help me find my man

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    Sep 22, 2014 9:12 PM GMT
    so I have never had a boyfriend, just girlfriends my entire. I am very masculine, but absolutely a dominant man, and I love it so much I want to try dating a gay. It is impossible to find the man I am looking for. What can I do??
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    Sep 22, 2014 9:17 PM GMT
    Don't try and force it, it`ll happen in good time. These sites can be good for meeting guys but keep it real and be selective who you meet. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 22, 2014 9:34 PM GMT
    Awww that's so cute!
    Where have you met your girlfriends? Try the same with men.
    Are you out? Do you have gay friends?
    The easiest way is to hook up with one of your gay friend's friend.
    Or on this site, search members in your city, check their comments and send a message to whom you sympathize with. You chat, you meet, then you can "hold his hand"
    Just don't force it. Easy, tiger!
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 22, 2014 9:52 PM GMT
    GrumpyGabe saidAwww that's so cute!
    Where have you met your girlfriends? Try the same with men.
    Are you out? Do you have gay friends?
    The easiest way is to hook up with one of your gay friend's friend.
    Or on this site, search members in your city, check their comments and send a message to whom you sympathize with. You chat, you meet, then you can "hold his hand"
    Just don't force it. Easy, tiger!

    Seriously. This site. I've noticed a lot of great looking guys in Columbus. You have a much higher chance of finding the kind of guy you describe here than anywhere and you can get to know him a bit online before you actually set up a date. Start with a gym date maybe? One thing to brace yourself for, though, is that increasingly, guys don't want to hide and are not pleased to pretend to be straight everywhere but behind closed doors. It's getting to where that smacks of cowardice. Times are changing fast.
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    Sep 23, 2014 3:56 PM GMT
    Back of the queue man, can chat to me while we queue.
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:21 PM GMT
    As mentioned above, you can try searching on this site for guys who are in your area. You can also try apps like grindr or sites like plentyoffish. You probably don't want to do both, since people who are on one app are on all of the others. Good luck!
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    Sep 24, 2014 2:30 AM GMT
    Lookin4muscles saidso I have never had a boyfriend, just girlfriends my entire. I am very masculine, but absolutely a dominant man, and I love it so much I want to try dating a gay. It is impossible to find the man I am looking for. What can I do??


    It you are masculine and a top there should be a line outside your door. But if you are looking for a top that is another matter.
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    Sep 24, 2014 2:34 AM GMT
    Alpha13 said
    It you are masculine and a top there should be a line outside your door. But if you are looking for a top that is another matter.


    What I'm thinking....
    In Columbus all one needs to do is walk down the street.

    Is Wolf's still open?
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    Sep 24, 2014 5:01 AM GMT
    Lookin4muscles saidso I have never had a boyfriend, just girlfriends my entire. I am very masculine, but absolutely a dominant man, and I love it so much I want to try dating a gay. It is impossible to find the man I am looking for. What can I do??
    Lol, I love your post, it's awesome. The first piece of advice I'm going to give you is do not refer to gay guys as "a gay" or "the gay." You sound like my parents. I could just hear my mom saying, "I met a nice gay the other day at the grocery store." Or my dad saying, "there's a gay works at the Lowe's store where I buy my tools." hahaha. That has always cracked me up, "the gays." lol. Anyway, with a body like you have, and you have always been able to make your dick hard for girls, I don't think you will have too much trouble dude finding "a gay" to hook up with. They are already probably watching you. If you subtly make it known to someone you suspect is gay that you have always been curious about bisexuality, the rest will take care of itself. And for god's sakes, you being a straight boy coming out and experiencing this, do not say that you are gay, just say that you are curious. Hell, if you tell a gay guy that you have always been curious about hooking up with another guy, that gay guy will be stripping naked out of his clothes for you as you are telling him that, lol! Most gay guys, whether they admit it or not, get turned on as hell when they get to be the gay guy who you experiment with, especially for your first time dude. I'll bet you right now you have some regular friends who get a boner every time they come around you. You will know who they are because they will either always act hyper-masculine in your presence or they act strangely shy in your presence. You already know some don't you? Have fun bro.
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    Sep 24, 2014 5:52 AM GMT
    OK let me find you someone who can help you with this.

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    Sep 24, 2014 9:42 PM GMT
    Lookin4muscles saidI want to try dating a gay.


    Using the phrase 'a gay' probably isn't a good start, but good luck.
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    Sep 24, 2014 10:34 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidIt you are masculine and a top there should be a line outside your door. But if you are looking for a top that is another matter.


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  • Aleco_Graves

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    Sep 24, 2014 10:51 PM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 said
    Lookin4muscles saidI want to try dating a gay.


    Using the phrase 'a gay' probably isn't a good start, but good luck.


    Yeah, Gay guys aren't some rare animal species. Good Luck

  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 25, 2014 5:35 AM GMT
    Lookin4muscles saidso I have never had a boyfriend, just girlfriends my entire. I am very masculine, but absolutely a dominant man, and I love it so much I want to try dating a gay. It is impossible to find the man I am looking for. What can I do??

    As long as you don't want an educated man. Is English your second language??