What does it mean to be a 'pussy boy'?

  • infinitefrien...

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    Oct 20, 2014 9:03 PM GMT
    Like 'be my pussy boy'
    What does it imply?
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    Oct 20, 2014 9:05 PM GMT
    Well if you call someone a pussy its usually an insult about them being weak/unable to stand up for themselves so it doesn't sound positive.
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    Oct 20, 2014 9:11 PM GMT
    It means being a female tom cat.
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    Oct 21, 2014 9:47 AM GMT
    If you look up the definition if Pussy Boy you'll see a number of answers.
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    Oct 21, 2014 10:38 AM GMT
    Sounds like something that a self-loathing top might say to try and emasculate and feminize the bottom... totally derogatory.

    He hates himself for fucking with a guy, so he makes himself feel better by pretending that it's a pussy he's banging, and not a butthole.

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    Oct 21, 2014 2:20 PM GMT
    infinitefriend9 saidLike 'be my pussy boy'
    What does it imply?



    Is every post of yours about sex? I've got 10 on it that you're a preteen discovering your sexuality online or your some old perv-o.


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    Oct 21, 2014 4:59 PM GMT
    it's a guy who looks like a cute kitty
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    Oct 22, 2014 1:29 AM GMT
    JonSpringon saidSounds like something that a self-loathing top might say to try and emasculate and feminize the bottom... totally derogatory.

    He hates himself for fucking with a guy, so he makes himself feel better by pretending that it's a pussy he's banging, and not a butthole.



    JonSpringon you are exactly right and there are too many messed up guys like that who justify there own self loathing by using terms like that. Personally if I was naked in bed with a guy who called me a 'pussy boy' he would get a little more than a scratch, then I'd see who is the real pussy boy. Sex is about pleasure and expression not the power you have over someone as that is such an unhealthy way to base your attraction to someone
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    Oct 22, 2014 1:31 AM GMT
    jayfromBK93 said
    infinitefriend9 saidLike 'be my pussy boy'
    What does it imply?



    Is every post of yours about sex? I've got 10 on it that you're a preteen discovering your sexuality online or your some old perv-o.




    Really mate???Say the guys who doesn't have a public profile pic. Those people who live in glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones now should they buddy
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    Oct 22, 2014 4:51 AM GMT
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 said
    jayfromBK93 said
    infinitefriend9 saidLike 'be my pussy boy'
    What does it imply?



    Is every post of yours about sex? I've got 10 on it that you're a preteen discovering your sexuality online or your some old perv-o.




    Really mate???Say the guys who doesn't have a public profile pic. Those people who live in glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones now should they buddy


    I have a pic, it's private. I don't need my co-workers seeing this shit. I'll send you a pic of me no problem. Not living in a glass house and I actually talk about things. I was just commenting upon the fact every post this guys makes is some ridiculous sex question with an easy google-able answer, juvenile questions about dating, or "experience" open ended queries elicit people relaying sexual experience or at least replying in an explicitly sexual manner. I mean if he is - whatever, the loveliest thing about the internets is anonymity...and when I was 14 I did the same shit-several gay forums I would ask sexually oriented "explain this" or "have you ever done this? what was your experience like" or "how do you do this?" and adding the answers to the wank bank in my brain.
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    Oct 22, 2014 5:15 AM GMT
    JonSpringon saidSounds like something that a self-loathing top might say to try and emasculate and feminize the bottom... totally derogatory.

    He hates himself for fucking with a guy, so he makes himself feel better by pretending that it's a pussy he's banging, and not a butthole.


    Typical butthurt comment, who called you pussyboi?
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    Oct 22, 2014 5:47 AM GMT
    jayfromBK93 said
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 said
    jayfromBK93 said
    infinitefriend9 saidLike 'be my pussy boy'
    What does it imply?



    Is every post of yours about sex? I've got 10 on it that you're a preteen discovering your sexuality online or your some old perv-o.




    Really mate???Say the guys who doesn't have a public profile pic. Those people who live in glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones now should they buddy


    I have a pic, it's private. I don't need my co-workers seeing this shit. I'll send you a pic of me no problem. Not living in a glass house and I actually talk about things. I was just commenting upon the fact every post this guys makes is some ridiculous sex question with an easy google-able answer, juvenile questions about dating, or "experience" open ended queries elicit people relaying sexual experience or at least replying in an explicitly sexual manner. I mean if he is - whatever, the loveliest thing about the internets is anonymity...and when I was 14 I did the same shit-several gay forums I would ask sexually oriented "explain this" or "have you ever done this? what was your experience like" or "how do you do this?" and adding the answers to the wank bank in my brain.


