Prostate orgasm?

  • ChrisCashe

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    Sep 22, 2014 11:26 PM GMT
    I'm wondering if it's just an urban legend because when I bottom (I'm verse) nobody hits my spot. I've finished as a bottom, but never from my prostate. Any suggestions or stories?
  • Svnw688

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    Sep 23, 2014 5:19 AM GMT
    As bottom who can take anything, I'd say this:

    (1). I think all men are slightly different anatomically, and emotionally. Personally, on an emotional level, I like gentle intimate sex, slow strokes, long strokes, and rough sex. But I do not like extreme or BDSM type sex. So for me, I wouldn't enjoy a guy who started spanking me while having sex, or who tried to bind me. That's just not my emotional taste.

    (2). Physically, some guys HIT THE SPOT, and others don't. The size issue isn't linear either. The best sex I've ever had is a guy who has a 7.5 or 8cut dick, and average thickness. It's perfect. Literally, when I bend over doggie position and let him pound away I feel my hole turn into a plesure chute. Nothing is hotter or feels better. You will know when it happens, you'll literally start drooling or moaning. Conversely, if a guy is too small or too large, I tend to enjoy it but not as much as the "right" size. And that's the right size for me. Perhaps you like smaller, or perhaps larger. Just experiment.

    Have fun, and when it happens, you won't even have to touch yourself, you'll cream yourself without any stroking.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 23, 2014 5:28 AM GMT
    Sleep with a bi guy!icon_idea.gif
  • vhotti26

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    Sep 23, 2014 12:10 PM GMT
    P-Spot is a true thing, you just have to find it. Also requires a very relaxed mind to attain a prostate orgasm.

    I was lucky enough to have one in my first ever bottoming experience, came hands free without even noticing I had because it was so beyond anything I had ever experienced before.

    I find thickness plays the biggest role in this, at least for me. I have had a fuck buddy for some time whose cock was literally thicker than long, guess it was only 5 inches or so, but damn man he hit that spot every single time and sent me to heaven.
    Then again I have had 8 inchers up my hole and it gave me nothing of the sort.

    I also can't say it's anything about skill or something like that, because I am a pretty good top (at least that's what I make of my rate of 'returning customers') and yet don't always get my bottoms there.

    It just has to fit, I guess. For some guys it's easier than for others; but when you know where your spot is you can switch positions accordingly. For me it's easiest in missionary with the legs pushed back so my ass is slightly raised.
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 23, 2014 2:29 PM GMT
    Yup. I've had anal orgasms. But as said very well above, it is a combination of the right size (for you), angle (position), and state of mind (your's). Amazing feeling but not necessary for a great time in bed. Don't devalue the great for the greater. Ultimately, the best sex is with the one you love.
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    Sep 23, 2014 4:42 PM GMT
    ChrisCashe saidI'm wondering if it's just an urban legend because when I bottom nobody hits my spot. I've finished as a bottom, but never from my prostate. Any suggestions or stories?


    There are guys who hit it, there are others who don't. For me the best is when the cock is about 5 inches long and I'm on top. You have to find the best position that works for you. Billy by Lelo helped me a lot to find out what's the best for me.
    Not everybody can cum without touching his junk btw, most of the time I can't either icon_cry.gif
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    Sep 23, 2014 6:47 PM GMT
    If you're really interested in exploring prostate pleasure, I'd highly recommend the book I linked below (used Amazon, but you can find it most places). Really informative and written in a very conversational style that makes it easy to understand. Plus Charlie (one of the authors) is just awesome. ;-)

    http://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Prostate-Pleasure-Exploration/dp/B00CAYJOE2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1411497867&sr=8-1&keywords=charlie+glickman
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    Sep 24, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    ChrisCashe saidI'm wondering if it's just an urban legend because when I bottom nobody hits my spot. I've finished as a bottom, but never from my prostate. Any suggestions or stories?



    Why are you a lazy bottom? If you are a good bottom, you should already know how to find your spot while your partner is inside you, maybe you need more self time practice, your top does not have x-ray vision, I guess it would be the same complaint some women have about their men, how the men cant seem to find a women's G spot, the women already know where their spot is, so should the bottoming gay man, stop blaming your tops! show them icon_confused.gif
  • Svnw688

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    Sep 24, 2014 8:32 PM GMT
    I'm going to formally invite ScruffLA to top me (a non lazy bottom) in a demonstration for OP in how a bottom and top should interact to create toe curling sex that makes you shake icon_cool.gificon_cool.gificon_cool.gif
  • takashi

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    Sep 25, 2014 7:58 PM GMT
    OHH, I want a front row seat for this!

    Svnw688 said:
    The best sex I've ever had is a guy who has a 7.5 or 8cut dick, and average thickness. It's perfect. Literally, when I bend over doggie position and let him pound away I feel my hole turn into a plesure chute. Nothing is hotter or feels better. You will know when it happens, you'll literally start drooling or moaning.

    "I feel my hole turn into a pleasure chute" exactly! Prostate stimulation is very specific. I enjoy the whole experience. I enjoy when my top penetrates me. The fact that another man's penis is entering my body itself is always mind boggling. And when my man is pounding me and my whole inside is burning up with the friction, I get really hot inside. That is what my men tell me. They love it and so do I. I rarely cum or need to cum while bottoming. That intense feeling of being intimate with another man is really amazing. That is why I bottom.
  • Svnw688

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    Sep 25, 2014 10:56 PM GMT
    @Takashi

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  • takashi

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    Sep 27, 2014 5:59 PM GMT

    To Svnw688 with Love

    Hugs and kisses...

    MMMMmmmmm...
    You're a great kisser!

    MMMMMmmmmmmm...

    Oh, hey, wait...
    We just met, well ok...

    Oh, here...
    Let me help you with that...

    Oh my gosh! "That's the biggest I've ever seen!!"

    Oh....oh... Oh, OH!
    Wait...go slow, Ohhhhh,
    Its going in.....slowly, now....
    OH! Oh...easy...Oh my God...
    Ohhhhhhhh...I can't believe its all in!

    Oh! OH! Uhhh! oh...oh...oh....uhh...oh!
    "Oh my God you're amazing, please don't stop!"

    ...And the lovemaking lasted for days...