Cumless sex

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    Oct 21, 2014 10:51 AM GMT
    Was discussing recently with a friend and he told me there are times they agree to fuck without cumming..
    Another friend confirmed this to me. Shocked me since I never decide that. I have conditioned myself that cumming makes the climax for me.....ha ha
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    Oct 21, 2014 12:41 PM GMT
    Sex without orgasm? Hell no! I'm not a woman
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    Oct 21, 2014 1:34 PM GMT
    Yes, sometimes thats the way it should be, specially for the bottom.
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    Oct 21, 2014 1:42 PM GMT
    The only time I've had sex without cumming was when my partner suddenly turned me off for some reason. There have also been times when I've allowed my partner to control my orgasm where he wouldn't let me cum until he said so, which can be very hot. But to just fuck and not cum for no reason sounds awful. icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 21, 2014 1:56 PM GMT
    I love having sex through out the day without cumin and then going all out at night time when I've got a BF
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    Oct 21, 2014 5:25 PM GMT
    I have tried even during wanking to orgasm without cumming but I have never managed. If you were interupted or soneone came earlier or had had enough it would be understandable and may be doable but planning not is one thing that many cannot do. My friend does that with the girl friend. She cums but him he purposefully doesnt cum until for example the last round in the morning if it was a night
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    Oct 21, 2014 6:38 PM GMT
    David3K saidYes, sometimes thats the way it should be, specially for the bottom.

    Can you elaborate? I'm not saying you're wrong I'm just interested in the reasoning.
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    Oct 21, 2014 7:59 PM GMT
    That is like ordering a pizza and only looking at it and stroking it. Not eating it.
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    Oct 21, 2014 8:07 PM GMT
    DannyW said
    David3K saidYes, sometimes thats the way it should be, specially for the bottom.

    Can you elaborate? I'm not saying you're wrong I'm just interested in the reasoning.

    The reason is because sometimes a bottom is meant to be used, not pleasured...icon_neutral.gif

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    Oct 21, 2014 8:10 PM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy saidThat is like ordering a pizza and only looking at it and stroking it. Not eating it.


    Well, wouldn't it be more like you start eating it but stop after a few bites and you're still left starving and craving for more? icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 21, 2014 8:13 PM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy saidThat is like ordering a pizza and only looking at it and stroking it. Not eating it.



    Ha ha ha haha...so much like ordering pizza and just smelling it hahahahahahha
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    Oct 21, 2014 8:16 PM GMT
    Anyway some people are strong.......what can I say!!!
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    Oct 21, 2014 9:50 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    DannyW said
    David3K saidYes, sometimes thats the way it should be, specially for the bottom.

    Can you elaborate? I'm not saying you're wrong I'm just interested in the reasoning.

    The reason is because sometimes a bottom is meant to be used, not pleasured...icon_neutral.gif

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    That sounds a little bit selfish to me but what people do in their own bedroom is up to them lol
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    Oct 22, 2014 12:07 AM GMT
    The only time I've never blown is if it was so bad I've actually given up and can't be bothered haha but I can see how it would kind of continue the mood and keep both guys horny and eager for each other.
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    Oct 29, 2014 6:45 AM GMT
    For some of us, bottoms getting our sphincter stretched and our prostate rubbed, or just the fact that we are being penetrated, that we are providing pleasure to our tops (/being used, to quote Hottjoe above) can provide us with pleasure ... even without any penile stimulation. This pleasure can sometimes be even more intense than orgasmic pleasure that accompanies ejaculation, especially if the fucking occurs after a long period of abstinence
    (Having said this : I don't get fucked enough and have only experienced this intense pleasure twice ...)