    I went to his profile and here is his topics. You made a ridiculous comment and now after you read below please apologise.

    My other comment is you saying it could be some old perve and not the 21yr old he says he is on his profile and yet your profile pic is hidden.

    Chill out little bro and stop being so bitchy to other guys on here

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    Oct 23, 2014 6:32 AM GMT
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 said
    jayfromBK93 said
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 said
    jayfromBK93 said
    infinitefriend9 saidLike 'be my pussy boy'
    What does it imply?



    Is every post of yours about sex? I've got 10 on it that you're a preteen discovering your sexuality online or your some old perv-o.




    Really mate???Say the guys who doesn't have a public profile pic. Those people who live in glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones now should they buddy


    I have a pic, it's private. I don't need my co-workers seeing this shit. I'll send you a pic of me no problem. Not living in a glass house and I actually talk about things. I was just commenting upon the fact every post this guys makes is some ridiculous sex question with an easy google-able answer, juvenile questions about dating, or "experience" open ended queries elicit people relaying sexual experience or at least replying in an explicitly sexual manner. I mean if he is - whatever, the loveliest thing about the internets is anonymity...and when I was 14 I did the same shit-several gay forums I would ask sexually oriented "explain this" or "have you ever done this? what was your experience like" or "how do you do this?" and adding the answers to the wank bank in my brain.


    I went to his profile and here is his topics. You made a ridiculous comment and now after you read below please apologise.

    My other comment is you saying it could be some old perve and not the 21yr old he says he is on his profile and yet your profile pic is hidden.

    Chill out little bro and stop being so bitchy to other guys on here

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    How am I 'being bitchy to other guys on here'? I haven't been a bitch to anyone including this dude "infinitefriend69" I made an apparently well-evidenced (check out the emboldened text above) query regarding the subject matter of the majority of his posting.


    However, I'll stop..for you, just because you're good looking, an Aussie, and called me little bro. ;)
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    Oct 23, 2014 6:47 AM GMT
    jayfromBK93 is the information from your very first post on RJ reliable?
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    Unnamed6 saidjayfromBK93 is the information from your very first post on RJ reliable?


    Yeah why?
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    Oct 23, 2014 7:18 AM GMT
    jayfromBK93 said
    Unnamed6 saidjayfromBK93 is the information from your very first post on RJ reliable?


    Yeah why?


    You're somewhat perceptive and you're a curious person, but I don't necessarily trust what you say about yourself, and thus my own disincentive to satisfy your level of curiosity. But that's not because of your ethnic background. And I also sense that you have a capacity for producing insight, however limited. It will never be on the scale that I'm used to when it comes to my own mind, but for Jews it's never the case anyway (Jews will never produce men of genius, great generals, etc, unless it's base on hype or marketing), but I could notice a smart Jew when I see one.
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    Unnamed6 saidjayfromBK93 is the information from your very first post on RJ reliable?


    Yeah why?


    You're somewhat perceptive and you're a curious person, but I don't necessarily trust what you say about yourself, and thus my own disincentive to satisfy your level of curiosity. But that's not because of your ethnic background. And I also sense that you have a capacity for producing insight, however limited. It will never be on the scale that I'm used to when it comes to my own mind, but for Jews it's never the case anyway (Jews will never produce men of genius, great generals, etc, unless it's base on hype or marketing), but I could notice a smart Jew when I see one.


    So you're saying that I'm surprisingly insightful for a Jew?

    You're anti-Semitic, yes?

    And I am what I am and I love it. I'm gay, a recovering addict Jews are the underdogs of he world, it's totally acceptable to shit on us and make jokes about us (if I make a black joke I'm a horrible person though), and now it's even okay to be openly anti-Semitic if you disguise it as anti-Zionism or criticism of Israel but even though ignoramus' like you think we're trash we have prevailed through thousands of years of abuses, from slavery in Egypt, to pogroms in Russia, to the holocaust, to the 6-day war...we're the best.

    And no Jewish geniuses? Check out Albert Einstein or Carl Sagan

    No Jewish Generals? Check out the history of Israel, a tiny little country surrounded by very unfriendly neighbors that want to destroy them. Yes they get American money, but our generals and politicians are Jews and they're military/economic geniuses.

