So I was completely rejected.

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    Oct 19, 2014 11:58 PM GMT
    As RJs most over rated Member

    I liked a Guy who blew Me off

    Yeah

    It happens to Me Too

    I am living in a crumbling mansion

    Don't get excited. In NYC anything more than20 feet wide is called a mansion

    I guess I thought He would be excited that I was into Him.

    He was just not interested.

    First time

    Sux



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    Oct 20, 2014 12:06 AM GMT
    Welcome to my world.
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    Oct 20, 2014 12:06 AM GMT
    Did he find you shallow? Do you think he realized that any interesting dialogues between you might be impossible?

    I'm just trying to help. I know it can be frustrating to have to ask "Why was I rejected?"

    Especially when the answer seems pretty obvious to everyone else.
  • Kovyn

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    Oct 20, 2014 12:11 AM GMT
    Used to be RJ's most over rated member*.

    Hi I'm Kovyn.
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    Oct 20, 2014 12:31 AM GMT
    GloriousCockster saidDid he find you shallow? Do you think he realized that any interesting dialogues between you might be impossible?

    I'm just trying to help.


    I am actually quite interesting.

    I don't know why you hate Me so much


    Me and My Brothers stop traffic where ever We go

    My family has been a part of American history

    My Mother is a MAJOR American Beauty Queen


    My Father is one of the most respected Medical Proffesionals on the Eastern Seaboard

    My Grandfather built a mansion that was referred to as "the big white house" and "the tank"

    Not even hurricane sandy could make a dent in it..

    My Great great great Grandfather was George Opdyke

    Look it up. He was the Mayor of NYC during the Civil War

    He is aLso considered largely responsible for the election of Abraham Lincoln.

    Back off

    You are WAY out of your league

    Your a third rate snot

    And you know it
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    Oct 20, 2014 12:43 AM GMT
    Impressive.

    But alas, an interesting mind isn't hereditary.
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    Oct 20, 2014 12:55 AM GMT
    GloriousCockster saidImpressive.

    But alas, an interesting mind isn't hereditary.


    You certainly prove THAT
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    Oct 20, 2014 1:06 AM GMT
    GloriousCockster saidImpressive.

    But alas, an interesting mind isn't hereditary.


    Does it really piss you off so much that I am considered reasonably attractive?


    My MIND is the reason I have so many hotlistings


    So what?

    I am somewhat considered good looking by a few Guys

    What does it matter to "you"

    You KNOW in RL I would never notice you


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    Oct 20, 2014 1:07 AM GMT
    Cash said
    GloriousCockster saidImpressive.

    But alas, an interesting mind isn't hereditary.


    You certainly prove THAT



    Mere Cash, "THAT" would only be a witty repartee if I had just expounded on my grandiose ancestry as you so thoroughly did.

    My lineage isn't at question here but I can assure you that I have risen from the same primordial muck from which your great-great grand did.

    My greats didn't lift me onto a pedestal and instruct me simply to be pretty.

    If I listen closely to my ancestors' instructions, I'm sure they are telling me never to debate a fool with an unchallenging mind.

    I'll start listening to them.

    Good Night. Sorry about your rejection. Hope it teaches you something.
  • Kovyn

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    Oct 20, 2014 1:48 AM GMT
    Cash wins.
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    Oct 20, 2014 2:00 AM GMT
    Cash said
    You are WAY out of your league

    Problem with pedigrees is you don't wear them on your sleeve. How's a guy to know who you are? And even if he did know, why would it attract him? I doubt 1 in 10,000 guys even knows who George Opdyke is. Not to denigrate your famous ancestor, but let's be realistic.

    My pedigree goes back to mid-1600s New Amsterdam, before there even was a New York. After the English took over they went across the Hudson and founded a town originally named for my ancestor, now renamed as the present day Montclair. And his descendants founded another nearby town, Little Falls. An ancestor was a General in the Revolutionary War. Others fought in the Civil War. I have an appreciation & respect for these things.

    The best way I know to attract gay guys is to flex your pecs and flash your cash. Which can earn you an easy trick and little more. That I don't doubt you can do if you want.

    It's a tough obstacle course out there. NYC offers lots of men, and lots of dead ends. I'll bet you that when Anderson Cooper was single he also got turned down at times in NYC.

    Gorgeous guy, all kinds of money. But I doubt he'd say "I'm a Vanderbilt". Now there's a pedigree. And even if he did, I wonder how many guys today would know what that means?

    So I think, Cash, you gotta take your chances like the rest of us. And expect that some fools will pass up a treasure. And some will unwittingly stumble upon the same treasure, and win the big prize. I hope that you, and he, win that lotto. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 20, 2014 2:07 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said


    ...So I think, Cash, you gotta take your chances like the rest of us. And expect that some fools will pass up a treasure. And some will unwittingly stumble upon the same treasure, and win the big prize. I hope that you, and he, win that lotto. icon_biggrin.gif


    How eloquent, Art. Cash is an incredible man.

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    Oct 20, 2014 2:28 AM GMT
    bon_pan said
    Art_Deco said

    ...So I think, Cash, you gotta take your chances like the rest of us. And expect that some fools will pass up a treasure. And some will unwittingly stumble upon the same treasure, and win the big prize. I hope that you, and he, win that lotto. icon_biggrin.gif


    How eloquent, Art. Cash is an incredible man.

