Is it "normal" for a gay man to enjoy straight porn?

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    Sep 25, 2014 10:21 PM GMT
    I mainly used to watch straight porn because I was focusing on the guy and his pleasure (I actually think this is part of how I came to discover my sexual attraction towards men). More recently, I find myself more attracted to the women than I used to be, although I'm still a little unsure. I actually enjoy some straight porn more than gay porn because I feel like straight porn is typically more intense.

    I still need the guy in the video to be hot, and I can't seem to really get into lesbian porn. I do enjoy seeing the reaction of the women when they're getting fucked by a guy, although I don't really think I could fuck a woman in real life.

    WTF is wrong with me? Does this make me bi, or is still possible to be gay and enjoy seeing women getting fucked?
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    Sep 26, 2014 12:55 AM GMT
    Do you want to fuck girls? If you do you're bisexual. If you don't you're gay, even if you like to watch straight porn.
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    Sep 26, 2014 12:57 AM GMT
    CFNM is as straight as I get.
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    Sep 26, 2014 12:59 AM GMT
    Just remember, there's difference between being bisexual and a practicing bisexual. Just because you find women erotic and like the idea of sex with one from time to time does not mean you can't commit to a guy and settle down and be completely happy for the rest of your life.
  • disasterpiece

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    Sep 26, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
    Nah, I kinda get the same feeling.

    The male/female relationship and "style" of straigh porn is different from Gay porn and can be hot in its own particular way that can appeal to some of us gay guys. Yet, it's the "sex", as an action or whole, that is arousing, and not necessarily the women.

    I watch a lot of straight porn. Some women have nice asses too, that's hot for tops like me who have picky anacondas...

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    Sep 26, 2014 1:03 AM GMT
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    Sep 26, 2014 1:03 AM GMT
    Sweetooth saidCFNM is as straight as I get.


    HAHA!!
  • bro4bro

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    Sep 27, 2014 12:45 AM GMT
    It is normal for ANY man to enjoy ANY porn.

    We're men. It's porn.

    Case closed.
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    Sep 27, 2014 12:49 AM GMT
    Id fuck a woman but id still identify as gay I love watching female ejaculation its so hot!
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    Sep 27, 2014 12:49 AM GMT
    bro4bro saidIt is normal for ANY man to enjoy ANY porn.

    We're men. It's porn.

    Case closed.


    I mean I don't think a straight guy would get off on gay porn, but who knows...

    I don't know why I'm finding straight porn more appealing recently. I mean I definitely know I like the men, but I feel like the women in straight porn are typically more pleased by the male penis inside them, and that's what turns me on? I guess it's the intensity of it. Or maybe I've watch too much gay porn the past few years, and straight porn is just refreshing to my brain lol.
  • bro4bro

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    Sep 27, 2014 12:57 AM GMT
    Stop thinking.

    Overthinking will only diminish your enjoyment of porn. Is that what you want?

    And yes, straight men do get off on gay porn. They're men. It's porn.

    They just won't admit it to anyone.

    Stop thinking.
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    Sep 27, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
    ant811 saidI mainly used to watch straight porn because I was focusing on the guy and his pleasure (I actually think this is part of how I came to discover my sexual attraction towards men). More recently, I find myself more attracted to the women than I used to be, although I'm still a little unsure. I actually enjoy some straight porn more than gay porn because I feel like straight porn is typically more intense.

    I still need the guy in the video to be hot, and I can't seem to really get into lesbian porn. I do enjoy seeing the reaction of the women when they're getting fucked by a guy, although I don't really think I could fuck a woman in real life.

    WTF is wrong with me? Does this make me bi, or is still possible to be gay and enjoy seeing women getting fucked?


    NO DUDE... It means you are a free spirit. There is no such thing as a lifelong straight or lifelong gay or lifelong bi in this society. Did you have a sexual orientation at age three? OF COURSE NOT!!! People go through changes. Don't be afraid or delude yourself with these STUPID FUCKING LABELS. It is NOT necessarily genetic. Science is being shot down in that area right as I type this. Go the direction you want to go in. Don't let labels hold you to the past like labels tried to do to me.
  • tazzari

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    Sep 27, 2014 1:30 AM GMT
    Who cares? And who the fuck wants to be "normal" - whatever that is.
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    Sep 27, 2014 2:04 AM GMT
    I don't really care about labels either, it's just confusing for me because I've never actually been in a relationship with anyone and I'm starting to wonder who I should be pursuing lol.

    I'm pretty sure I'm gay and bi though, since most of my physical and all of my emotional crushes have been on other guys. I guess the whole thing with me being turned on by some women in porn is just me fantasizing in my head. I mean, if I was drunk enough and a really hot girl started hitting on me, who knows, I'd probably sleep with her lol (not 100% on that though). But I guess that doesn't really mean I should start looking for a girlfriend.

    I just always find myself attracted to straight guys and it's not something I have any control over. icon_sad.gif
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    Sep 27, 2014 2:13 AM GMT
    ant811 saidI don't really care about labels either, it's just confusing for me because I've never actually been in a relationship with anyone and I'm starting to wonder who I should be pursuing lol.

    I'm pretty sure I'm gay and bi though, since most of my physical and all of my emotional crushes have been on other guys. I guess the whole thing with me being turned on by some women in porn is just me fantasizing in my head. I mean, if I was drunk enough and a really hot girl started hitting on me, who knows, I'd probably sleep with her lol (not 100% on that though). But I guess that doesn't really mean I should start looking for a girlfriend.