    Suck my circumcised kike dick you Nazj asshole.
    I don't care what you think of me, however I suggest stay in your bubble out in Cali. If you ever are in New York, do let me know. I can have 25 jewish guys show you our capacity for turning Nazis into candidates for facial reconstructive surgery...
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    Oct 23, 2014 9:36 AM GMT
    jayfromBK93 said
    Unnamed6 said
    jayfromBK93 said
    Unnamed6 saidjayfromBK93 is the information from your very first post on RJ reliable?


    Yeah why?


    You're somewhat perceptive and you're a curious person, but I don't necessarily trust what you say about yourself, and thus my own disincentive to satisfy your level of curiosity. But that's not because of your ethnic background. And I also sense that you have a capacity for producing insight, however limited. It will never be on the scale that I'm used to when it comes to my own mind, but for Jews it's never the case anyway (Jews will never produce men of genius, great generals, etc, unless it's base on hype or marketing), but I could notice a smart Jew when I see one.


    So you're saying that I'm surprisingly insightful for a Jew?

    You're anti-Semitic, yes?

    And I am what I am and I love it. I'm gay, a recovering addict Jews are the underdogs of he world, it's totally acceptable to shit on us and make jokes about us (if I make a black joke I'm a horrible person though), and now it's even okay to be openly anti-Semitic if you disguise it as anti-Zionism or criticism of Israel but even though ignoramus' like you think we're trash we have prevailed through thousands of years of abuses, from slavery in Egypt, to pogroms in Russia, to the holocaust, to the 6-day war...we're the best.

    And no Jewish geniuses? Check out Albert Einstein or Carl Sagan

    No Jewish Generals? Check out the history of Israel, a tiny little country surrounded by very unfriendly neighbors that want to destroy them. Yes they get American money, but our generals and politicians are Jews and they're military/economic geniuses.

    Suck my circumcised kike dick you Nazj asshole.
    I don't care what you think of me, however I suggest stay in your bubble out in Cali. If you ever are in New York, do let me know. I can have 25 jewish guys show you our capacity for turning Nazis into candidates for facial reconstructive surgery...


    I'm still trying to write some kind of response to you, but let me just say that I realize that a good percentage of Jews from Brooklyn experience a poverty that escapes groups in America traditionally viewed as poor and suffering. And by you being here it actually helps highlight a facet of Jewish people in America that the vast majority of Americans are totally oblivious to, even many American Jews themselves. But I still have reservations in accepting your rough Jewish background. I'm not necessarily dismissing what you've said about yourself (it could all be true, like parents still being in their 30's still), but that it does invite a level of strong skepticism. I find that there are many reasons for Jewish poverty in Brooklyn since Jews there have religious backgrounds that emphasize Talmudic studies and fulfilling obligations to social and family life at the expense of economic activity. So while "poor", many Jews still have strong community and family ties that don't exactly leave them devastated (that even economically "successful" Jews don't have) that they become the "scratch balling type". (But maybe some recent Russian Jewish emigration brought roughnecks in?). But isn't Jewish hooliganism, "tough guy shit", and even mobster like activity, something for the history books? After the 70's I don't generally hear of stories of the "Kosher Nostra" anymore or unorganized violent crime from Jews.
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    Oct 23, 2014 4:55 PM GMT
    I am in no "kosher nostra" and my Judaism goes about as far as Hanukkah. I was raised completely a-religious in a non jewish environment. I'm completely assimilated so you do not know what you're talking about. I didn't grow up on hasid side of williamsburg and I have more in common with a guido than I do with a rebbe. Not everyone fits into your dated stereotypes, my grandparents are religious immigrants yes, my parents were raised in Italian and Puerto Rican communities and like me were the "token Jews" of our friend groups etc. my mom prob. knows more about Catholicism than Judaism personally and after I got clean I discovered more for myself. Not every Jew is Moshe Steinberg CPA
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    jayfromBK93 saidI am in no "kosher nostra" and my Judaism goes about as far as Hanukkah. I was raised completely a-religious in a non jewish environment. I'm completely assimilated so you do not know what you're talking about. I didn't grow up on hasid side of williamsburg and I have more in common with a guido than I do with a rebbe. Not everyone fits into your dated stereotypes, my grandparents are religious immigrants yes, my parents were raised in Italian and Puerto Rican communities and like me were the "token Jews" of our friend groups etc. my mom prob. knows more about Catholicism than Judaism personally and after I got clean I discovered more for myself. Not every Jew is Moshe Steinberg CPA



    I'm quoting myself, but in addition there are like a million Jews in this city. I was raised completely assimilated. I don't have to defend my background. My blood didnt define my behavior my surroundings (teen parents and rampant drug use and being on welfare and hanging out with mostly Hispanics and Italians from my neighborhood and bushwick did. I was embarrassed of my heritage because of stereotypes like yours so I tried extra hard to be a "tough guy." As a kid I beat up Hasidics because they were different and probably embarrassing to me. I'm not proud of that but think before you speak.

