For the straight men chasers

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    Oct 05, 2014 6:05 AM GMT
    Stop it, you're scaring them off: http://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/2ibdwf/im_getting_sick_of_homesexuals_around_me_thinking/

    you're making them think we'Re all like that, stap.
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    Oct 05, 2014 6:08 AM GMT
    Sweetooth saidStop it, you're scaring them off: http://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/2ibdwf/im_getting_sick_of_homesexuals_around_me_thinking/

    you're making them think we'Re all like that, stap.


    "The lady doth protest a bit too loudly".
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    Oct 05, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    Whom are you quoting?
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    Oct 05, 2014 6:15 AM GMT
    All I'm saying is straight men are evil
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    Oct 05, 2014 6:25 AM GMT
    Sweetooth saidAll I'm saying is straight men are evil


    I wouldn't say that that straight men are categorically evil. Just that some are vainglorious in thinking that gay men are out to get them.
    Some flatter themselves.
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    Oct 05, 2014 6:29 AM GMT
    Gays that obsess over straights have internalized homophobia and a twisted understanding of what masculinity is.
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    Oct 05, 2014 6:39 AM GMT
    I see it at the gym a lot. Some of the gay guys are super friendly and chummy with the straight dudes. But stare daggers at other gays. icon_lol.gif

    I don't think these guys want to bag a straight dude. I think it goes back to the topic of internalized homophobia, and they don't want to be associated with the other homos at the gym. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 05, 2014 7:14 AM GMT
    I have never understood the gay man's obsession with straight men.
    Wanting what you can't have perhaps?
    I think it's stupid and just like the guy said, it's actually disrespectful when you push your sexuality onto a person.
    If the gay men who are obsessed with straight men would actually stop hitting on them, maybe straight men will be less homophobic.
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    Oct 05, 2014 7:31 AM GMT
    I really never understood it either. I'll admit I've had a lot of crushes on straight men. But from a realistic view, I knew nothing would work; you can't force it.
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    Oct 05, 2014 7:38 AM GMT
    silver_phoenix said
    Yoshino3 saidI really never understood it either. I'll admit I've had a lot of crushes on straight men. But from a realistic view, I knew nothing would work; you can't force it.


    OMG!!! IS THAT YOUR MOTHER IN YOUR AVATAR!!!!!!icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif


    Why yes ^_^
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    Oct 05, 2014 7:49 AM GMT
    MartyredNeons saidI have never understood the gay man's obsession with straight men.
    Wanting what you can't have perhaps?
    I think it's stupid and just like the guy said, it's actually disrespectful when you push your sexuality onto a person.
    If the gay men who are obsessed with straight men would actually stop hitting on them, maybe straight men will be less homophobic.


    I agree with this, just sometimes you cannot help it but to be attracted to a straight guy, but actions speak louder than words
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    Oct 05, 2014 4:16 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Sweetooth saidAll I'm saying is straight men are evil


    I wouldn't say that that straight men are categorically evil. Just that some are vainglorious in thinking that gay men are out to get them.
    Some flatter themselves.


    I was high so I was being silly. That said, I would say some gay men do strongly pursue straight guys, and other times, straight guys are just dramatic. For the case I posted, no way to know what actually happened. I agree with the rest about internalized homophobia.
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    Oct 05, 2014 4:44 PM GMT
    Sweetooth said
    GAMRican said
    Sweetooth saidAll I'm saying is straight men are evil


    I wouldn't say that that straight men are categorically evil. Just that some are vainglorious in thinking that gay men are out to get them.
    Some flatter themselves.


    I was high so I was being silly. That said, I would say some gay men do strongly pursue straight guys, and other times, straight guys are just dramatic. For the case I posted, no way to know what actually happened. I agree with the rest about internalized homophobia.



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    Oct 05, 2014 4:51 PM GMT
    Alot of straight guys are ignorant and boring as fuck... yes they are " masc " but if you ever have dating one of those "bi-curious" cowards you would know how frustrating and pathetic they can be.
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    Oct 05, 2014 11:21 PM GMT
    What's funny is how some dudes think they can actually turn a straight gay. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 05, 2014 11:25 PM GMT
    kevex saidWhat's funny is how some dudes think they can actually turn a straight gay. icon_lol.gif


    Off topic but... I think some str8 are willing to take a dip in forbidden waters as long as they believe the other party isn't gay and won't tell.

