Bad Sex??

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    Sep 25, 2014 10:41 AM GMT
    So last night me and my guy were talking about sex, and we began debating if all sex is "Great" or if such a thing as "Bad Sex" really exists.

    We dismissed the young-love "first time" type situations, since while they were most likely "Bad" on the spectrum, it was mainly from a lack of experience or education on the matter.

    Both agreed that there were times in college where things were just odd... and we found that in both our cases, the "bad" sex happened when we were with girls... yes both of us swung Bi in the past.

    Post college, however, we've had a hard time coming up with situations where sex was bad.

    So I'm brining the discussion to you sexy lot... Ever had "Bad" sex? what made it "bad"?
  • vhotti26

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    Sep 25, 2014 11:35 AM GMT
    Sex is bad when the partners don't click.
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    Sep 25, 2014 4:41 PM GMT
    any sex without kissing is bad for me.
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    Sep 27, 2014 9:32 AM GMT
    Selfish guys who feel there pleasure alone is important. The type who just wanna get off anyway they can without any thought to any lack of stimulation they provide or in some instances pain they inflict on their sex partner. I would also place in the bad sex category guys with too many sexual hang ups icon_rolleyes.gif and I'm not referring to those who aren't into kink, the type who expect a BJ but won't go near your penis themselves. Not that those types have ever lasted 5 mins before I showed them the door anyway icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 27, 2014 10:47 AM GMT
    Where I wasn't particularly attracted to the guy but wanted to give him a chance anyway because he was so attracted to me, had a sweet (though overly effusive) personality, was my age, and we shared a similar cultural background. Turns out that's not enough for me if I don't actually have the hots for him. And yes, the sex ended up being bad for me (though he apparently loved it).icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 25, 2014 1:00 AM GMT
    Getting a paint job.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Dec 26, 2014 6:35 AM GMT
    Yup. There is such a thing as bad sex.

    It has to do with the guys who ASS+U+ME that what they enjoy is the default for the rest of the world.

    I hooked up with a cute, small but nicely toned dude in Madrid, Spain a year ago or so. He was majorly into pain, and was sure that everyone else in the universe shared his proclivity.

    The bad sex is the one that does not support human communication. If you are not too good in catching non-verbal hints, there is absolutely no harm in asking. Every sane dude will be happy to say what floats his boat, and what's a no-do in his corner of the woods.

    SC

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    Dec 27, 2014 12:06 AM GMT
    Tell ya bout bad sex ,, was with a guy in the past and we made out.

    When I did him doggie it was good he was really moaning an beggin ,, but when he did me it was boarding ,, his big cock was good any other time, but this time it was just plan boaring ,, bad sex.