Guys - What do you look for in your boyfriend?

  • infinitefrien...

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    Sep 30, 2014 3:36 PM GMT
    What do you want him to be:

    - Looks-wise
    - Dress sense
    - Way he acts
    - His finances
    - What he studies or works at


    What activities do you want to do together?


    Do you want him to be touchy-feely and warm to you?

    How often do you want sex (if any)?
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    Sep 30, 2014 5:28 PM GMT
    The perfect boyfriend is the boy that aknowlegde there is only 1 dick in the relationship and its not his.
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    Sep 30, 2014 6:11 PM GMT
    - Tall (more than 5'11)
    - Muscular
    - Between 24 and 26, no more no less
    - Blond
    - Brown eyes
    - Some scruff
    - Hair on his chest but not on his back nor shoulders
    - Very atheltic
    - Successful financially (more than 120k / year)
    - Funny and sarcastic
    - Perfect teeth
    - Not more than 8% body fat or I'll vomit
    - Non smoker
    - Likes going out to nice places
    - Likes traveling
    - Treats me like a queen
    - Only dresses in Ralph Lauren or Hermès
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    Sep 30, 2014 7:34 PM GMT
    Non-smoker, Tall, handsome and fit with a kind personality. That's about it.
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    Sep 30, 2014 8:02 PM GMT
    two things:

    Length and Motivation
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    Sep 30, 2014 9:03 PM GMT
    . Cute kinda tall (5'8-6'0)
    . Average/Slim/Fit build
    . Nice guy, not mean or weirdo
    . Has a good job that he enjoys (income average/ok, high)
    . Non-smoker, doesn't do drugs or drink too much
    . A good guy, has a good heart and love me !!
  • wellwell

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    Sep 30, 2014 9:36 PM GMT
    Muscle, Fur, 4Skin, and NON TOBACCO USER !!
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    Sep 30, 2014 9:40 PM GMT
    A squeaky clean bum
  • ohioguy12

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    Sep 30, 2014 11:39 PM GMT
    I try not to be narrow-minded
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    Oct 01, 2014 12:00 AM GMT
    Dad0o said- Tall (more than 5'11)
    - Muscular
    - Between 24 and 26, no more no less
    - Blond
    - Brown eyes
    - Some scruff
    - Hair on his chest but not on his back nor shoulders
    - Very atheltic
    - Successful financially (more than 120k / year)
    - Funny and sarcastic
    - Perfect teeth
    - Not more than 8% body fat or I'll vomit
    - Non smoker
    - Likes going out to nice places
    - Likes traveling
    - Treats me like a queen
    - Only dresses in Ralph Lauren or Hermès


    Oh no you di-dn't!

    This is like a topic for dreamers, funnn.
    I would say :

    Same height or taller, good looking, maybe blond cause I like blonds, with nice hands.
    Caring, very humble, ambitious, moral.
    Simple dresser, who doesn't really care about fashion but is just effortlessly sexy when he's in a white tee and jeans.
    Someone different from me who has different interests and who would make me try new things.
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Oct 01, 2014 6:15 AM GMT
    I would say if I was single and had to answer this question.

    Attractive to my eye.
    Warm heart.
    Wicked sense of humor.
    Loves kids and animals.
    Great work ethics.
    Inspirational.
    Loves traveling.
    Kid at heart but knows when to be an adult.
    Loves me for who I am and will be as I will for them.
    Health conscious.

    Finally a good human being that treats others the way he wants to be treated.

    #myhusband
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    Oct 01, 2014 7:10 AM GMT
    Someone that finds me attractive

    Someone that is interested in staying in shape.
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    Oct 01, 2014 7:28 AM GMT
    I feel as though the people who honestly answered this with an actual list of criteria are the ones who are going to be single for a loooooooooonng time.
    People are complex sure, but the chances of you finding someone that fits your list exact to the tee is practically impossible.
    If they existed, they most likely would be so full of themselves for being so perfect that they wouldn't be into you anyway. That's the real irony here.
    Wanting what you can't have, the fantasy edition lol.
  • janu88

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    Oct 01, 2014 8:10 AM GMT
    Dad0o said- Tall (more than 5'11)
    - Muscular
    - Between 24 and 26, no more no less
    - Blond
    - Brown eyes
    - Some scruff
    - Hair on his chest but not on his back nor shoulders
    - Very atheltic
    - Successful financially (more than 120k / year)
    - Funny and sarcastic
    - Perfect teeth
    - Not more than 8% body fat or I'll vomit
    - Non smoker
    - Likes going out to nice places
    - Likes traveling
    - Treats me like a queen
    - Only dresses in Ralph Lauren or Hermès


    No wonder your single icon_lol.gif


    I just look in a boyfriend that chemistry, that feeling of connection with another human being. Kindness and respect.
    Okey, and he cant be politicall conservative and has to listen to meaningful music. Everything else is soo irrelevant.
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    Oct 01, 2014 8:28 AM GMT
    - Looks-wise- A young Raoul Bova or Chris Evans
    - Dress sense -Sharp, not shorts type of guy although I wouldn't mind jeans and a white shirt. Suit guy would be nice once in a while but taxing if he wears one everyday.
    - Way he acts- Masculine, kind and straight forward.
    - His finances- I dont care if he's rich or poor.
    - What he studies or works at- If he's happy doing wat hes doing and utilizing his potential I am fine with whatever he does.


