What is your strategy to attracting guys you like?

  • infinitefrien...

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    Sep 25, 2014 8:24 PM GMT
    Step by step...
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    Sep 25, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    Look at them in the eyes, raise my eyebrow. That's it.
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Sep 25, 2014 8:31 PM GMT
    dunno. am a virgin
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    Sep 25, 2014 9:17 PM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saiddunno. am a virgin

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    Sep 25, 2014 9:18 PM GMT
    I slap them and then run away.
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    Sep 25, 2014 10:07 PM GMT
    i avoid eye contact so they don't even know. then i mentally molest them. works every time!
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    Sep 25, 2014 10:14 PM GMT
    First step is to not make desperate threads on RealJock.
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    Sep 25, 2014 10:14 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    ZakSayWhat saiddunno. am a virgin



    this and the fact that i simply just act like myself. i don't care if i attract people towards me or not.


    And you attract NOBODY. So keep doing what you are doing if you want to be alone and a virgin forever....icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 26, 2014 6:07 AM GMT
    Strategy? LOL XD
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    Sep 26, 2014 6:38 AM GMT
    Roofies
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    Sep 30, 2014 7:59 AM GMT
    Oh that's easy. You just give him a huge slap on the butt and then run away. Lol j/k I don't know.
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    Sep 30, 2014 9:18 AM GMT
    Find a reason to wear clothes like a vest or shorts around them, and later on get tipsy (while they are getting drunk). It's a pretty successful strategy so far icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 30, 2014 9:53 AM GMT
    You know in all honesty I actually think there is a huge portion of guys who aren't able to or don't end up attracting guys they like.
    I feel like they attract a guy and overtime they adapt to begin to like them and then settle.
    I'm sure there are those who have developed relationships with guys they were attracted to at first sight but I actually think that's more of a rare occurrence than it sounds.

    What I honestly wish I could so is attract good friends.
    If I could attract a great group of friends that would be sooooo freaking awesome!!
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    Oct 14, 2014 5:58 AM GMT
    Start a conversation with them, if they seem interested after this conversation...ask them if they would like to hang out and get some lunch or coffee or go to the park or something.
    No reason to be ridiculous and nervous, if you plan to be with this person you like you will be spending a lot of time together. If you're always anxious and trying really hard to use strategies to win then over, that time won't be much fun and then there's no point in even trying. Dating someone and being in a relationship is supposed to be fun and fulfilling, it sounds miserable to have to use strategies to try to entice them into wanting you. Just be you, if they don't like YOU for who YOU ARE. Do you really want to waste your time? There's no point because if you're looking for a long term partner, it sounds like torture to have to constantly be trying for years, what's the point of that? If they don't like you that's it there are others that will.

    If you're trying to get laid and have no LTR intentions by all means lie and impress them and woo their pants off literally. It's horrible and piggish and gross but if you're just looking for sex from someone and not love you're probably not a good guy to begin with and it shouldn't be too hard to lie and manipulate.
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    Oct 14, 2014 7:47 AM GMT
    Just be yourself and smile, don't smile at the guys you're not into. Don't email or reply to men who you don't like. Just my 2 cents on it.
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    Oct 17, 2014 5:38 PM GMT
    Being myself but also working on self development. Also, confidence (not arrogant or cocky) goes a long way. And make the first move- a ton of people are terrified of rejection even when 9 out of 10 signals indicate mutual interest.

    jayfromBK93 saidStart a conversation with them, if they seem interested after this conversation...ask them if they would like to hang out and get some lunch or coffee or go to the park or something.
    No reason to be ridiculous and nervous, if you plan to be with this person you like you will be spending a lot of time together. If you're always anxious and trying really hard to use strategies to win then over, that time won't be much fun and then there's no point in even trying.

    Dating someone and being in a relationship is supposed to be fun and fulfilling, it sounds miserable to have to use strategies to try to entice them into wanting you. Just be you, if they don't like YOU for who YOU ARE. Do you really want to waste your time? There's no point because if you're looking for a long term partner, it sounds like torture to have to constantly be trying for years, what's the point of that? If they don't like you that's it there are others that Will.


    Best response yet, agree 100%
  • Dg75

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    Oct 25, 2014 2:08 AM GMT
    Sit there and hope he comes up to me.
  • buddycat

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    Oct 25, 2014 2:12 AM GMT
    I throw things at them while they walk by. It usually doesn't work out very well for me.
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    Nov 19, 2014 4:25 AM GMT
    Flail your hands wildly as if you have warm butter stuck to your fingers that you are trying to dispose of.
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    Nov 19, 2014 4:40 AM GMT
    Bend and snap!

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    Nov 19, 2014 4:53 AM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidFlail your hands wildly as if you have warm butter stuck to your fingers that you are trying to dispose of.
    That sounds delicious!
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    Nov 21, 2014 3:10 AM GMT
    Every guy is different and using an strategy over and over again might not work at all.. just relax and don't understimate yourself... everything will fall into place.icon_razz.gif

  • Nov 21, 2014 9:29 AM GMT
    Stalk the fuck out of their facebook. And stare at them till they're uncomfortable when I see them in person.
  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 21, 2014 12:50 PM GMT
    I make milk shakes, 'cause its suppose to bring all the boys to the yard..... icon_lol.gif


    I initiate all interpersonal encounters on the 'lets be friends' basis. I never start of with the notion that this is a fella who I'm going to make into my future ex.

    That got me two out of 6 relationships - the other four initiated first contact. The two one night stands also approached me and initiated that, they were just lucky that I was in the mood to play.

    Then there were dozens, scores, possibly over a hundred other men who tried to 'score' with me and initiated first contact but failed to use star-fleet regulated protocol and botched the whole thing up.icon_lol.gif




  • mybud

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    Nov 21, 2014 7:13 PM GMT
    I just make sure my 12 hour deodorant is on it's 7th hour. My maleness seems to attract.