Seeing a new wave of guys on Grindr

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    Sep 23, 2014 7:42 AM GMT
    The "quick to fall in love" type.

    Seriously, if I speak to someone once or twice or meet up for a coffee, it doesn't mean we're an item or exclusive. Likewise, I'm tired of being away from my phone for an hour to make dinner or something and come back to endless "oh you're ignoring me", "guess I'm not your type", "you're just like all the others" messages etc.

    All of us want our soulmate, but sometimes gay guys just try a little too hard. Back off and just go with the flow.

    /over
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    Sep 23, 2014 7:48 AM GMT
    Ethnic? I'm English...

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    Sep 23, 2014 7:59 AM GMT
    silver_phoenix said
    Jms31 saidEthnic? I'm English...

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    Don't you know what the contraction of "is not" looks like?icon_rolleyes.gif


    Not at this time in the morning, no.
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    Sep 23, 2014 7:59 AM GMT
    :s

    glad I don't have grindr :S
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    Sep 23, 2014 11:17 AM GMT
    I thought it was general knowledge that the majority of ppl that use grindr aren`t right in the head and left on the shelf icon_rolleyes.gif
    Hence why I have never used it.
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    Sep 23, 2014 12:02 PM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3918117
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    Sep 23, 2014 12:16 PM GMT
    Arnt all apps and dating sites the same though the same people and same things ?
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    Sep 23, 2014 12:27 PM GMT
    Don't think its something new. I've always been getting messages like this. Worst luck ever!
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    Sep 23, 2014 12:30 PM GMT
    Never come across this before. It's usually all NSA crap. I get tricked in to dates, sleep with the guy and never hear from him again. Suddenly it's all about love.
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    Sep 23, 2014 12:37 PM GMT
    Snaz said:s

    glad I don't have grindr :S


    I keep reading your name in smartphone forums of you reminding people you dont have a smartphone...

    For a non smart phone user you sure spend alot of time on smartphone forums icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Sep 23, 2014 12:56 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidNever come across this before. It's usually all NSA crap. I get tricked in to dates, sleep with the guy and never hear from him again. Suddenly it's all about love.


    I`d say its more you who has the issues then if you are letting guys trick you into bed sleeping at the drop of a hat.
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    Sep 23, 2014 1:37 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidNever come across this before. It's usually all NSA crap. I get tricked in to dates, sleep with the guy and never hear from him again. Suddenly it's all about love.


    People lie... You should know that by now.
    I think theres a bigger issue as to why you let these guys take advantage of you over and over again.

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    Sep 23, 2014 7:23 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidNever come across this before. It's usually all NSA crap. I get tricked in to dates, sleep with the guy and never hear from him again. Suddenly it's all about love.


    That's how it should be - ships passing in the night. Albeit one boat gets holed below the waterline and capsizes leaving the crew to be eaten by sharks.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 23, 2014 8:07 PM GMT
    Grindr is for losers!
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    Sep 23, 2014 9:52 PM GMT
    Aleco_Graves said
    Snaz said:s

    glad I don't have grindr :S


    I keep reading your name in smartphone forums of you reminding people you dont have a smartphone...

    For a non smart phone user you sure spend alot of time on smartphone forums icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    LOL

    I thought this was a dating & relationships forum

    hahahahaha omgomgomgomgomgomgomg yea :S

    well I have a tablet so I guess I could get grindr :s

    but, I just downloaded a tuner with my tablet and its amazing
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    Sep 24, 2014 5:03 AM GMT
    Jms31 saidNever come across this before. It's usually all NSA crap. I get tricked in to dates, sleep with the guy and never hear from him again. Suddenly it's all about love.

    At least you're getting laid off it. And normally, the "all about love" stuff doens't come until you've slept together at least once. Otherwise, they are really bonkers.
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    Sep 24, 2014 4:55 PM GMT
    This is another reason I deleted Grindr years ago- too many nut cases on it (I'm not implying everyone but a worrying amount)

    If a guy is proclaiming his love for you after seeing you once something is def not right or they are lying about what they want to gain a boy toy... run don't walk away from these types.

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    Sep 25, 2014 1:05 PM GMT
    Erobert saidThis is another reason I deleted Grindr years ago- too many nut cases on it (I'm not implying everyone but a worrying amount)

    If a guy is proclaiming his love for you after seeing you once something is def not right or they are lying about what they want...



    Bingo!

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    Sep 25, 2014 4:54 PM GMT
    I prefer the scruff demographic for reasons more than just looks.
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    Sep 25, 2014 4:56 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidNever come across this before. It's usually all NSA crap. I get tricked in to dates, sleep with the guy and never hear from him again. Suddenly it's all about love.


    They trick you into having sex...
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    Then maybe you should stop having sex.
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    Sep 25, 2014 5:58 PM GMT
    Sweetooth said
    Jms31 saidNever come across this before. It's usually all NSA crap. I get tricked in to dates, sleep with the guy and never hear from him again. Suddenly it's all about love.


    They trick you into having sex...
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    Then maybe you should stop having sex.

    icon_lol.gif poor lamb. How dare they do it to him?
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    Sep 25, 2014 9:21 PM GMT
    It's happened once. I just use it as an example icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 26, 2014 2:41 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidIt's happened once. I just use it as an example icon_rolleyes.gif
    lol
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    Sep 26, 2014 3:14 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidGrindr is for losers!

    what he said
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    Sep 27, 2014 11:07 AM GMT
    cutelad89 said
    Jms31 saidIt's happened once. I just use it as an example icon_rolleyes.gif
    lol


    It's okay, Dennis. You'll find most people on this site are as successful at being patronising as Rik Waller is at weight loss.

    /yawn