Can you say sorry? if you we're in the wrong?

  • MartinMPL

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    Sep 22, 2014 9:28 PM GMT
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    Sep 23, 2014 1:34 PM GMT
    Okay I don't know if you're checking back on your threads but video's can no longer be embedded.
    Your previous thread and this one have both been empty.
    Just fyi icon_smile.gif

    Since I have no idea what is in your video, based right off the thread title I have been told that I'm too apologetic.
    I don't mind though, I'd rather say sorry too much than not enough.
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    Sep 23, 2014 1:44 PM GMT
    FYI: There is no apostrophe in "were."
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    Sep 23, 2014 1:55 PM GMT
    I apologize when I'm not wrong. The situation upset the other person; the news that THEY may have been wrong or the outcome is not going to be what they would have hoped is unpleasant. I'm sorry for that, even when I didn't cause it, because I take no delight in the unhappiness of others.
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    Sep 23, 2014 3:40 PM GMT
    I would apologize if I was filling the forums with spam like you always do.

    LOL now I notice this is the 2nd time this idiot spams the forum without realizing the video wasnt inserted succesfully. Shows this guy spams and goes - what a tool
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    Sep 23, 2014 3:47 PM GMT
    Yes, if you wasn't in the wrong you can still say sorry that you let or that the situation got to where it got to.
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    Sep 23, 2014 9:13 PM GMT
    I'm sorry i clicked on this thread. Lol
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:16 PM GMT
    Yes
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:25 PM GMT
    Experience have shown that whether I am in the wrong or not, I would feel a lot better afterwards to let the other guy have his way.

    Trying to get even or fight to prove a point leaves nothing emotionally to benefit, but bitterness and resentment on both sides of the argument.
  • Svnw688

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    Sep 23, 2014 11:31 PM GMT
    When I'm clearly or categorically wrong, yes I admit it and apologize, and then turn the page.

    When my wrongness is debatable then I tend to agree to disagree.

    For example. If I claim water freezes at 34 degrees F, when I later realize it freezes at 32 degrees F, then I was WRONG and I admit it.

    If I claim that Notre Dame has more NCAA football championships than any other team, but then I realize that according to the largely unacknowledged stats that technically Princeton has more from the 1800s, then my wrongness is debatable (depending on what organization you claim as the ultimate judge) and I drop the subject and simply agree to disagree.
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    Sep 24, 2014 9:51 PM GMT
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  • Shaquann

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    Sep 25, 2014 2:58 AM GMT
    Yes I admit when I am wrong, be it work or in a relationship
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    Sep 25, 2014 3:02 AM GMT
    I've apologized even though I was in the right. Even though at the time I was extremely angry. But I'm kind of a pacifist. I prefer to bury conflict quickly before it escalates.
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    Sep 25, 2014 6:46 PM GMT
    I apologize when I am wrong. But you have to convince me I am. :-/ That isn't hard to do once the ego stops getting in the way. I have not apologized when I was right, though. I have apologized for hurting the other person with when not backing down even tho I was right. It's a maturity thing. Apologize when you're wrong. Apologize for hurting someone, but don't act like you are wrong when you are right. When you are right it's the other persons job to apologize.