How do I know if a guy wants me?

  • infinitefrien...

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    Oct 19, 2014 6:40 PM GMT
    What are signs that I can pick up on to make my approach?

  • Kovyn

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    Oct 19, 2014 7:42 PM GMT
    Eye contact, the way his body is positioned in contrast to yours (e.g. In-line), if his attention is on you, if you guys flirt, etc.

    Does he know you like him? How does he respond when you flirt? Does he ask you questions or talk about himself? Do his friends like you? What's his reaction during the initial hello/goodbye?

    Honestly you just know. Don't read into what you want, read into the reality of the situation.
  • Danskerb

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    Oct 19, 2014 8:14 PM GMT
    Its all in the eyes.

    I think you can tell... Does the person try and hold a conversation with you, do they pay a little more attention to you than others, do they smile when they see you?
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    Oct 20, 2014 2:53 PM GMT
    If He sends a car, gives You his Black AmEx and looks the other way when You shoot the Help.

    THEN Yer in....
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    Oct 20, 2014 3:41 PM GMT
    I look for a tell tale sign of a pre cum spot leaking through his khakis.
  • 5100s

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    Oct 20, 2014 4:44 PM GMT
    My experience has been that when people want you, or anything else, they have a way of making it perfectly clear. This knowledge can save a lot of angst. Similarly, when they say they don't want you, you should take it at face value and move on.
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    Oct 20, 2014 5:28 PM GMT
    In gay land the easiest strategy is to be the aggressor and communicate what you want to any guy that you have an interest. It's pretty much just learning and practicing to be a good salesman.
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    Oct 20, 2014 8:51 PM GMT
    Is it in his eyes?
    Oh no! You'll be deceived
    Is it in his sighs?
    Oh no! He'll make believe
    If you want to know if he loves you so
    It's in his kiss
    That's where it is
  • MrPapo317

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    Oct 20, 2014 9:38 PM GMT
    Defiantly in the eyes. If he stares at you stare back, give a wink, grin or a head nod.

    Had this happen to me when i went to a straight bar this past weekend. Crazy thing is he was with a girl i assumed was his gf.
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    Oct 20, 2014 10:26 PM GMT
    Oh no! That's not the way
    And you're not list'nin' to all I say
    If you wanna know if he loves you so
    It's in his kiss
    That's where it is
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    Oct 20, 2014 10:27 PM GMT
    Smile. Check for hard-on. If hard-on present, you are clear for approach. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 21, 2014 1:34 AM GMT
    Wyndahoi saidIs it in his eyes?
    Oh no! You'll be deceived
    Is it in his sighs?
    Oh no! He'll make believe
    If you want to know if he loves you so
    It's in his kiss
    That's where it is


    Sing it out, Cher! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 21, 2014 3:40 AM GMT
    Once he's passed out from the booze and roofies, you can make your approach.
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    Oct 21, 2014 8:53 AM GMT
    Give him an awkwardly long hug, if his cock erects he wants you. If he says ew and push you back, he will do this for sure, it's time to fuck off.
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    Oct 21, 2014 2:22 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi saidIs it in his eyes?
    Oh no! You'll be deceived
    Is it in his sighs?
    Oh no! He'll make believe
    If you want to know if he loves you so
    It's in his kiss
    That's where it is


    I love this

    I do think its in the eyes too (:
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    Oct 21, 2014 2:38 PM GMT
    sed4561 said
    Wyndahoi saidIs it in his eyes?
    Oh no! You'll be deceived
    Is it in his sighs?
    Oh no! He'll make believe
    If you want to know if he loves you so
    It's in his kiss
    That's where it is


    I love this

    I do think its in the eyes too (:


    It's a cute song and all that but it's way off the mark. If you wank to know if someone likes/loves you, it's in their actions towards you.
  • budri7

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    Oct 21, 2014 4:37 PM GMT
    Man I thought it was all in the eyes also. This hot str8 guy at work used to just eye me from across the room and was always trying to get close to me because we did not work on the same team. Finally after about 9 months of this I just went up to him and said lets hang out. He wanted to hang out but nothing more. From that point on I have lost my confidence my gaydar. I honestly have no clue. The guy was actually put off by my being up front and has know married a woman and had a baby girl..LOL I still feel he is gay but who the hell knows..POINT IS you never know but take a chance. Not worth living timid.
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    Oct 21, 2014 7:12 PM GMT
    Eye contact, body contact, if he says he wants you. Lol, depend on how long you two been going out.
  • peterstrong

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    Oct 21, 2014 7:59 PM GMT
    some straight guys give very good eye contact, so that is not a certainty like budri7 sez - i have had many similar experiences to his icon_exclaim.gif

    i agree with those who said look for a hard on / sometimes that's not foolproof either though, just an fyi, same with prolonged physical contact sometimes isn't a certainty as well

    i do think 100% straight guys don't get offended by being approached though / i believe its the bisexual repressed guys who get offended / just saying icon_wink.gif

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    Oct 21, 2014 8:45 PM GMT
    If he's blushing when you mention that he looks good.

    Or as many others said: a hard-on is a pretty good sign.
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    Oct 21, 2014 8:59 PM GMT
    This is why (unfortunately) the gay apps are such a useful tool. It's next to impossible to know for certain a guy is gay and likes you without him saying as much. So now on the fancy gay apps you can see if that guy is in the vicinity, and if so, you're safe to hit on him. icon_razz.gif