My dear friend of mine dying of breast cancer had the most beautiful day today... Photo included.

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    Oct 06, 2014 5:26 AM GMT
    My dear friend dawn and I who spent the whole day and evening with eachother today. We hung out at all the best spots in Laguna Beach and watched a band play that she knows very well. We had Johnny Rocket Burgers which I SWEAR are the best burgers on the face of this earth. They literally melt in your mouth. We sat and watched the first star come out over the ocean tonight. I've said this before, she is slowly dying of cancer right now and we talk about it and what her and I have come to the conclusion of is live life one day at a time. It was a beautiful day.

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    Oct 06, 2014 5:33 AM GMT
    Doesn't she have the most cutest face and the most beautiful smile you have ever seen. Her heart is even bigger let me just tell you. The doctors say she has one year left to live and we have talked almost everyday for the last five years over the phone. It spread to her bones and there is nothing they can do about that and it also spread to her abdominal region which there is nothing they can do about. She is the best friend I have in Orange County.
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    Oct 06, 2014 5:43 AM GMT
    Enjoy moments like these. Heart to heart is really what the purpose of this existence is all about. I love her so much and all the confidence she gives me. Wouldn't know by looking at her but SHE IS a WILD ex hippie. LOL Laguna Beach was her stomping ground. LOL
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    Oct 06, 2014 6:07 AM GMT
    That's awesome you're there for her during these moments. And Laguna Beach is beautiful! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 06, 2014 6:08 AM GMT
    That's awesome!
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    Oct 06, 2014 6:20 AM GMT
    That's excellent. You seem like a good friend Stuart. Take care. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 06, 2014 6:26 AM GMT
    Thanks guys. It is the image I will keep in my heart for the rest of my life. Her smile WAS so huge today. We watched the Breakfast Club early in the day as she knows shit about eighties movies. So I bought her this one and I also bought her Contact with Jodie Foster that she has never seen before. She is Christian but BELIEVE ME not your average Christian. We know everything about eachother. She still to this day even though she is becoming weaker at times forces herself to walk down to the beach EVERY DAY not to only feed the homeless but to feed the bunny rabbits as well. She also volunteers for her church. SHE IS FULL OF LOVE. If there is something beyond death I HOPE I meet her again. I know famous people, rich people, you name it... But this lady has all those things shining more gloriously from her heart than any money, fame, or empty smiles. She is full of pure love.
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    Oct 06, 2014 7:06 AM GMT
    I got to for the FIRST TIME FINALLY meet the drummer of the band who is going to give her free drumming lessons as she has always wanted to do that since she was a child. The one thing I support most is that she walk out that front door and live life to the fullest. She lives on the best spot on the planet and deserves every last bit of it. She IS the first true hippie I think I ever met. But SHE IS INCREDIBLY WISE not by ego as you will NEVER find ego in this woman but she is wise by those three things I mentioned... Love, compassion and understanding.
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    Oct 06, 2014 7:10 AM GMT
    One of my roommates often complains to me how boring his life is, what's the purpose, we have to do something, blah blah.

    I wondered in my thoughts "What's the difference between him and animal, he's just surviving but not living his life when he has every opportunity to live, if he wishes to"

    Truly, you're living the life which many healthy individuals often dream of. That's indeed awesome. Keep it going. icon_smile.gif

    Best wishes to you and your adorable friend. icon_smile.gif


    NOTE: I suggested my roommate to get a hobby which he loves to do. I think it worked! He started going to Indian classical dance classes from yesterday. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 06, 2014 7:41 AM GMT
    Harry7785, SHE ALWAYS TELLS ME WHEN CHANGES HAPPEN GOOD OR BAD SIMPLY "IT IS LIFE HAPPENING". Of course we get into much deeper discussions and details of that but I hope the best for your friend. What a UNIQUE hobbie he found... I think that is terrific.

    Again, our message for the day and each day is live one day at a time. A VERY famous woman who I am not going to mention told me once "life is a learning experience".

    What I believe is WHATEVER situation you are in if you can lay back and find your center peace which I PROMISE is there for anyone you can walk through anything and enjoy the journey FOR THE MOST PART along the way.

    I came within hours of dying recently and had it not been for the ones who found me I would be dead right now. My friend in the photo was calling me every five minutes because she knows I always return her phone calls. She knew, EVERYONE knew something was wrong.

    I am not going to focus on my last breath, I am going to focus on the breath that I am taking in right now. It might be my last breath but that really don't mean shit if you throw all your other breaths away worrying about it.