    What activities do you want to do together?
    screwing one another, going on holiday, building a life and relationship together


    Do you want him to be touchy-feely and warm to you?
    Yes, yes and yes. I had a boyfriend who was reserved . It wasn't fun once you realize frigid is not mystery.

    How often do you want sex (if any)?[/quote]
    With how horny I am like everyday.
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    Oct 01, 2014 11:21 AM GMT
    Someone who im attracted to that treats me well.
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    Oct 01, 2014 2:07 PM GMT
    Good looks, down to earth, into fitness, treats me well.
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    Oct 01, 2014 2:21 PM GMT
    janu88 said
    Dad0o said- Tall (more than 5'11)
    - Muscular
    - Between 24 and 26, no more no less
    - Blond
    - Brown eyes
    - Some scruff
    - Hair on his chest but not on his back nor shoulders
    - Very atheltic
    - Successful financially (more than 120k / year)
    - Funny and sarcastic
    - Perfect teeth
    - Not more than 8% body fat or I'll vomit
    - Non smoker
    - Likes going out to nice places
    - Likes traveling
    - Treats me like a queen
    - Only dresses in Ralph Lauren or Hermès


    No wonder your single icon_lol.gif


    I just look in a boyfriend that chemistry, that feeling of connection with another human being. Kindness and respect.
    Okey, and he cant be politicall conservative and has to listen to meaningful music. Everything else is soo irrelevant.

    ^this

    chemistry, feeling of conection, most important ones
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    Oct 01, 2014 2:52 PM GMT
    I was not even looking for a BF and somebody read my wish list and delieved one to me.Latin,handsome,sexy,uncut,sweet,incredibly talented,great cook.Nobody is perfect but fate was smiling on me that spring day in 2010.icon_smile.gif
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Oct 01, 2014 3:15 PM GMT
    Honesty.Loving.Caring.
  • Svnw688

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    Oct 01, 2014 3:18 PM GMT
    infinitefriend9 saidWhat do you want him to be:

    - Looks-wise
    - Dress sense
    - Way he acts
    - His finances
    - What he studies or works at


    What activities do you want to do together?


    Do you want him to be touchy-feely and warm to you?

    How often do you want sex (if any)?


    WHAT DO I WANT?
    Looks: My height or taller, thin/slim
    Dress: Preppy / Polos / Classy
    Acts: Naturally masculine, cheeky, sarcastic, funny
    Finances: Average or better
    Study/Work: Employed or actively searching
    Activities: Eclectic, outdoor, water/snow based
    Touchy/Warm: Moderately affectionate
    Sex: Daily

    WHAT IS MY CURRENT B/F?
    Looks: 6'7 tall
    Dress: Polos, madras and plaid shorts
    Acts: Masc, sarcastic, funny
    Finances: Average
    Study/Work: Pilot / Military
    Activities: Biking, tennis, teaching me to fly, movies
    Touchy/Warm: Not very affectionate, but loving
    Sex: Daily or twice daily


    Seems I got more or less what I wanted. You cannot pick who you fall in love with, or else life would be easy. Truthfully, I'd probably have chosen a girl when I was 14 and, having fallen in love with her, have happily stayed with her. But you cannot choose who you fall in love with.

    While I like that people have lists, I do myself of preferences, I do NOT understand how some guys complain about being single, yet their list is 100 items long. Sure, I have "deal breakers" of hardcore drugs, dysfunctional alcoholic, and a few others. But that is relatively practical. I don't transform my mere preferences into a mandatory checklist. Nothing against anyone who has posted on this thread so far, I mean this as a general statement and response to some of the people I constantly see griping about being single, and yet who wait on perfection--which by definition does not exist in any human.
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    Oct 01, 2014 3:33 PM GMT
    -Competence
    -Sanity
    -Good hygiene
    -Good Morals & Ethics
    -Honesty
    -Humor
    -Stability
    -Decently fit
    -Similar build
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    Oct 01, 2014 4:35 PM GMT
    Don't get me wrong, I'm also a chemistry believer.
    But there just are "pluses" you know?
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    Oct 01, 2014 4:39 PM GMT
    I'm going to be very realistic with my standards, so here goes...

    -Ambition(s)
    -Brains
    -Brawn
    -Heart
    -Hygiene (not negotiable)
    -Personality

    ...this goes in one hand...the other 5 things are needed as well...

    -Decency
    -Dignity
    -Integrity
    -Loyalty
    -Respect

    ...Over the years, I've come to realise that if guys feel this is some "out of this world" standard/expectation list, keep it moving! I have turned 33 at the start of summer & I can/am doing bad by myself.

    Have something realistic to look for in a potential, not some outlandish bullshit that's gonna make you wonder why you're single.

    My 0.02...
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    Oct 01, 2014 6:22 PM GMT
    This thread made me think of something. But I'll search for a similar thread if it already has been made.