I got popped and I'm bleeding

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    Oct 24, 2014 9:36 PM GMT
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    Oct 24, 2014 9:38 PM GMT
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    Oct 24, 2014 9:41 PM GMT
    Go see a Dr
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    Oct 24, 2014 9:45 PM GMT
    guido4life saidI had sex for the first time with a man . I was a bottom , after he got done fucking me , he pulled out is dick and the condom was covered in blood ! I'm still bleeding . He used lube , I'm in pain , what happened ? I couldn't wait for him to be done , I td hi. To take it it easy , he told me to relax .


    Go to the hospital and get that looked at. If you have internal bleeding it could be fatal!! Oh and rough sex and with big cocks usually causes that so maybe start out with something less porn fantasy and more about what is comfortable or someone more patient. Good luck
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    Oct 24, 2014 9:58 PM GMT
    He didn't know what he was doing , he was hoi g to shove it in me with out lube, I should have stopped him right then and there . I couldn't wait for hi. To bust a nut and gethis dick out of me, I was going to make him stop if he didn't hurry up
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:04 PM GMT
    What do u guys mean bleeding internally ? After he pulled off the condom I couldn't believe it , I'm not bleeding much now but I'm still bleeding , I'm not going to eat , I will not be taki g shit until I stop bleeding
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:04 PM GMT
    Good grief, I'd go and get checked out. Spots of blood is expected, but this sounds bad. Sorry this was your first time as well icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:15 PM GMT
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:16 PM GMT
    I missed this episode of "Jersey Shore."

    Seriously, you should be checked and don't be embarressed. I learned about sex in the mid seventies reading "Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex and Were Afraid To Ask" and I never forgot the chapter revealing emergency room staff ass trauma tales and the stuff they'd fished out of people's butts and the excuses the patients would come up with, i.e. "I fell on that Coke bottle!" At the time I didn't know why or how someone would lose a flashlight up their butt but now I have a clue. You would NOT be the first.

    P.S. - What with this NYC ebola scare you have a LOUSY sense of timing.
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:18 PM GMT
    guido4life saidWhat do u guys mean bleeding internally ? After he pulled off the condom I couldn't believe it , I'm not bleeding much now but I'm still bleeding , I'm not going to eat , I will not be taki g shit until I stop bleeding


    Most likely the only thing ripped is the skin around the sphincter muscles, however there is potential there is rips/tears/scratched further up inside of you.

    Holding back a bowel movement will undoubtedly lead to more problems. Fecal matter coming into contact with an open would/tear/scratch allows nasty bacterias to get inside the tissues and that leads to nasty infections. You do not want septicemia.

    At the very least a check-up will result in a course of antibiotics which will stem off potential infection.

    Since you didn't say where exactly hurts (around the anus opening? Deep inside?) its a hard call to make on how to proceed aside from telling you to go to a doctor NOW... be it same day clinic or ER room.
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:21 PM GMT
    You'll be ok, probably just tore something..I remember I topped a guy and there was a lot..a LOT of blood..freaked me out so I decided to just j.o Idk what happened lots of lube and he was already doing himself before I arrived.. just a bad situation
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:27 PM GMT
    First of all, I'm sorry this happened to you.

    Second, if the bleeding is slowing down- meaning it's only there when you wipe, then you are probably ok. Most likely you got a small tear or a hemorrhoid you already had is torn a bit. It will stop on its own if that's all it is. DO NOT get constipated though. When you finally do pass a giant rock hard shit it'll tear it back open and hurt like hell. Drink lots of water and take a fiber supplement.

    You need to see a doctor ASAP. If the bleeding is slowing down you should be Ok to wait till Monday. And it's embarrassing but be honest with the doctor. If need be I'm sure you can find a LGBT clinic to go to.
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:35 PM GMT
    I'm not going to the dr , the bleeding is not bad now but I don't want an infection .
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    Oct 24, 2014 10:56 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidGood grief, I'd go and get checked out. Spots of blood is expected, but this sounds bad. Sorry this was your first time as well icon_neutral.gif


    I don't think spots of blood are expected ... sounds like bad technique if there's any bleeding.
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:01 PM GMT
    What should a top do in such cases when the bottom is bleeding?
    Damn, the whole experience must have been a bit scary right? especially for the first time...
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:26 PM GMT
    guido4life saidI'm not going to the dr , the bleeding is not bad now but I don't want an infection .


    Do you have access to mom and pop pet stores? And I wonder if it's easy medical training to know about such things as internal bleeding if one was a partner to anal sex. And why can't two men do the deed after actual marriage, or feel confident enough about their sexual capacity after marriage, and have concierge medical service even if no bleeding occurs after consummation?
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:31 PM GMT
    Okajuurou saidWhat should a top do in such cases when the bottom is bleeding?
    Damn, the whole experience must have been a bit scary right? especially for the first time...


    If he's a doctor he knows what to do...

    http://www.webmd.com/sex/anal-sex-health-concerns may lend you some tips.


