such dilemma!

  • mr_Otter85

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    Oct 15, 2014 6:45 PM GMT
    hello gentlemen. this is my first topic here. I am deeply conflicted about a personal issue, which is to laser or not to laser.

    i am pretty furry (you can see from my pic). I started exploring my gay side lately, at this age, but i always felt very attracted to hairy/furry men. i get turned on by beefy furry scruffy men, or just furry guys who look pretty average.

    i am stuck somewhere that hates hair on men. smooth soft skin is all the way. even my fellow furry men want smoothish guys, sigh!

    this made me think about getting hair removal. my body hair is not a big problem for me. i still think it is attractive.

    also, i have heard that there is a utopia for furry gay men, where they are accepted, welcomed, loved and adored. does that mythical place really exist icon_smile.gif ?

    thanks
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    Oct 15, 2014 6:48 PM GMT
    some people love the hair others dont. u are a furry bear for sure. i take dht blockers and they work wonders for body hair
  • mr_Otter85

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    Oct 15, 2014 6:49 PM GMT
    sorry wrong section! can the admin move this topic to dating and relationship?
  • mr_Otter85

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    Oct 15, 2014 6:51 PM GMT
    guido4life saidsome people love the hair others dont. u are a furry bear for sure. i take dht blockers and they work wonders for body hair


    i've heard they are bit risky
  • mr_Otter85

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    Oct 15, 2014 6:52 PM GMT
    guido4life saidsome people love the hair others dont. u are a furry bear for sure. i take dht blockers and they work wonders for body hair

    also lucky me, guys around not into it icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 15, 2014 7:00 PM GMT
    Shouldn't this be your personal choice rather than based on some guys preference? The whole gay community is tied around tons of preferences. You can't make everyone happy. Some like hairy, some smooth, and some don't care that much.

    If your body hair doesn't bother you very much, then keep it.
    It's not worth to remove it just for the sake of bunch of gays. Since you are still in closet and haven't really gone out much in the scene, you don't really know that everyone has their own set of preferences. You can't fit in every scene. What if, later you fall for some guy who likes very hairy guys? Just keep it!
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    Oct 15, 2014 7:01 PM GMT
    Luv your body hair! It's hawt! Don't change it.

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    Oct 15, 2014 7:16 PM GMT
    I don't personally like that much, and I would say hair removal cream is the best way to get rid (maybe laser is better but I have not tried that). If you don't change it, there are people around who love it.
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    Oct 15, 2014 7:16 PM GMT
    Take up road cycling, body building, or soccer. Then you'll have an excuse to shave or laser. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 15, 2014 9:42 PM GMT
    Hairy men are hot! Hair on the back is not. Laser is an easy way to get rid of that. Whatever option you chose just keep your back smooth icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 17, 2014 8:32 PM GMT
    Your fur is awesome, wish I had as much as you.
  • Destinharbor

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    Oct 17, 2014 10:36 PM GMT
    Generally any group that calls themselves "bears" is going to like hair. Leather guys, too, are often into hair. Though even with them, hair on the back and shoulders generally is considered too much. Hairy chests are usually liked by most. A lot of guys here prefer smooth (as I do) partly because it shows off the work in the gym.