The "fuck whitey" people.

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    Sep 23, 2014 8:30 PM GMT
    Alright brahs, ill try to keep this short. I also don't want to sound mean in the post. Just a general observation too which opinions are welcome.

    I see a lot of people who do this "fuck whitey" talk. And always talk about white privilege, sexual racism, classism etc. yet...
    They only wanna date white men. I'm speaking
    More as a member of the Asian community. I noticed that this is a thing and it puzzles me.

    Asian guys all about "equality" and always talking down on white people. Yet will only date another white guy. It almost seems like a "I want white men to like me" type equality for one person. Versus actual equality for everyone.

    I know this happens with other men besides Asians. But since I'm not African American or middle eastern for example. I feel I can't speak on that! But others views are always welcome.

    What do y'all think about this? Do you think it's not practicing what you preach? Do you feel it's a problem? Would love
    To hear others opinions.
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    Sep 23, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    R'amen. Same can be said about age preferences.

    Open the floodgates and let the butthurt flow.

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    Sep 23, 2014 9:18 PM GMT
    Minorities are the main reason of white supremacy in the sexual field. If black and asians weren't so desperate to date only white men that wouldn't happen. But like you said (and I think any gay that's been around for a while know) asians wont date asians! Except maybe in as Asian country!

    If you are not proud of what and who you are how do you expect the rest to appreciate you?

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    Sep 23, 2014 9:34 PM GMT
    I wonder if dogs have as much to say about each other and their colouring ???

    So why should we humans ??
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    Sep 23, 2014 9:39 PM GMT
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    Above is an image, it shows birds, some are red, green, blue etc one thing is, they are all birds.

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    Above is an image, it shows humans some are black, tanned, olive, white etc one thing is, they are all humans.
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    Sep 23, 2014 9:44 PM GMT
    I fucked a whitey once. It was ok.
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    Sep 23, 2014 9:49 PM GMT
    Semi-related to the topic the OP brought. How do you explain this dumb shit? icon_confused.gif


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    Sep 23, 2014 10:08 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    cutelad89 saidset-35-different-photographs-birds-14456
    Above is an image, it shows birds, some are red, green, blue etc one thing is, they are all birds.

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    Above is an image, it shows humans some are black, tanned, olive, white etc one thing is, they are all humans.


    word... for real...

    can't speak for other people BUT personally, i don't get the idea of how someone can say they'll never find any guy in a certain group attractive. are they not attracted to the skin tone or something? like what??

    i've seen attractive black guys, white guys, asian guys, indian guys, hispanic guys, etc and been attracted to them as well. that's how i knew that i was gay because i was attracted to men regardless of they were tall, skinny, obese, muscular or whatever the fuck. skin color didn't have shit to do with it. i just think it's weird how folks front like they'll never find someone of a specific color attractive.


    i understand if you grew up in a certain neighborhood or country BUT.... to me, folks be fronting if they say there are no attractive black men, white men, asian men or whatever they say they're not attracted to out there. you don't have to be attracted to someone to admit that they're attractive.

    i'm not attracted to women BUT i do find some women attractive though.


    It goes back to the social conditioning that you spoke of earlier that tells the world white is the acme of perfection.

    Think of this thing called preference. Gay guys hide behind it's a preference all of the time. Now if you have a preference for hairy men as an example, shouldn't you have a preference for hairy men,no matter the ethnicity of said man? But no- it is a preference for only hairy white men. How is this not a preference based on skin color?
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:12 PM GMT
    Also a few hundred years ago even white people who had become tanned where marginalised as it showed they where a worker meaning they spent alot of time outdoors. The upper class stayed indoors most of the time to keep their skin as pale as.
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:18 PM GMT


    who cares
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:23 PM GMT
    Bonapart saidI really don't care

    All this talk ''we blacks, we asians'', is racist


    White race is the best race on the planet

    suck it
    it's a fact


    But that does not make me feel any more special, not about that

    overall I don't care what other people think of me and if they judge me for my skin color, let's look at the real facts. White = rich, educated countries, black = poor undeveloped countries and etc



    The only real fact is you belong in an asylum.
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:26 PM GMT
    morphic said
    Bonapart saidI really don't care

    All this talk ''we blacks, we asians'', is racist


    White race is the best race on the planet

    suck it
    it's a fact


    But that does not make me feel any more special, not about that

    overall I don't care what other people think of me and if they judge me for my skin color, let's look at the real facts. White = rich, educated countries, black = poor undeveloped countries and etc



    The only real fact is you belong in an asylum.


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    Sep 23, 2014 10:27 PM GMT
    Bonapart said

    what a cute little piggy

    eat my piggy shit twat.
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:28 PM GMT
    morphic said
    Bonapart said

    what a cute little piggy

    eat my piggy shit twat.


    I am sorry i don't eat pig crap, do you eat yours?
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:29 PM GMT
    Bonapart said
    morphic said
    Bonapart said

    what a cute little piggy

    eat my piggy shit twat.


    I am sorry i don't eat pig crap, do you eat yours?

    No, i feed them to shit eaters like you. After all how would you barf out so much of shit on this forum if you don't eat them daily.
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:31 PM GMT
    cutelad89 saidI wonder if dogs have as much to say about each other and their colouring ???

    So why should we humans ??


