kidding. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Unnamed6

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    Sep 18, 2014 12:16 AM GMT
    And I say such because what I read from you before was rather dull writing...
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    Sep 18, 2014 1:42 AM GMT
    Unnamed6 saidAnd I say such because what I read from you before was rather dull writing...



    huh?
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    Sep 18, 2014 2:05 AM GMT
    Some get hijacked by assholes but many don't. Just because there are a few crazies with nauseating agendas scattered through doesn't reduce the validity of most of the opinions. I find the Ignor button useful and some OP's I just don't read if the topic is just more of a stupid theme already discussed. In any open forum you'll get varying levels of smart/dumb, nice/ugly, sane/nuts. Don't paint all guys here with the same brush.
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    Sep 18, 2014 2:09 AM GMT
    kevex said
    Unnamed6 saidAnd I say such because what I read from you before was rather dull writing...



    huh?


    Not that I fully presumed such about you really, but your prior writing indicated, for the lack of a better word, that you might be dull. And yet, what you just wrote didn't seem that dull at all.
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    Sep 18, 2014 2:10 AM GMT
    do they fight over food? car? transportation? animals? frogs? pets? insects? bugs? roaches? ants?
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    Sep 18, 2014 2:25 AM GMT
    l0stcanvas saidWhy are gay men so dramatic and fight over everything?

    Ooooh! What can we do to make you stay? (Assuming that's you, of course.)
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    Sep 18, 2014 2:43 AM GMT
    l0stcanvas saidThese forums are horrible icon_neutral.gif

    And to think, it took a newbie to let us know our forums sucked!
    Let's hear it for the outsider... I think he's onto something.
    But seriously guys, he's right. RJ is not what is once was.
    Kinda sad...icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 18, 2014 3:45 AM GMT
    I haven't been here long, so my views are pretty neutral since I haven't seen anything. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 18, 2014 7:13 AM GMT
    Fear of rejection and humiliation.

    It's easier to put others down and be bitchy when you're looking up to other divas.
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    Sep 18, 2014 12:16 PM GMT
    If it helps, it wasn't always like this.
    It used to be nice and the bitch fights weren't to this degree you see now on the forums. To be honest even I felt a bit of a shock coming back seeing everything super different.
    The tone of the website all the way to it's content.
    It's just different.