Potentially violent "foreplays" with my boyfriend...?

  • Peter94

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    Sep 22, 2014 2:19 PM GMT
    I am a 5'6 slender guy and "tiny", and my current boyfriend is 6'8 and very beefy and muscular, and "huge".
    And this kind of physical size difference has always been a huge turn on to me.
    And since he himself thinks small guys like me are "cute", and he has a very dominant personality while I am much more meek and submissive in general, we will often play with each other in a certain way - I dress up in old and wornout clothes, and then he is supposed to undress me and get me into bed while I try to fight back.
    Usually he can do that without any problem at all, since he is so laughably much more powerful than I can ever hope to be, so I can barely do anything that even resembles a fight.
    But sometimes we can get carried away, and there have been occasions when he has actually torn up my shirt to get it out of the way faster.
    Also, when he is about to take off my trousers he will usually lift me with my back at him, hold his left arm all around me, and take them off with his other hand, and he has accidentally given me bruises on my upper arms three times, and he has always felt very sorry for that.
    We really love doing this both of us, but could it perhaps be too dangerous?
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    Sep 22, 2014 2:26 PM GMT
    Unless he kills you I don't think you should worry too much.
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:03 PM GMT
    you guys should post on youtube
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:10 PM GMT
    Sounds like you guys are a good fit. Just keep communicating and as long as he's looking out for you (sounds like he is), I think it's very unlikely anything truly dangerous could happen.

    What's a torn t-shirt if you're having sex that you both really enjoy?

    Edit: just saw the "safe word" post. Yes, if you're not already using one, start now.
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:12 PM GMT
    have you thought about a safe word, as in a word you agree on that you would not ordinarily say for any reason, that -- if he hears it -- he is to immediately stop what he's doing?
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:23 PM GMT
    Shoudln't you be discussing this with your "boyfriend", if he is for real?
    Otherwise, good story bro! I still prefer porn or real sex.
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:25 PM GMT
    If you`re both getting pleasure out of it which it seems you are, and know the boundaries then all is well. Don`t fret over issues that aren`t even there icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:37 PM GMT
    This looks like cheap porn fiction, I encourage you to post your story in a porn novel website.
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:52 PM GMT
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:56 PM GMT
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    Jeebus, the top's head is as big as the bottom's torso.
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    Sep 22, 2014 4:03 PM GMT
    I need to see your video. Sounds hot.
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 22, 2014 4:03 PM GMT
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    Jeebus, the top's head is as big as the bottom's torso.

    Kind of sexy, though.
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Sep 22, 2014 4:04 PM GMT
    Whether your boyfriend is fictional or not, the difference between a boyfriend and a fuck buddy in bed is that a boyfriend tends to your needs as well as his

    The guy i've been dating is alot bigger than i (taller and bigger built), even though we don't do role play (yet) he always makes sure he's hurting me. Luckily hes a gentle giant but i've still got a small build and penetration can still hurt even after being reigned in for a while, so i'll always tell him when something hurts.

    Take everyones advice and get a safe word or at least communicate properly
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    Sep 22, 2014 4:53 PM GMT
    Disturbing. Also, reminds me of pedophilia...