fraternal affection

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    Jan 16, 2009 4:41 AM GMT
    i am conflicted:

    rush season is here and i've a few potentials. unfortunately one of these guys happens to be a potential boyfriend as well as a potential frater (his sexuality is all but confirmed as gay) my question to you all is: am i allowed to mix fraternity with my love life?

    i believe this guy could be an outstanding fraternity man and i don't want him to miss out on all that being greek can offer however i also (for selfish reasons) don't want my brothers to get in the way of me having some fun.

    any interfraternal romance stories would be appreciated...
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    Jan 16, 2009 4:50 AM GMT
    YES. You are allowed. I knew some guys who were partners and in the same frat. I *CAN* get messy. But if you both are mature you could still be "frat bros" after the break up.
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    Jan 16, 2009 4:54 AM GMT
    are you being a frat brother with a bunch of straight guys? How does that work? Are you allowed to be out and in the frat? or do they have gay fraternities now?
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    Jan 16, 2009 5:21 AM GMT
    i'm out in the fraternity and so are two of my brothers. there's 31 guys on the active scroll and we range from poster frat boy to immigrants from Jordan and Nigeria. diversity is our strong suit and bros have promised to roundhouse kick any guy in the face who dares cross me.

    he seems mature (relatively new friendship) so the rush/date combo may work out.

    we're flirting as i type this, in case yall wanted to know.
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    Jan 16, 2009 5:54 AM GMT
    holdenout saidi'm out in the fraternity and so are two of my brothers. there's 31 guys on the active scroll and we range from poster frat boy to immigrants from Jordan and Nigeria. diversity is our strong suit and bros have promised to roundhouse kick any guy in the face who dares cross me.

    he seems mature (relatively new friendship) so the rush/date combo may work out.

    we're flirting as i type this, in case yall wanted to know.

    OK, NOW URE STARTIN TO BORE ME
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    Jan 18, 2009 5:59 AM GMT
    you asked icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:05 AM GMT
    funny pictures of cats with captions
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:06 AM GMT
    Being in a fraternity is just another excuse to get some dick icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:09 AM GMT
    angry pussy icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:16 AM GMT
    Be in the Fraternity only if you are serious about making the pledge. Don't do it for guys.

    To answer the questions: yes you have a brother as a lover. About 8 brothers were lovers in my Fraternity, of course on the DL, but their close friends knew.
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:16 AM GMT
    Them frat boys are fun icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:18 AM GMT
    i'm already in and my fraternity has enhanced my value system in serious ways which was my intent while rushing and pledging. i am not attracted to current brothers but facing a dilemna about rushing a guy i have feelings for
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:25 AM GMT
    My frat friend Philip, from Waco, begged me repeatedly for sexual intercourse.

    After turning him down repeatedly, I finally said what the heck.

    The first time, it was pitch black / lights out.

    The second time, it was lights on in the next room.

    Third time, it was brightly lit, and ball-banging.

    Fourth time, it was all the way in bone-jarring, hard-core, gay fucking.

    On the first time, Philip said to me, "Chuck, it's just a hole."

    On the second time, Philip said to me, "I'm only gay when I'm drunk."

    On the third time, I asked Philip if he might be a little bit gay and have a thing for guys and he responded yes.

    On the fourth time, Philip said, "Fuck, you are so fucking hot, I could fuck you all night." I said "being gay ain't so bad, huh, Philip?" and he said yes.

    I had known him for about four years at that point.

    On Philip's Myspace, one of the frat bros said to Philip, "Hey, assblaster!" And, another remark by another frat bro along the same line.

    Philip and I haven't talked since his last encounter...he's only gay when he's drunk.

    I've known many a same-sex-liking frat boy.

    The saying goes only difference between a straight guy and a bi guy is a six pack and a dirt road. With frat boys, no dirt road is required. Spanking, circle jerks, and drunken fiascoes, are all part of being in the house.

    You want your boy, you go get him. :-)

    I think that the fact that flex89 lives with me mighta' scared Philip a bit.
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:30 AM GMT
    Fucker hasn't called you back since you had me talk to him on the phone icon_razz.gif

    (It's guarantee you it's because I "know" about him LOL)
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:31 AM GMT
    You scared the frat bros, flex89.

    You very, very, very bad boy, and need a spanking.
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:31 AM GMT
    Tell your frat buddy Eric to get his cute gay ass down here and spank me LOL
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:33 AM GMT
    Oh, yeah...Eric....Eric giggles when you pinch his abs.....LOL.

    Love Eric...he's awesome...and a real hottie.

    Frat Boys Gone Wild, coming soon to a THEE-ATER near you.
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    Jan 18, 2009 6:46 AM GMT
    I don't think you should risk a potential pledge for a possible fling. I also don't believe in incest among your brothers. Lol, you can always have him sign another house, and then it wouldn't be incest any more. Depends how your greek system runs and operates I guess.
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    Jan 18, 2009 7:09 AM GMT
    Get real....frat bros been having a good time for a very long time.

    I don't think I'd call it incest...it's a frat for crying out loud.

    Primates, humans included, have lots of mutual ritual....some more fun than others.
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    Jan 18, 2009 7:14 AM GMT
    The fraternity thing is all about the whole brotherhood, and the male bonding. (the girls do it too, doesn't mean they're lesbians) Don't get into in hopes of "getting with" one of the guys, and don't read too much into the affectionate behavior of some of the guys. Its very normal for all guys to be affectionate, playful ect with each other, doesn't mean they are gay, so don't get the wrong idea. Just do it because you want to be apart of that, and all that other stuff, and have fun, if they're cool with your sexuality awesome, if you think/feel it may be a problem, just kind of keep that to yourself.

    If something turns into more than just a friendship/brotherhood thing with one of the guys, great. But don't go into it with the mentality/hopes of that happening, or you will hurt yourself.
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    Jan 18, 2009 7:20 AM GMT
    Real Jocks have been getting off together for a LONG time...it's about being confident, and uninhibited, and among friends. Easy deal....

    Whatever happens, happens, but, first things first...that's just having class.
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    Jan 18, 2009 8:08 AM GMT
    A few of my brothers have come out to me and it was more of a hassle than anything. They wanted to experiment, and Im more of relationship kind of guy, nothing positive came of it.

    As far as a potential, I suggest rushing first, flirting later.... with a little flirting in between. This is, of course, assuming your fraternity is accepting of such things. The older brothers of my frat werent fond of it when I was seeing a brother, but they got over it. Now I'm the old guy (relatively speaking, of course, Im only 23) and nobody says a damn word. They actually encourage it.... which I find kind of strange.

    Anyways, yeah, I would put rush at priority because that will give you plently of time to get to know him and know whether or not hes datable anyways. If your brothers have an issue tell them to go to hell. It might cause a temporary issue but it usually works out in the end.

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    Jan 18, 2009 8:21 PM GMT
    Dudes, nearly every 15 to 25 year old boy loves having his pee pee rubbed. It's human nature. Boys will be boys. They just show it more in a frat.
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    Jan 18, 2009 8:24 PM GMT
    chuckystud saidDudes, nearly every 15 to 25 year old boy loves having his pee pee rubbed. It's human nature. Boys will be boys. They just show it more in a frat.


    That's because most of them are a bunch of horny jocks who could give a shit if anyone knew about it LOL.

    But yeah, don't join for a piece of ass because that's not why any of the guys are there. It sure is a wonderful side-benefit, though icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 18, 2009 10:14 PM GMT
    That pretty much sums it up.

    "After the break, we'll hear from frat boys who LOVE cross-dressing. More, after this message...."