How would you feel about this?

  • xBEHEMOTHx

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    Oct 20, 2014 1:23 PM GMT
    Lets say you were into a guy and would even consider dating him..but then you found out he is kinda a who're like letting multiple guys breed him at once..ya see I'm a pretty jealous guy and even hearing these things about someone I'm into is enough to make me lose all interest.. so is it wrong to get upset even if your not exclusive with someone??
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    Oct 20, 2014 1:39 PM GMT
    i would NOT call this a date
    go work on your infatuation with this guy. Make him your best friend if necessary. Just its not a date.

    why are you thinking like this
    can't love all of god's creations, you can admire quite a few more than what it takes to love them.


    bottom line
    -you need to draw a more defined line; the differences between acquaintances, friends and lovers.
    -You need to containerize peeps, for example; dependable gym partners, guys that know how to work on cars or a tax accountant never should know what goes on in the bedroom. Works the other way around as; a sex partner needs not know where you keep the keys.

    super safe sex this guy for all its worth but just be careful.
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    Oct 20, 2014 2:38 PM GMT
    Judging others never seems to satisfy until it has been inflicted. Fortunately, it's an excellent distraction from self-examination.
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    Oct 20, 2014 3:06 PM GMT
    I don't think It's judging at all..I actually would still have sex with this person but not consider dating them anymore which was where the original interest was
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    Oct 20, 2014 3:08 PM GMT
    xBEHEMOTHx saidLets say you were into a guy and would even consider dating him..but then you found out he is kinda a who're like letting multiple guys breed him at once..ya see I'm a pretty jealous guy and even hearing these things about someone I'm into is enough to make me lose all interest.. so is it wrong to get upset even if your not exclusive with someone??


    Ummm…..I'm not sure how id feel... I don't thing id go out of my way to get involved with a sexually promiscuous person to begin with….My best friend is the most promiscuous person I know and we were just having a mature conversation about his anal warts being burnt off with acid last week over tea.

    I think id be less concerned about who he's fucking and more concerned if my dick had contracted ebola from his ass.

    But lets just say I did get involved with him I would say yes I would be very fucking jealous but that wouldn't stop me from watching.
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    Oct 20, 2014 3:25 PM GMT
    Oh, pardon me, I must've been confused by that "...kinda a who're" thingy.
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    Oct 21, 2014 9:48 AM GMT
    Wow ur doing the same shit to me as before....ur seing other people....wow and u post it on this fucking forum...wow Josh...wow
  • buddycat

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    Oct 21, 2014 9:54 AM GMT
    They sound gross to me. I don't think I could be with someone that would be with someone like that if breeding means what I think it does.
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    Oct 21, 2014 10:06 AM GMT
    Sorry , but I'd say good bye if he's getting breed by multiple part enters.
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    Oct 21, 2014 10:16 AM GMT
    Same here. I don't share my men. If I'm not enough for him why bother staying with him.
    Breeding with several guys.. Wouldn't even sleep with him, STD free zone here.
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    Oct 21, 2014 5:01 PM GMT
    well it's you choice you can choose to date whoever you feel like deserves it, I don't see any issues here
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    Oct 21, 2014 5:11 PM GMT
    xBEHEMOTHx saidLets say you were into a guy and would even consider dating him..but then you found out he is kinda a who're like letting multiple guys breed him at once..ya see I'm a pretty jealous guy and even hearing these things about someone I'm into is enough to make me lose all interest.. so is it wrong to get upset even if your not exclusive with someone??


    Your profile states that you're HIV Negative, which brings up a lot of questions: First of all, are you having unprotected sex with him? If you are, you need to get tested immediately. Secondly, his profile says he's an MD, so I'm assuming he's got to be Positive already because no doctor can actually be that stupid, right?

    Also, open relationships (can) be healthy, but yours sounds downright abusive. People with sexual addictions will normally insist on an open relationship or will cheat when in a monogamous one. This guy sounds like he has some real emotional issues. I'd be glad he saw this thread and count your blessings.

    You have two choices in life.....you can bareback strangers or you can be HIV Negative, but you can't be both (for long.)
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    Oct 21, 2014 5:12 PM GMT
    Yea, for me it's a safety issue. While I support his right to express himself sexually in any way he likes (and doesn't harm others) I also have the right not to want to be with a guy who is willing to take those kind of risks with himself.

