People offering to pay you for sexual actions

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    Oct 12, 2014 1:48 PM GMT
    I guy recently offered to pay me if he could give me a bj. My first instinct was to say no because it seems kind of trashy.

    but the dude was willing to pay $500 for me to make out with him and have him blow me ??

    what do u guys think of this and what price would you consider doing this
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    Oct 12, 2014 1:51 PM GMT
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    Oct 12, 2014 2:01 PM GMT
    No. That's absolutely disgusting and I would feel absolutely ashamed of myself.

    Everybody knows you're supposed to try and least go up to $700. Get it together, Dillonj94.
  • venue35

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    Oct 12, 2014 2:46 PM GMT
    500 is ALOT for a bj
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    Oct 12, 2014 2:50 PM GMT
    JumpMan_Josh saidNo. That's absolutely disgusting and I would feel absolutely ashamed of myself.

    Everybody knows you're supposed to try and least go up to $700. Get it together, Dillonj94.
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    Oct 12, 2014 2:58 PM GMT
    venue35 said500 is ALOT for a bj


    Any amount is a lot when you're the one getting the bj!
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    Oct 12, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    The only reason I can think of that someone might do that, make the offer, is that 1.) They are seriously ugly, or 2.) They are seriously diseased and figure if you say "Yes," then you deserve it. Neither is a very good prospect. I don't doubt you are worth $500 (or $700) but that isn't the point. Though, I guess lots of decent guys pay that much and more for an occasional hooker. Usually just frustrated, closeted guys out of town on business. I don't have a moral issue with it. It's your body. Just be careful.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 12, 2014 4:28 PM GMT
    Yeah, I've been offered money. I remember the first time I was sort of shocked, but I've received all kinds of "suggestions", like, you could be an awesome escort. I had one dude even ask if I'd give him "lessons" for pay.

    Think about who you are and what it's all about. I just simply say, "I don't take pay for sex" and move on.
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    Oct 12, 2014 4:40 PM GMT
    Don't do it! Because it's going to take the entire $500 or more to diagnose and treat the STDs you get from that guy.
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    Oct 12, 2014 5:52 PM GMT
    $500? I so would!! Get in there, OP.

    I've been offered money for sexual favours before and approached to see if I'd do some escort work.

    Give me free champagne and caviar, and I'm anybody's


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    Oct 12, 2014 6:09 PM GMT
    Dillonj94 saidI guy recently offered to pay me if he could give me a bj. My first instinct was to say no because it seems kind of trashy.

    but the dude was willing to pay $500 for me to make out with him and have him blow me ??

    what do u guys think of this and what price would you consider doing this


    My guess is that there is some exaggeration in price from the OP (for only a blow job) - but in the right place and time, would not be surprised that someone offered him something. A rich man desperate for sex in the middle of bumfuck nowhere might offer more than that.

    I can't imagine myself ever having been available for this (and at my current age, the guy offering would have to be blind), but most desires have a price at which they can be satisfied. In movieland (LA) there are thousands of men who will pay $50,000 for a private jet to fly them somewhere. $500 is pocket change to them. Same for rich men everywhere. Female escorts command $500 - 1,000 or more for their services - why would one expect rich men to pay less for gay escorts? I don't think Rock Hudson was buying $20 tricks back in the day.

    But if I were 20, in school, and struggling, I might just accept such an offer - assuming the guy's clean and decent, not a troll, and not in the mafia. If I were 35 and well along in my career - maybe for a lot more - when you come down to it, it's only sex.

    @OP let us know what you decided, and how it went. (And as any whore would tell you, get the cash upfront.)
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    Oct 12, 2014 6:14 PM GMT
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    Oct 12, 2014 6:14 PM GMT
    Jms31 said$500? I so would!! Get in there, OP.

    I've been offered money for sexual favours before and approached to see if I'd do some escort work.

    Give me free champagne and caviar, and I'm anybody's

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    Jms, That sounds like a great deal for a blow job - have you worked out your price list for other items on the sexual menu?
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    Oct 12, 2014 6:20 PM GMT
    Dillonj94 saidI guy recently offered to pay me if he could give me a bj. My first instinct was to say no because it seems kind of trashy.

    but the dude was willing to pay $500 for me to make out with him and have him blow me ??

    what do u guys think of this and what price would you consider doing this

    OP - Are you experienced? What could one expect in giving you a blow job? Testimonials? If you're an amateur, I would think $500 is a bit high. Would you take $100?