    I'll take your word for it. I think he & I may have clashed swords before (an Army phrase for fighting), but I really don't remember. There's less than half a dozen guys here who I know to be persistent troublemakers, and he's not one of them. Perhaps we had a catfight, I really can't remember, but obviously it was not important or lasting to me.

    A symptom of old age is that your memory goes. And you either remember your enemies, and forgot your friends, or you remember your friends and forget your enemies. Your old brain won't hold both.

    In my case all I can remember are my friends, and very few of my enemies. I suppose that's preferable. As I increasingly need friends, and don't wanna think about enemies. I guess what I'm doing in real life is also being reflected online. There's my new thought for the day.
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    Oct 20, 2014 4:18 AM GMT
    sucks, dude.
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    Oct 20, 2014 5:07 AM GMT
    GloriousCockster said
    Cash said
    GloriousCockster saidImpressive.

    But alas, an interesting mind isn't hereditary.


    You certainly prove THAT



    Mere Cash, "THAT" would only be a witty repartee if I had just expounded on my grandiose ancestry as you so thoroughly did.

    My lineage isn't at question here but I can assure you that I have risen from the same primordial muck from which your great-great grand did.

    My greats didn't lift me onto a pedestal and instruct me simply to be pretty.

    If I listen closely to my ancestors' instructions, I'm sure they are telling me never to debate a fool with an unchallenging mind.

    I'll start listening to them.

    Good Night. Sorry about your rejection. Hope it teaches you something.


    I am not simply pretty.

    And you know it

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    Oct 20, 2014 5:16 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Cash said
    You are WAY out of your league

    Problem with pedigrees is you don't wear them on your sleeve. How's a guy to know who you are? And even if he did know, why would it attract him? I doubt 1 in 10,000 guys even knows who George Opdyke is. Not to denigrate your famous ancestor, but let's be realistic.

    My pedigree goes back to mid-1600s New Amsterdam, before there even was a New York. After the English took over they went across the Hudson and founded a town originally named for my ancestor, now renamed as the present day Montclair. And his descendants founded another nearby town, Little Falls. An ancestor was a General in the Revolutionary War. Others fought in the Civil War. I have an appreciation & respect for these things.

    The best way I know to attract gay guys is to flex your pecs and flash your cash. Which can earn you an easy trick and little more. That I don't doubt you can do if you want.

    It's a tough obstacle course out there. NYC offers lots of men, and lots of dead ends. I'll bet you that when Anderson Cooper was single he also got turned down at times in NYC.

    Gorgeous guy, all kinds of money. But I doubt he'd say "I'm a Vanderbilt". Now there's a pedigree. And even if he did, I wonder how many guys today would know what that means?

    So I think, Cash, you gotta take your chances like the rest of us. And expect that some fools will pass up a treasure. And some will unwittingly stumble upon the same treasure, and win the big prize. I hope that you, and he, win that lotto. icon_biggrin.gif


    I am not flashing pedigree

    I am the FIRST to point out that I am trash

    I rather like it

    I think My point was missed

    My humor is often missed on here

    And I am rather proud of My lineage

    It goes back more than ten centuries

    But who I am and what I stand for right now are what makes Me the Man that I am

    Make NO mistakes

    I rely on NO ONE to define Me.



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    Oct 20, 2014 7:38 AM GMT
    Hmmmm

    You just haven't met your match.

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    I think guys know when your out of their league!!

    It takes A kings to make 21! BTW> This is a very magical number. It means you win and it's also my BD July, 21.

    Ace! Meet your KING!
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    Oct 20, 2014 7:50 AM GMT
    Cash saidAs RJs most over rated Member

    I liked a Guy who blew Me off

    Yeah

    It happens to Me Too

    I am living in a crumbling mansion

    Don't get excited. In NYC anything more than20 feet wide is called a mansion

    I guess I thought He would be excited that I was into Him.

    He was just not interested.

    First time

    Sux





    Sorry to hear you were rejected. Were there times you met someone attractive but it just wasn't there? This has no bearing on how attractive you are, it just happens.
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    Oct 20, 2014 8:36 AM GMT
    Not only was I rejected today but dismissed and ignored……I'm gonna slash that motherfuckers tyres when I see him next.
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Oct 20, 2014 8:47 AM GMT
    No matter how interesting you are, you can't be right for everyone. Even if it's just that one amazing guy you want so badly, It doesn't work that way. Had to learn that the hard way icon_sad.gif

    All you can do is get back up, dust your coattails off and walk away...icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 20, 2014 8:48 AM GMT
    Just means you are back out there for someone who deserves you !

    I should probably take my own advice there lol
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    Oct 20, 2014 9:04 AM GMT
    lad89 saidJust means you are back out there for someone who deserves you !

    I should probably take my own advice there lol


    Yes you should icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 20, 2014 9:11 AM GMT
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    lad89 saidJust means you are back out there for someone who deserves you !

    I should probably take my own advice there lol


    Yes you should icon_smile.gif
    LMAO you just pop up from knowhere hahaha icon_eek.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 20, 2014 9:23 AM GMT
    duluthrunner saidWelcome to my world.


    Everyone gets rejected at some time or another in there life
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    Oct 20, 2014 10:22 AM GMT
    Something had to be seriously wrong with them...