Sep 23, 2014 4:33 AM GMT
What would you do in this situation?.. I have been casually seeing this guy for about a month now and we seem to have electric and intense chemistry. Words are cheap, but we both have said (and I am genuine) that neither of us have felt a connection like this in a long time and we really like each other a lot-- there is something there. That being said our life situations are not compatible to really BE together, but we agree we want to be good friends, have a deep meaningful relationship, and see each other and screw like rabbits when we can (maybe twice a month... obviously not enough to date each other). We have both said that we haven't been sleeping with anyone else since we met, and that we do not feel the urge to because we cant seem to stop thinking about each other, and sex with anyone else just doesn't seem desirable. I was feeling all these things, but HE was the one to bring it up. Long story short, I have found out he is online a lot, and having lots of sex with lots of different people... We have a mutual acquaintance (friend of mine) who has SHOWN me all kinds of proof. We are not boyfriends, we are free to see other people, but its bothering me that he would LIE about this? Why say that you aren't sleeping with other people and can only think about me, when that's not true? No reason to lie about it? Especially when HE is the one bringing this up?! We also talked about (again provoked by him) always being honest with each other and trusting each other... My question is-- would you say something? Or just let it go and have fun (and not trust the guy)?