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    Oct 12, 2014 8:50 PM GMT
    I dunno. Maybe it's because OP has a large cock. Assuming it's really him and not another fake profile. icon_lol.gif

    But yeah, like someone mentioned previously, it could be a setup. Even if it was legit and you decided to go for it, then what else would you do for money? It's all a downward spiral from that point on.
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    Oct 13, 2014 3:21 AM GMT



    I have been asked before, but im not like that and I have a real profession and reputation to think of. If you are willing to do this, why not sign up with rentboy or any other escort service and make it legit. Just remember, you cant really be 'discreet' when you perform this work, it will get around, if it was a one time thing and the guy was a hot closeted dad, then ok, but after the first time, this guy might want more and more and could turn out to be using you instead. Proceed with caution on your decision

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    Oct 13, 2014 4:38 AM GMT
    Strangely enough, I've been asked. Years ago.

    The odd thing was, the guy wasn't all that hideous looking. He could have just asked for an ordinary date without bringing up payment. And after he asked, he'd immediately disappear for weeks. Some sort of pathological self-esteem issue I suppose.
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    Oct 13, 2014 4:47 AM GMT
    Dillonj94 saidI guy recently offered to pay me if he could give me a bj. My first instinct was to say no because it seems kind of trashy.

    but the dude was willing to pay $500 for me to make out with him and have him blow me ??

    what do u guys think of this and what price would you consider doing this


    I think the a Dillionj94 I know of around KX in Sydney would, just take the money but consider how comfortable you feel about doing the act. You have choices even when getting paid for sex
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    Oct 13, 2014 5:05 AM GMT
    Destinharbor saidThe only reason I can think of that someone might do that, make the offer, is that 1.) They are seriously ugly, or 2.) They are seriously diseased and figure if you say "Yes," then you deserve it. Neither is a very good prospect. I don't doubt you are worth $500 (or $700) but that isn't the point. Though, I guess lots of decent guys pay that much and more for an occasional hooker. Usually just frustrated, closeted guys out of town on business. I don't have a moral issue with it. It's your body. Just be careful.


    Wrong. In fact, when I was in school (22 or so) I talked to a guy online and he was REALLY hot. He was maybe 32 or 34, married. We were going to meet, and we were planning it out on gay.com (this was 2006), and he brought up money and was like, "is 300 enough." I felt really ashamed that he thought it would take money for me to sleep with him. I also didn't like the fact that I was about to hookup with a guy who would pay for sex. It was just "off." I wound up hooking up with him, WITHOUT any money of course, but it kind of tarnished it.

    The reason he wanted to pay was because he needed to hookup with an intelligent and 100% discreet person, like myself. Someone who wasn't a basic bitch, who would keep a secret, and not 'out' him. Believe me, this guy was model good looking, so it's not mostly ugly guys who pay. Any man with anything to lose OR who wants someone attractive and high class, will pay market rate. I think you're confusing STREET HUSTLERS (who tend to be homeless, vulnerable, addicted to drugs, STD ridden, barebackers, with little to no family support, and varying looks) with ESCORTS (who are educated, intelligent, college or advanced degree students, do not bareback, have no STDs, and are other 'normal' except for the fact that they get paid to have sex with attractive and/or powerful men who need discretion). I think it's a distinction with a meaning. One walks the hot/cold streets, while the other commands a rate that rivals most professionals (lawyers, doctors, etc).

    $500 for a B/J? I'm not a hoe, and I've never been paid and would never pay, but from the few odd offers I've gotten online and that I've seen on A4A (there's a professional escort option where they post their incall/outcall rates) 500 is a ton for receiving a b/j. From my understanding, in NYC (which would likely set the top of the market rate) 100 for a b/j, whereas guys will pay 300 to 500 for a guy to top/fuck them. So being offered 500 to receive a b/j is above market. Good job--for lack of a better term.
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    Oct 13, 2014 5:56 AM GMT
    I knew a guy who was turned on by paying for sex. I'm not sure which part of it turned him on, but there you are.
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    Oct 13, 2014 7:24 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidDon't do it! Because it's going to take the entire $500 or more to diagnose and treat the STDs you get from that guy.


    Amen!
    Aside from that though, I mean OP you are 21 years old.
    To each their own I guess but surely there are better ways available to you that will allow you to earn money without having revert to ... this particular method.
  • buddycat

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    Oct 13, 2014 10:19 AM GMT
    I say no. Find another way to make money besides whoring. This is your choice though and you are the one that has to live with it not me.
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    Oct 13, 2014 10:37 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidI knew a guy who was turned on by paying for sex. I'm not sure which part of it turned him on, but there you are.


    Yeh I've always wished that i could go up to anyone with a wad of cash in a club or wherever and buy them for the night.
    seeing how cheap they would do it for would be a big turn on for me haha
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    Oct 13, 2014 10:42 AM GMT
    buddycat saidI say no. Find another way to make money besides whoring. This is your choice though and you are the one that has to live with it not me.


    Agreed