    That's like saying "I haven't heard of a black inventor since George Washington Carver, isn't black ingenuity something for the history books?"
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    Oct 23, 2014 5:07 PM GMT
    We are derailing this guys thread so message me if you want to continue the conversation. But you're working off dated stereotypes and it's in the same light as me calling you a "day laborer illegal immigrant". This is a diverse country and not everyone fits into their ethnic box.
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    Oct 23, 2014 5:16 PM GMT
    It implies that the person cannot deal with man on man sex in a healthy way so they must make one of them into "the woman." It's really stupid.
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    jayfromBK93 saidWe are derailing this guys thread so message me if you want to continue the conversation. But you're working off dated stereotypes and it's in the same light as me calling you a "day laborer illegal immigrant". This is a diverse country and not everyone fits into their ethnic box.


    I need to actually clarify later what I mean when I say there is no such thing as "Jewish genius", as I have a narrow definition of what genius actually is, but I never denied Jewish brilliance or intelligence. It was late in the night and I sort of wanted to assess the "reliability" of the facts that you stated about your background by stating things in the way that I did (you do realize that most American Jews themselves outside of your particular part of New York are oblivious to individuals like you, right?). (I even wonder if Jews of your background, and those of the Hasidic and Ultra-Othordox backgrounds, will become the image of American Jewry in the next 30 years, and gone are the days in which Jews are associated with wealth and prestige). Now a lot of my views on Jews, which I haven't as much revealed, may make others accuse me of actual anti-semitism, which I'm not willing to deny (as I allow people to think of me in anyway they want to), but I have a feeling that most Jews will actually agree with what I have to say about them, even if it's negative. And despite whatever I'm willing to talk about when it comes to Jewish issues (like class issues and internal prejudice and discrimination among Jews themselves, in fact, you are an example of a person that has discriminated against other Jews and will likely experience prejudice from more established Jews because of your working class background). To be clear, I don't hold any personal disgust with Jews, but I'm willing to have views on them nonetheless. I'm also flexible in my approach to how I see and treat individuals. And while I'm not one to apply stereotypes to people per se, I will still consider and study stereotypes about people if it helps me understand a person, or just people in general.

    I hope that clarifies things a bit before I actually respond to your post above? I tend to be a person that doesn't hide my views out of caution per se as oppose to just taking my time to reveal them later on. If pressed in person what my various views on things actually are, you'll find me more able to say things. And if that comes about, I doubt you'll actually want to beat me down then, and you might find me quite affable instead. So while I don't find myself offensive, I'm still willing to offend if I need to.
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    Ask Bonafart he's a pussy and maybe a boy.
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    jayfromBK93 saidWe are derailing this guys thread so message me if you want to continue the conversation. But you're working off dated stereotypes and it's in the same light as me calling you a "day laborer illegal immigrant". This is a diverse country and not everyone fits into their ethnic box.


    I need to actually clarify later what I mean when I say there is no such thing as "Jewish genius", as I have a narrow definition of what genius actually is, but I never denied Jewish brilliance or intelligence. It was late in the night and I sort of wanted to assess the "reliability" of the facts that you stated about your background by stating things in the way that I did (you do realize that most American Jews themselves outside of your particular part of New York are oblivious to individuals like you, right?). (I even wonder if Jews of your background, and those of the Hasidic and Ultra-Othordox backgrounds, will become the image of American Jewry in the next 30 years, and gone are the days in which Jews are associated with wealth and prestige). Now a lot of my views on Jews, which I haven't as much revealed, may make others accuse me of actual anti-semitism, which I'm not willing to deny (as I allow people to think of me in anyway they want to), but I have a feeling that most Jews will actually agree with what I have to say about them, even if it's negative. And despite whatever I'm willing to talk about when it comes to Jewish issues (like class issues and internal prejudice and discrimination among Jews themselves, in fact, you are an example of a person that has discriminated against other Jews and will likely experience prejudice from more established Jews because of your working class background). To be clear, I don't hold any personal disgust with Jews, but I'm willing to have views on them nonetheless. I'm also flexible in my approach to how I see and treat individuals. And while I'm not one to apply stereotypes to people per se, I will still consider and study stereotypes about people if it helps me understand a person, or just people in general.

