how do you know when you crossed a line on grindr? Or that you're putting so much effort

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    Oct 08, 2014 8:45 AM GMT
    First off, I'm not good at socializing with people, because have problems with telling subtle things . So I been communicating with this guy on grindr, it was fun talking to him in the beginning because we sorta had this rapport. But now it feels like he doesn't really say much of anything, I think that's he's not interested in talking with me. Which is okay with, I just want to know if I"m crossing the line of being stalker-ish.

    Then been talking to each other about a week. I just don't want to come off as crazy or desperate.
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    Oct 08, 2014 8:53 AM GMT
    I'm not good at socializing either, so what I say is just a guess.

    He might be talking to other guys...maybe. Have you been constantly sending him messages because he doesn't respond back lately?
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    Oct 08, 2014 9:14 AM GMT
    Yoshino3 saidI'm not good at socializing either, so what I say is just a guess.

    He might be talking to other guys...maybe. Have you been constantly sending him messages because he doesn't respond back lately?



    I sent him two greetings and he didn't respond. One this weekend and one today. Also we were just talking to each other so the relationship wasn't something deep to begin with.
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    Oct 08, 2014 9:21 AM GMT
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    Yoshino3 saidI'm not good at socializing either, so what I say is just a guess.

    He might be talking to other guys...maybe. Have you been constantly sending him messages because he doesn't respond back lately?



    I sent him two greetings and he didn't respond. One this weekend and one today. Also we were just talking to each other so the relationship wasn't something deep to begin with.


    Oh, ok. I see.

    Well, because it is an intro of some sorts, I don't see anything stalker like with your behavior. He might be busy. But if he stops talking or responding to your messages, it might be time to just move on icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 08, 2014 10:49 PM GMT
    I find if you change your pic they usually come crawling back
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    Oct 08, 2014 10:52 PM GMT
    It's Grindr...his dick leads him. The are all liars, they all tell me they want to be friends but when I don't put out, they stop talking to me. Fuck 'em. Happened 3 times to me already.
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    Oct 09, 2014 7:15 AM GMT
    Sweetooth saidIt's Grindr...his dick leads him. The are all liars, they all tell me they want to be friends but when I don't put out, they stop talking to me. Fuck 'em. Happened 3 times to me already.


    Bingo!

    I'm not saying that's always the reason, as I've made quite a few local friends through the app. The majority get bored once it's clear you won't hand it on a plate, though.

    Move on and chat to other guys.