Asking permission...

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    Oct 02, 2014 1:27 AM GMT
    So ive always found it weird wen someone asks permission for things that dont necessarily need permission for?

    For instance:

    Like some guys would message online wen u first start talkin to them "May I be your friend?" .. its very polite, but I dont think a person needs permission to be a friend do they? kinda annoys me a little that they have to ask that sometimes.. haha

    In real life u dont ask people to be your friend.. it just kinda happens naturally through talking about common interests or something.

    Anyone else find it weird that people ask for permission to be friends?

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    Oct 02, 2014 1:29 AM GMT
    I'm high as fuck right now, and you are being even more random than me....wtf..how did you brain even fabricate this?
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    Oct 02, 2014 1:36 AM GMT
    I don't think it's annoying. A little odd, and maybe sometimes creepy. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 02, 2014 2:07 AM GMT
    It's a bit weird when I get an email, asking to be my friend. Normally (for me) it seems to come from guys in other countries.

    I don't get why guys you have never had any contact with would ask that in an email. Desperation?

    I can't imagine anyone responding - "Yeah - of course - let's be friends!"
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    Oct 02, 2014 2:09 AM GMT
    i've gotten some pms asking that. to me, it either sounds really old fashioned or they're not meaning just friends.

    it reminds me of bill compton asking sookie if he may call upon her :p (true blood ref)

    i think maybe just having conversation and seeing where that goes would feel more normal.
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    Oct 02, 2014 2:20 AM GMT
    Can I respond to this thread?
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    Oct 02, 2014 2:22 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidCan I respond to this thread?

    Can we be friends first???

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    Oct 02, 2014 4:17 AM GMT
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    Lumpyoatmeal saidCan I respond to this thread?

    Can we be friends first???
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    For you, anything. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 02, 2014 5:00 AM GMT
    I had a classmate in high school whom I invited over for a sleepover to get to know each other and he asked me "Can we be best friends?" I was like icon_eek.gif
    Then I asked him if he really thought it works just like that? I guess I laughed at him too pretty much because he packed his backpack and went home icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 02, 2014 5:30 AM GMT
    I like people who are polite and cautious a lot more than the ones who post - hey, want sex? or Have more pics?

    but about that can I be your friend? In all honesty a dumb question, especially if it is the first message a guy has posted, I don't know you, of course not
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    Oct 02, 2014 5:56 AM GMT
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:00 AM GMT
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:14 AM GMT
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:16 AM GMT
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone

    Awwww thats adorable! Let me hug you!
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:20 AM GMT
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone

    Awwww thats adorable! Let me hug you!
    giphy.gif


    No, thank you, no hugs. Nice pic
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:24 AM GMT
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone

    Awwww thats adorable! Let me hug you!
    giphy.gif


    No, thank you, no hugs. Nice pic

    I thought you were honest in your unicorn thread and you really wanted to hug everybody. You make me feel I'm an outsider icon_cry.gif
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:29 AM GMT
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone

    Awwww thats adorable! Let me hug you!
    giphy.gif


    No, thank you, no hugs. Nice pic

    I thought you were honest in your unicorn thread and you really wanted to hug everybody. You make me feel I'm an outstander icon_cry.gif


    Yeah, me hugging everyone, that's all me.
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:35 AM GMT
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone

    Awwww thats adorable! Let me hug you!
    giphy.gif


    No, thank you, no hugs. Nice pic

    I thought you were honest in your unicorn thread and you really wanted to hug everybody. You make me feel I'm an outstander icon_cry.gif


    Yeah, me hugging everyone, that's all me.

    I knew you are a closeted cuddlebunny icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:37 AM GMT
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone

    Awwww thats adorable! Let me hug you!
    giphy.gif


    No, thank you, no hugs. Nice pic

    I thought you were honest in your unicorn thread and you really wanted to hug everybody. You make me feel I'm an outstander icon_cry.gif


    Yeah, me hugging everyone, that's all me.

    I knew you are a closeted cuddlebunny icon_smile.gif


    of course I am I love everyone and I am the nicest person in the universe
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    Oct 02, 2014 6:49 AM GMT
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart said
    GrumpyGabe said
    Bonapart saidI like people who are polite and cautious

    Jeez! You must hate yourself, mate!


    I like how you take things out of context and then try to make a point

    That's all I was able to read then I started to laugh so hard that I couldn't read the rest of it because of my tears


    Well I do still like people who are polite and cautious, especially if you are trying to get to know someone

    Awwww thats adorable! Let me hug you!
    giphy.gif


    No, thank you, no hugs. Nice pic

    I thought you were honest in your unicorn thread and you really wanted to hug everybody. You make me feel I'm an outstander icon_cry.gif


    Yeah, me hugging everyone, that's all me.

    I knew you are a closeted cuddlebunny icon_smile.gif


    of course I am I love everyone and I am the nicest person in the universe

    You and your fake rudeness..