    I hope that clarifies things a bit before I actually respond to your post above? I tend to be a person that doesn't hide my views out of caution per se as oppose to just taking my time to reveal them later on. If pressed in person what my various views on things actually are, you'll find me more able to say things. And if that comes about, I doubt you'll actually want to beat me down then, and you might find me quite affable instead. So while I don't find myself offensive, I'm still willing to offend if I need to.


    TLDR: everyone is different and generalizations about the behaviors of an ethnic group (especially in a diaspora.) My behavior was shaped by surroundings....I wasn't raised around Jews other than family I had no jewish friends, I was surrounded by poor whites and Hispanics and the one strong value I grew up with and still hold to an extent is socialism, anti intellectualism, and a disdain for people who aren't poor urban peoples.

    Instead of talking about the nature of your views, why don't you actually grow a pair and state your views eh?
    Listen, while there may be some characteristics that can define particular subsets of people, most of these are physical characteristics (ex. black people have coarse hair, Southern Europeans have darker features) and the few behavioral characteristics are learned behaviors, behavior is completely learned you aren't born being predisposed to anything besides a few things (like mental illness, or perhaps sexuality). My behaviors of the past and some of my current behaviors are shaped by the people I grew up around, the building I grew up in was mostly Italian and Irish lower class families and the surrounding area I lived in was mixed as I lived on the border between the "north side" and the "east side" so my surroundings were generally either poor white Gentiles or if I crossed the street - Puerto Rican immigrants. The only Jews that practiced any kind of "typical" jewish practices were my grandparents who I dismissed as crazy Eastern European old people when i was young. There were a few Jews in my social circle but they were just as assimilated as I was and if they made a point of their Jewishness they were subject to ridicule.
    If you're familiar with my area which I doubt you are then you'll see that it's now completely gentrified except for the "south side" around Marcy avenue (notable for the "Marcy projects" where Jay Z grew up) which borders a black neighborhood and is still solidly Hasidic. I go to the south side now all the time cause there is a lot of cheaper restaurants and also the Express train to manhattan is there . But the only time I was in that area as a kid was to walk across the bridge or on holidays when my grandma would drag me to shul (synagogue in Yiddish). Also, I went to school in a neighborhood that was solidly black and the few white kids there were Italian besides me and we stuck together so that we didn't get fucked with by the black kids. All of the non-assimilated/religious Jews don't go to public school, they go to yeshiva.

    I speak the same language as them (Yiddish) because that is my grandmothers native tongue and she only spoke to me in Yiddish.

    Jewish culture is not a monolith. I doubt a religious Jew from BK and a religious Jew from Tehran (they exist!) have anything in common. That goes for all cultures. For instance, Italian American culture is influenced by Sicilian culture. Someone from Venice won't identify with Italian American culture at all. And most Mexicans in NYC are from Puebla..their food and music is different from the Mexicans I met in Texas who I noticed were a lot lighter/less mestizo looking. Even within cities the culture a different. Someone who grew up in Harlem will likely think differently than a white guy from Staten Island or a Guyanese from Queens even if they were all born and raised in NYC.
    I'm a product of my environment. I know the stereotype f Jews is rich greedy and smart. While I am smart IMO, I have no formal education and neither do my parents or their parents because that wasn't a prized value for us. We were proud of our blue collar roots. My grandpa started working at 7 and worked every day for the next 70 years. If I mentioned going to college I would've been laughed at like if I said that I could fly. I could've gotten the grades for college if I hadn't done drugs but I wouldn't have made it through college because one strong value in my family that I was taught was leftist ideology and a hatred of people of a higher class than us that includes rich Jews too. and while my parents were too drunk or incarcerated to be truly knowledgable about these topics there was definitely an undertone f anti-intellectualism, a disdain (maybe hatred) for rich people. I was told it was okay to take from and hurt people that were rich because they were evil and that college was for rich people. If I went to college I would've gotten locked up for stealing a rich kids lap top or something because I would have been offended by the fact that he had more than me.I still have a strong sense of entitlement in that sense and I do look down strongly on people who work with their minds and not their hands. That's a divergence from mainstream American jewish culture which emphasizes entrepreneurialism and money, and education while I was taught to (and still do) hate business owners, merchants, capitalists, entrepreneurs, landlords etc and I view the educated and moneyed as the enemy...even if they espouse similar views I see them as. "Champagne Socialists" or "limousine liberals"


    My behavior was influenced more by being poor, being surrounded by drugs and a pervasive h