    Let's say it's a given that he comes back STD free after that encounter, if he's willing to be that risky once there's no reason to believe he won't do it (or similar risky behavior) again.

    So for me it's not a jealousy thing, it's a self-respect thing. I'd lose some respect for him for being so careless with his own safety, but I'd also lose some for myself if I was then willing to let his choices put me at risk.
  • xBEHEMOTHx

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    Oct 22, 2014 7:59 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    xBEHEMOTHx saidLets say you were into a guy and would even consider dating him..but then you found out he is kinda a who're like letting multiple guys breed him at once..ya see I'm a pretty jealous guy and even hearing these things about someone I'm into is enough to make me lose all interest.. so is it wrong to get upset even if your not exclusive with someone??


    Your profile states that you're HIV Negative, which brings up a lot of questions: First of all, are you having unprotected sex with him? If you are, you need to get tested immediately. Secondly, his profile says he's an MD, so I'm assuming he's got to be Positive already because no doctor can actually be that stupid, right?

    Also, open relationships (can) be healthy, but yours sounds downright abusive. People with sexual addictions will normally insist on an open relationship or will cheat when in a monogamous one. This guy sounds like he has some real emotional issues. I'd be glad he saw this thread and count your blessings.

    You have two choices in life.....you can bareback strangers or you can be HIV Negative, but you can't be both (for long.)
    no I'm not even having sex with this person, it was something that was brought to my attention by this person when I was invited to the fuck fest pnp..I'm sure that involves some hard drugs
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    Oct 22, 2014 8:24 PM GMT
    simple, is it something from the past that he opened up to you and regrets it? was it just 1/2 times or was it frequently? there´s important questions to be made,anyways if you are looking for monogonous and respectfull (no cheating,abuse,etc) relationship is simple to reach a concensus into this, ask him personal questions, if you see he talks about this with regret and even cries or something, it means he did something he was not ok with and probably did it with the "help" of substances, means he had psic issues and was just self destructive or influenced by others and lost on his little box and could not think outside it, if not, it means it was a clear choice and I would not expect him to be a monogonous person, I honestly expect most people to have done something more open minded or stupid that they regret when they were young and new, maybe Im too much of a prude or have way too high standarts but I expect people to have some brains and maturity about their choices by the age of 21,22, 23....
    carefull wtih STD´s...people with this kinda of behaviours do "party and play" or use other substances to relax and be able to go through with such behavious, this leads to raw sex frequently, it´s very likely he´s infected, you dont have to "pay"/live with a risk of his life choices
    we´re all the architects of our actions and we should live with the consequences of it, either good or bad
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    Oct 22, 2014 10:17 PM GMT
    xBEHEMOTHx said
    Scruffypup said
    xBEHEMOTHx saidLets say you were into a guy and would even consider dating him..but then you found out he is kinda a who're like letting multiple guys breed him at once..ya see I'm a pretty jealous guy and even hearing these things about someone I'm into is enough to make me lose all interest.. so is it wrong to get upset even if your not exclusive with someone??


    Your profile states that you're HIV Negative, which brings up a lot of questions: First of all, are you having unprotected sex with him? If you are, you need to get tested immediately. Secondly, his profile says he's an MD, so I'm assuming he's got to be Positive already because no doctor can actually be that stupid, right?

    Also, open relationships (can) be healthy, but yours sounds downright abusive. People with sexual addictions will normally insist on an open relationship or will cheat when in a monogamous one. This guy sounds like he has some real emotional issues. I'd be glad he saw this thread and count your blessings.

    You have two choices in life.....you can bareback strangers or you can be HIV Negative, but you can't be both (for long.)
    no I'm not even having sex with this person, it was something that was brought to my attention by this person when I was invited to the fuck fest pnp..I'm sure that involves some hard drugs


    Honestly, I don't know why you're even asking for advice. If you don't know this is a toxic person on your own, your future relationships don't look too promising.
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    Oct 22, 2014 10:45 PM GMT
    There's nothing wrong with having standards, which is what it sounds like you're questioning.
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    Oct 22, 2014 11:12 PM GMT
    ^ This.