I think I fell in love...

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    Jan 14, 2009 6:17 PM GMT
    I just got back from a cruise yesterday that went to Cozumel, Mexico and I think I fell in love but since I've never been in love before...I'm not sure.

    The first day on the boat I was laying out on the upper deck of the ship and it's by a running track for people to use. I was relaxing with my eyes closed and suddenly the sun dissapeared and I immediatly opened my eyes and there standing over me was a 6ft tall blonde hair, blue eyed, tan toned guy. And he said "Hey beautiful, what's your name." in an English accent. And well, I just about died right there on the spot. So I sat up and I was like "Justin". And that's all I could say. For one of the first times in my life I was speechless.
    So he sat down next to me and talked to me for a bit and I learned that he was one of the dancers in the shows on the ship, he was from England, his name was Tyson and he was 22. I also learned that he was skipping his workout to talk to me and that is a big thing for them. They have to workout religiously and they're also not supposed to talk to guests.
    So over the next 4 days we met at different times and places on the ship so that he wouldn't get in trouble. And I kinda felt guilty that he was doing it but he said it was because he wanted to so I went with it.
    On the last night he invited me to dinner in his cabin and I went and he had food delivered and we ate on the deck outside the bar while the sun was setting and I am no romantic but it was heavenly. And when we were finished he told me that the next day as I was disembarking the ship he would be too and his contract was up with the dancing company on the ship and that he was going home to the UK. And I started crying because I knew I'd never see him again. He wiped the tears away and told me that it would be OK. But I don't understand how. He kissed me goodbye that night and I went to my room feeling so many things I can't even describe it.

    I didn't give him any of my info nor did he give me his and I wonder if this was the right thing to do...I know I'll never see him again so I don't want to risk searching for him and getting attached again via the interent or something.....
    I really want to call the cruiseline and see if I can find out about him or something because it seems like I can't live with the fact I don't know more about him.
    He was amazing, everything I could ever ask for in a guy.

    GOD I AM SO DAMN CONFUSED!icon_evil.gif
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    Jan 14, 2009 6:54 PM GMT
    Wonderful ! keep this as a perfect moment in your life.

    May I suggest that you do not attempt to make contact,it could spoil a "holiday romance "

    Most of us at some time in life have had this experience and wondered what it could lead to ,if he had wished to get to know you am sure that he would have said .

    Look upon it as a rehearsal for when the right man appears.

    Wishing you every happiness in life.

    Regards,R.
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    Jan 14, 2009 11:47 PM GMT
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    Jan 14, 2009 11:49 PM GMT
    one day , i was told, I will be in love too lol
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    Jan 14, 2009 11:50 PM GMT
    You fell in lust, not love. It'll be okay.
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    Jan 14, 2009 11:56 PM GMT
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    Jan 15, 2009 1:00 AM GMT
    not to be the jack ass but,

    how many ppl do you think he has done that too on every cruise he dances on . . .

    thats all i could think when i read that
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    Jan 15, 2009 1:05 AM GMT
    take it as it was and enjoy what you had. 4 days of fun. and if you call the cruise company and ask about him you could get him in trouble and keep him from getting a future job
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    Jan 15, 2009 7:16 PM GMT
    chungo44 saidtake it as it was and enjoy what you had. 4 days of fun. and if you call the cruise company and ask about him you could get him in trouble and keep him from getting a future job


    I never thought of it like that...
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    Jan 15, 2009 7:18 PM GMT
    Steer clear of the English! (just kidding, guys)

    Why don't you do a Missed Connection on Craigslist for the cruise departure point or something?

    I agree with others though - holiday flings are fantastic, but should probably just be left at that.
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    Jan 15, 2009 7:25 PM GMT
    I don't know for some reason I felt something more than just a fling.
    I've had flings and they didn't feel like this.
    I'm quite confused at the moment....
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    Jan 15, 2009 8:11 PM GMT
    i bet it felt like a really really good fling, one where he really got you and you got him and you both just really clicked and had fun... did it maybe feel like that
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    Jan 15, 2009 8:34 PM GMT
    You are infatuated. A lot of us are. It will pass.

    infatuate |inˈfa ch oōˌāt|
    verb ( be infatuated with)
    be inspired with an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for : she is infatuated with a handsome police chief.

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    Jan 16, 2009 6:54 AM GMT
    There are moments in our lives that are simply not supposed to turn into something big and serious - they were just there at the right time, to make us realize something. Their purpose is to become one of the great memories we all need to have.
    And think of it that way - if it was love, then now you know what love is and you have had the best trip of your life. If it wasn't love - then it was just the best trip.
    I know it may seem like the world is ending, because you can't be with him right now, but it's not :-) It's all about destiny ... maybe someday you WILL meet and you WILL be together, don't worry about it ;-)
    Just be grateful that you have felt such strong feelings, because it's fuc*in' wonderful! icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 16, 2009 7:10 AM GMT
    Wow, count yourself lucky and accept what you just got and a wonderful gift from life. Its enough , just enough to recognize it for what it is and gift a lesson and a great way to know that you can and will most definately love again. Don't worry about what you could have had or about finding him as those in the long run have repurcussions and ones that may not nessecarily be good ones. Know that if it was meant to be you'll meet up again.

    happened to me once and when he came rolling around the second time, everything was right and I/we grabbed the chance. Nothing really lasts forever except the love so...tuck that one away and know that the universe gave you that absolutely wonderful gift. Good on you , good on you.
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    Jan 20, 2009 5:38 PM GMT
    Awww thank you guys so much!
    I've felt better and better each day and it's getting easier icon_smile.gif
    And reading your posts has made me feel better too
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    Jan 20, 2009 5:42 PM GMT
    Take the feelings/emotions and RUN with it!!!!