    I just always find myself attracted to straight guys and it's not something I have any control over. icon_sad.gif


    Follow your heart. Whatever direction it goes in follow your heart. Relationships are quite a learning experience and you will find when SEX is added to it it becomes quite confusing to your conscience. Be honest with yourself with what does or does not feel good sexually. It is easy to get caught up in lust. But when we do that we actually ignore what our bodies need which is love. You are on the right path, because you are questioning yourself in an honest way and I am not going to be like these fucking pricks that throw GENETIC SPECULATION rather than real Science in your face. You are whatever you want to be.

    "The person you want to be is the person you already are, you just don't know it yet." - Ernest Holmes
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    Sep 27, 2014 2:16 AM GMT
    Maybe you're getting off on the idea of being fucked by a straight guy like some of the ladies you're watching.
    We all know, when a Top is doing his business and the recipient is loving it out loud, it's engaging.
    On that subject, I have to turn the volume down usually in straight porn, since the female moan or Fake moan is a true boner killer for me. Hence, why I don't watch much straight porn.
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    Sep 27, 2014 2:24 AM GMT
    bro4bro saidStop thinking.

    Overthinking will only diminish your enjoyment of porn. Is that what you want?

    And yes, straight men do get off on gay porn. They're men. It's porn.

    They just won't admit it to anyone.

    Stop thinking.


    Speak for yourself.
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    Sep 27, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    bro4bro saidStop thinking.

    Overthinking will only diminish your enjoyment of porn. Is that what you want?

    And yes, straight men do get off on gay porn. They're men. It's porn.

    They just won't admit it to anyone.

    Stop thinking.



    Ummm, no. Just no.
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    Sep 27, 2014 2:53 AM GMT
    bro4bro saidStop thinking.

    Overthinking will only diminish your enjoyment of porn. Is that what you want?

    And yes, straight men do get off on gay porn. They're men. It's porn.

    They just won't admit it to anyone.

    Stop thinking.


    You are clouding your own world with this philosophy. Straight men jerking off to gay porn? Give me a fucking break. Yes there are those who cross the path (fuck sexual orientation labels) but to assume they all do or even most of them do is purely a work of "I am the center of the Universe". LOL
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    Sep 27, 2014 3:06 AM GMT
    ant811 saidI don't really care about labels either, it's just confusing for me because I've never actually been in a relationship with anyone and I'm starting to wonder who I should be pursuing lol.

    I'm pretty sure I'm gay and bi though, since most of my physical and all of my emotional crushes have been on other guys. I guess the whole thing with me being turned on by some women in porn is just me fantasizing in my head. I mean, if I was drunk enough and a really hot girl started hitting on me, who knows, I'd probably sleep with her lol (not 100% on that though). But I guess that doesn't really mean I should start looking for a girlfriend.

    I just always find myself attracted to straight guys and it's not something I have any control over. icon_sad.gif


    You should be looking for a psychologist.
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    Sep 27, 2014 3:09 AM GMT
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    ant811 saidI don't really care about labels either, it's just confusing for me because I've never actually been in a relationship with anyone and I'm starting to wonder who I should be pursuing lol.

    I'm pretty sure I'm gay and bi though, since most of my physical and all of my emotional crushes have been on other guys. I guess the whole thing with me being turned on by some women in porn is just me fantasizing in my head. I mean, if I was drunk enough and a really hot girl started hitting on me, who knows, I'd probably sleep with her lol (not 100% on that though). But I guess that doesn't really mean I should start looking for a girlfriend.

    I just always find myself attracted to straight guys and it's not something I have any control over. icon_sad.gif


    You should be looking for a psychologist.


    I respect you Sweetooth but sometimes you jump off the edge on things and when I hear OVER AND FUCKING OVER AGAIN on this website when it comes to mental health "go see a doctor" I get really fucking pissed off. He wants HUMAN advice not PROFESSIONAL ADVICE. ARE YOU FUCKING HUMAN????
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    Sep 27, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
    ^I should have been more clear, I meant he should see one in addition to other people's insight since I feel like RJ as a community is not enough (or even sane enough) to be advising him, and he's clearly....umm......distressed.
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    Sep 27, 2014 3:23 AM GMT
    Sweetooth said^I should have been more clear, I meant he should see one in addition to other people's insight since I feel like RJ as a community is not enough (or even sane enough) to be advising him, and he's clearly....umm......distressed.


    Okay brother, no problem.
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    Sep 27, 2014 4:33 AM GMT
    What ever you want for you is 'normal'!
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    Sep 27, 2014 3:14 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidMaybe you're getting off on the idea of being fucked by a straight guy like some of the ladies you're watching.
    We all know, when a Top is doing his business and the recipient is loving it out loud, it's engaging.
    On that subject, I have to turn the volume down usually in straight porn, since the female moan or Fake moan is a true boner killer for me. Hence, why I don't watch much straight porn.


    This actually makes a lot of sense. I know I've discussed it on here before, but I've always imagined myself as the bottom when it came to fucking another guy. But I recently learned that due to medical reasons (some intestinal surgeries I had as a teenager) that I can't be a bottom. So I think when I'm watching straight porn I might be "living through" the woman getting fucked by the guy, and that's what is turning me on since I know I can't do it in real life.