    That's actually the point of the Op. If we are all human, why do non-white gay men obsess over white guys? Hypocrisy much? Non-whites preach a lot but they refuse to date their own or other minorities. It's so weird that heterosexuals don't have this problem but gay men are so overly sensitive.


    Sexual racism is a myth.
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    Sep 23, 2014 10:34 PM GMT
    morphic said
    Bonapart said
    morphic said
    Bonapart said

    what a cute little piggy

    eat my piggy shit twat.


    I am sorry i don't eat pig crap, do you eat yours?

    No, i feed them to shit eaters like you. After all how would you barf out so much of shit on this forum if you don't eat them daily.


    When you eat food it goes the process of digestion and turns into crap, they teach that in the 6th or 7 th grade.
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    Sep 23, 2014 11:25 PM GMT
    My thoughts are:

    (1). I'm not familiar with the Asian dynamic per se. I'm in NYC and I see EVERY color all the time and don't really notice it one way or another. I know I've personally dated black, white and Latino, but never Asian. That isn't because I don't find Asians attractive, it's just because I haven't found the right one. And I happen to be with a white guy now, but definitely not BECAUSE he's a white guy. All races can be fugly or hot.

    (2). From a logical standpoint, I understand your complaint with Asians who won't date Asians, or blacks who won't date blacks, or whites who won't date whites......BUT, from a logical standpoint, all things being equal, most blacks or Asians SHOULD be with a white person since whites are the majority. Just as most whites SHOULD be with a white since whites are the majority. If whites constitute 66& of the USA population, then most people (regardless of what race YOU are) should be dating a white person if love were absolutely random. So to observe Asians or blacks with a white, is nothing out of the ordinary per se. It's simply logic and math, just think about how that fact might dampen your anecdotal observation of sexual racism.

    (3). Some people are just going to be racist. Who cares at this point? Society has progressed so much that they're essentially a footnote and, literally, can't even voice their bigoted feelings in public. It's like the old white or black racists who see EVERYTHING as race. Or those men who didn't like women playing at Augusta. Or Tiger playing on their greens. The bigots are such a minority in the USA that at a certain point we have to accept there will always be a small fringe or extremists, for various reasons and social dynamics, and just overlook them. Kind of like airplane accidents. Yes, we should look for systematic problems and product or design defects, but sometimes you're just going to get a lame pilot or a stellar pilot having a bad moment and then a crash. Nothing in life is perfect.
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    Sep 23, 2014 11:30 PM GMT
    My mind is generally weak at the moment, but let me just say that while a lot of our perceptions on race may be due to cultural conditioning, if examples in the real world themselves align and reinforce those negative or positive perceptions of races, then these perceptions would be hard to change or hard to discontinue.
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    Sep 23, 2014 11:51 PM GMT
    Thanks for the responses everyone. It's good to hear some
    Different views.

    But I'm really more curious about the dynamics. Of people who say all this stuff against white people. Yet only want a person. Basically someone who's always talking about "equality" among races. Or talks about "why does this white guy say no fats no black etc" and they talk about racism
    And classism among white people.

    But then they only fuck with white people. I just find this very hypocritical. And when some people say all these things about how white people
    Are bad. And the media does this and that to make white people look better. But then they won't even date someone of their own race or a black man.

    I find this kind of thinking dangerous. Cause there's lots of keyboard warriors talking about these things. And if your really for it.... Then great! If you really want equality for everyone and want to fight white privilege and sexual racism.

    But to say you fight against it. Then at the same time are apart of the so called problem you speak of. Then things get very hazzy.
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    Sep 24, 2014 12:29 AM GMT
    Well, I think you already have your answer OP:

    (1). That a person can see regretful/racist social dynamics, point them out, shun the dynamic, but then fall pray to it himself is hypocritical and almost tragically sad, but it does not invalidate their voiced opinions. Imagine an alcoholic dad telling his son on his hospital death bed to "remember son, never drink too much, it'll kill you" as he takes his last swig from a half empty bottle of Jack Daniel's and then passes away. That's just sad. He's a product of the MESSED UP system he created--or that was forced upon him--and it's a hypocritical tragedy, but nothing more. His words of wisdom he voiced, that excessive alcohol is bad, are still valid despite the fact that alcohol took him under and he willfully drank until the end. Almost as if defeated by trying to save everyone else he could.

    (2). So some guys don't care about racial dynamics one way or another. Other guys preach equality and put their money where their mouth is by dating black/asian guys. Other guys preach equality and, defeated by the system consciously or unconsciously, can't break free and fall into the "white is right" mentality and only date white men. There are three options. I wouldn't fixate on the one.
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    Sep 24, 2014 12:51 AM GMT
    My bf is Asian icon_cool.gif

    As they say "You gotta go Asian cuz they're fucking AMAZING"
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    Sep 24, 2014 12:54 AM GMT
    tmac saidMy bf is Asian icon_cool.gif

    As they say "You gotta go Asian cuz they're fucking AMAZING"


    funny, If someone would say that about white people that would be considered insulting
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    Sep 24, 2014 1:15 AM GMT
    cutelad89 saidmulticulturalism1.jpg
    Above is an image, it shows humans some are black, tanned, olive, white etc one thing is, they are all humans.

    Too hippy for my taste
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    Sep 24, 2014 1:27 AM GMT
    wait.. asians are talking smack about white people?

    oh, it's ON!...

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