    I basing this off personal observations. I don't go after straight men like I use to. It's too much work and effort with nothing in return. I'll just stick to other 'mo's.
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    Oct 05, 2014 11:35 PM GMT
    Riko_sal said
    kevex saidWhat's funny is how some dudes think they can actually turn a straight gay. icon_lol.gif


    Off topic but... I think some str8 are willing to take a dip in forbidden waters as long as they believe the other party isn't gay and won't tell.

    I basing this off personal observations. I don't go after straight men like I use to. It's too much work and effort with nothing in return. I'll just stick to other 'mo's.

    And this is why some gay guys identify as bisexual. It's all a scam to bone straight guys. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 06, 2014 2:19 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    Riko_sal said
    kevex said...


    ...

    And this is why some gay guys identify as bisexual. It's all a scam to bone straight guys. icon_lol.gif


    So THAT'S the trick!
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    Oct 06, 2014 2:21 AM GMT
    It's about time the straight guys learn what it feels like for the women they hit on.
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    Oct 06, 2014 12:57 PM GMT
    I don't agree that internalised homophobia is why many masculine gay men find it easier to hang out and be friends with str8 guys. While it may seem a strange concept to those in the "Maddona is god" and a multitude of other habits and interests then wonder why masculine gay men don't really want to talk much with you. Many gay men are very stereotypically predictable,boring behaviours and attitudes. Those girly gays who now a days tend to even come with gym bodies, however the pro-femmy behaviour is there just the same. They do have a right to be like that, as do gay men who don't feel they have to follow the 'Gay life handbook' and want to have a life where they don't need to restrict all they do in life to the gay ghettos. Deal with it and stop calling it internalised homophobia, if you don't can you consider that your criticisms may bring up about hetro men are merely externalised hetro phobia
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    Oct 06, 2014 4:03 PM GMT
    Bet this is the same guy that for some reason can't change at home...has to put his scrubs on in front of me(in slow motions, abs flexed, a finger down his manicured blond trail).
    "Dude...don't look at me like that".

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    Oct 09, 2014 10:17 AM GMT
    I just don't understand the appeal of chasing and trying to turn a straight guy gay. Sure, some straight men will experiment but at the end of the day, I personally believe they'll choose a woman as it's more socially respected. Unless you are okay with screwing with a married guy, I think you're better of dating another gay guy. Fair enough if the masculine gay guy wants another masculine gay guy, there are plenty (unless you are VERY picky on what you want him to be like).

    That said, I can understand having a crush on a straight guy. I know I have and it was worse when he was nice and had an awesome personality but at the end of the day, you can't change him. So just leave him be.
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    Oct 09, 2014 11:19 AM GMT
    silver_phoenix said
    Sweetooth saidStop it, you're scaring them off: http://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/2ibdwf/im_getting_sick_of_homesexuals_around_me_thinking/

    you're making them think we'Re all like that, stap.


    I don't need to chase after str8 guys, they usually start sniffing around me.

    A lot of str8 guys have incredibly powerful gaydar. But only if you are the one coming up on their screen will you realise they have this extra sense.icon_wink.gif [ disclaimer: doesn't apply to fems which make up around 75 to 90% of gay population.]


    You sound irresistible. If I were a handsome straight man I would def be sniffing around you. You aren't like all the other gays. You are special. I can smell you being special.
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    Oct 09, 2014 1:42 PM GMT
    I like being the catalyst that makes people do things that they would never dream of doing and then eventually coming to love, to be taboo personified, the only exception; is hot - they don't even have to be "straight".
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    Oct 09, 2014 3:20 PM GMT
    I've had a crush on a straight guy or two, but:
    Firstly: not because of the fact that hes straight (the forum title is kind of ambiguous)

    and

    Secondly: I wont ever act on it or make it known, because I hate it enough that if you tell some straight guys that your gay that they will try and avoid you (as being gay automatically means all guys are "your type" :rollicon_smile.gif so I dont want to make the few hetero's that I actually crush on feel uncomfortable too!

    Doing this kind of regresses the progress people have made in the world concerning acceptance of the gay (and all frowned upon) community.