infinitefriend9 said:S So best to wear a condom and say 'noooo' to people that object to it?
Depends on how paranoid you are. It's possible to get hit by a car while crossing the road too, but do you have the police stop traffic for you every time you cross the street? There's risk in everything and the risk varies depending on what the activity is. You have unprotected anal sex with someone you don't know and the risk is very high. If you have oral sex with someone you don't know and you don't swallow, the risk is pretty low. Read up on knowing where you should be seriously concerned and where you should be moderately concerned. Check out 'PrEP' as an optional medication if you're very concerned. Condoms will reduce the minimal risk even more if that's what you want, however, generally the other person won't enjoy it. Google is your friend!