Feeling quite inferior.

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    Sep 21, 2014 11:42 AM GMT
    I only joined up here last week as this site was mentioned on a gay website in the UK so thought I would join up. I must say though that am feeling quite inferior on here due to this site being awash with muscle mary`s icon_wink.gif
    Do I need to get myself henched up a bit and a six pack to fit in here icon_question.gificon_question.gif
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    Sep 21, 2014 11:45 AM GMT
    Nope! just learn how to get attention and you fit perfectly in.

    Ah! i already see that coming.. welcome Bro!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 21, 2014 11:49 AM GMT
    Welcome to RJ!

    You look great! There are all types on here, so just keep doing what makes you happy.
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    Sep 21, 2014 11:52 AM GMT
    Inferior to who?
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    Sep 21, 2014 12:09 PM GMT
    Thanks Leo and runnerjc icon_smile.gif

    Inferior to all these hot ripped guys I see on the homepage Bonapart icon_confused.gif

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    Sep 21, 2014 12:11 PM GMT
    Billybob74 saidThanks Leo and runnerjc icon_smile.gif

    Inferior to all these hot ripped guys I see on the homepage Bonapart icon_confused.gif



    you can start working out then
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    Sep 21, 2014 12:15 PM GMT

    you can start working out then [/quote]

    Lol, im too old and long in the tooth to start any long drawn out health regime to gain some abs.
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    Sep 21, 2014 1:02 PM GMT
    Welcome! There are all kinds of guys on this site. Glad you're here.
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    Sep 21, 2014 2:19 PM GMT
    Use it as a motivation. Have patience, and work out. There are many guys here over 40 who started working out in their 40s, and they look great. Also, this website doesn't represent the general gay population out there. You look good.
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    Sep 21, 2014 4:38 PM GMT
    Just remember this

    There will always be someone with a better body, and more attractive than you.

    So get comfortable with yourself and there will be no need to feel the urge to "fit in" here.

    I'm no where near as big as half the guys on this forum.

    I also have a small frame; can put my fingers around my wrist really good test for that.

    So I know I will never be as big without possibly juicing or working my ass off beyond belief.

    So ya, athleticism isn't just about being big.

    I have so much energy and can play tennis, soccer, or hockey for hours without getting tired, I just can't lift as large of weights and get as big as other guys.

    Doesn't mean like I said I'm not athletic.

    What I'm getting at is learn to accept there are different body types and different preferences for them as well. I personally dont like huge bulging muscles, they just remind me of blood flow and bodily functions...etc, so they're almost a turn off. I like muscular , but lean bodies.
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    Sep 21, 2014 4:41 PM GMT
    Don't sweat it. I'm slim cause I'm a notorious hardgainer. Jimmy crack corn, I don't care.
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    Sep 21, 2014 9:42 PM GMT
    Billybob74 saidLol, im too old and long in the tooth to start any long drawn out health regime to gain some abs.


    the hell you are. do it or don't but don't blame age :p
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    Sep 21, 2014 9:46 PM GMT
    TealSock saidJust remember this

    There will always be someone with a better body, and more attractive than you.

    So get comfortable with yourself and there will be no need to feel the urge to "fit in" here.

    I'm no where near as big as half the guys on this forum.

    I also have a small frame; can put my fingers around my wrist really good test for that.

    So I know I will never be as big without possibly juicing or working my ass off beyond belief.

    So ya, athleticism isn't just about being big.

    I have so much energy and can play tennis, soccer, or hockey for hours without getting tired, I just can't lift as large of weights and get as big as other guys.

    Doesn't mean like I said I'm not athletic.

    What I'm getting at is learn to accept there are different body types and different preferences for them as well. I personally dont like huge bulging muscles, they just remind me of blood flow and bodily functions...etc, so they're almost a turn off. I like muscular , but lean bodies.


    I think at some point we need to address in this society that big muscles=/=masculine, and big body=/=manly. That is some slippery slope thinking in this society.

    At least in my understanding of Asian masculinity before westernization, being manly means you're energetic and in charge.
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    Sep 21, 2014 10:47 PM GMT
    Billybob74 saidI only joined up here last week as this site was mentioned on a gay website in the UK so thought I would join up. I must say though that am feeling quite inferior on here due to this site being awash with muscle mary`s icon_wink.gif
    Do I need to get myself henched up a bit and a six pack to fit in here icon_question.gificon_question.gif

    Don't worry. Half of the profiles on this site are fakes. Pics lifted from Tumblr or bodybuilding.com or ModelMahem.com profiles. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 21, 2014 11:20 PM GMT
    xrichx said
    Billybob74 saidI only joined up here last week as this site was mentioned on a gay website in the UK so thought I would join up. I must say though that am feeling quite inferior on here due to this site being awash with muscle mary`s icon_wink.gif
    Do I need to get myself henched up a bit and a six pack to fit in here icon_question.gificon_question.gif

    Don't worry. Half of the profiles on this site are fakes. Pics lifted from Tumblr or bodybuilding.com or ModelMahem.com profiles. icon_biggrin.gif


    also this. feel free to use google reverse image search and find how many of them are stolen pics
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    Sep 22, 2014 2:51 AM GMT
    There's nothing for you to feel inferior about! Many of the pics you see are photoshopped. Plus, some muscle guys look very different in person. Just have a close look and you'll see several flaws.
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    Sep 22, 2014 2:55 AM GMT
    icon_rolleyes.gif Now he'll delete or hid himself tomorrow. Same story repeated over and over again. yawn
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:28 AM GMT
    kevex saidicon_rolleyes.gif Now he'll delete or hid himself tomorrow. Same story repeated over and over again. yawn

    He has to be MOTD first, before deleting himself! icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:56 AM GMT
    Welcome to RJ. Don't take anything or anyone too seriously here.

    No need to feel inferior. You are who you are.
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    Sep 22, 2014 5:10 AM GMT
    Aww thanks guys, on reflection after hearing that a lot of the profiles on here are fakes then ive not any need to feel too bad afterall icon_wink.gif
    We have the same problem with the English gay sites where you basically don't trust any new profile you see where the main pic is of a ripped twink/guy until you`ve done a google image search as they always tend to turn out to have lifted the pics off the net and a quick google search uncovers this icon_rolleyes.gif