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    Oct 24, 2014 11:34 PM GMT
    Okajuurou saidWhat should a top do in such cases when the bottom is bleeding?
    Damn, the whole experience must have been a bit scary right? especially for the first time...

    call 911
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:36 PM GMT
    Im sure its nothing. Sounds like he was aibt of a brute thought. By all means go see your Doc but only if you are going to be honest with him. No sense telling him you fell on a fence post.
    The tissue in your ass is very susceptible to tears if you are not lubed and open sufficiently…
    all the best…
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:38 PM GMT
    morphic said
    Okajuurou saidWhat should a top do in such cases when the bottom is bleeding?
    Damn, the whole experience must have been a bit scary right? especially for the first time...

    call 911


    While this might be the right thing to do, but tell me though is your actual fear as high as it should be though? And are there substantial cases or statistics of men dying from bleeding intestines due to anal sex to warrant such high fears?
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:42 PM GMT
    hairyandym saidIm sure its nothing. Sounds like he was aibt of a brute thought. By all means go see your Doc but only if you are going to be honest with him. No sense telling him you fell on a fence post.
    The tissue in your ass is very susceptible to tears if you are not lubed and open sufficiently…
    all the best…
    yes man this is right ! I'm bleeding nothing now , the ass is not like a pussy and tears can happen!
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:43 PM GMT
    guido4life saidI'm not going to the dr , the bleeding is not bad now but I don't want an infection .


    Not bad means what?

    How long as this been going on? 1 hour, 2 hours, a full day of seeping/bleeding?

    Real bleeding as in oozing blood should be happening no more than an hour after the injury.

    Spotting can be expected for up to 2 days. Spotting means there is a spot or few spots in your underwear. Seepage means you get a quarter sized spot of blood over a period of time of an hour.

    The thing is there is the potential you have polyps, hemorrhoids and other interesting thing which may in fact be the cause/source. I can't see your arse from here. I seriously doubt that you can bend over and give yourself a rectal exam. so that means you need to be checked out by a doctor.

    No amount of Antibiotic is going to help if you are bleeding internally. I have no idea from where in your arse you are bleeding, it is the sphincter, anus, rectum, sigmoid colon, transverse colon, descending colon?

    Do you have polyps, hemorrhoids, fissure of the mucosa, etc?

    Can't tell you without a rectal exam.




    As for antibiotics, amoxicillian should do the trick. I would say a course of 6 days, twice daily at 250mg per dose.

    Fishmox is a good cheap source that anyone can buy without a prescription:

    THIS IS NOT A PRESCRIPTION nor is this a Medical Diagnosis.


    I'm just telling you what antibiotic would generally be helpful.

    If It was me I would see a doctor asap. At the very least have the BF look at the anus to see if there is visible tearing/cracks/scratched around the opening to get an basic idea if this is coming from inside our outside.
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:45 PM GMT
    morphic said
    Okajuurou saidWhat should a top do in such cases when the bottom is bleeding?
    Damn, the whole experience must have been a bit scary right? especially for the first time...

    call 911
    morphic sexy Man u are being silly
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:52 PM GMT
    Bowyn_Aerrow said
    guido4life saidI'm not going to the dr , the bleeding is not bad now but I don't want an infection .


    Not bad means what?

    How long as this been going on? 1 hour, 2 hours, a full day of seeping/bleeding?

    Real bleeding as in oozing blood should be happening no more than an hour after the injury.

    Spotting can be expected for up to 2 days. Spotting means there is a spot or few spots in your underwear. Seepage means you get a quarter sized spot of blood over a period of time of an hour.

    The thing is there is the potential you have polyps, hemorrhoids and other interesting thing which may in fact be the cause/source. I can't see your arse from here. I seriously doubt that you can bend over and give yourself a rectal exam. so that means you need to be checked out by a doctor.

    No amount of Antibiotic is going to help if you are bleeding internally. I have no idea from where in your arse you are bleeding, it is the sphincter, anus, rectum, sigmoid colon, transverse colon, descending colon?

    Do you have polyps, hemorrhoids, fissure of the mucosa, etc?

    Can't tell you without a rectal exam.




    As for antibiotics, amoxicillian should do the trick. I would say a course of 6 days, twice daily at 250mg per dose.

    Fishmox is a good cheap source that anyone can buy without a prescription:

    THIS IS NOT A PRESCRIPTION nor is this a Medical Diagnosis.


    I'm just telling you what antibiotic would generally be helpful.

    If It was me I would see a doctor asap. At the very least have the BF look at the anus to see if there is visible tearing/cracks/scratched around the opening to get an basic idea if this is coming from inside our outside.
    its not bad now and it was never bad . Just seeing a bloody condom got me nervous . It's only spots on underwear it's ok . i can't believe no1 else fuckin bleed, it hurt like hell as well .
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    Oct 24, 2014 11:53 PM GMT
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    morphic said
    Okajuurou saidWhat should a top do in such cases when the bottom is bleeding?
    Damn, the whole experience must have been a bit scary right? especially for the first time...

    call 911


    While this might be the right thing to do, but tell me though is your actual fear as high as it should be though? And are there substantial cases or statistics of men dying from bleeding intestines due to anal sex to warrant such high fears?

    If I see you in real, I'll call 911