how will i recognize BOTTOMS? have you faced awkward date moment when you both like each others at first and then instantly turned uncomfortable when you knew that both of you are tops or bottoms :/

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    Oct 28, 2014 5:20 AM GMT
    this is for the homosex who strictly preferred only TOPS or BOTTOMS. How do you make of this and when did you let your potential lovers let them known ?


    all are sexy in my eyes if they have a nice personality..would not like someone to destroy my anus though.
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    Oct 28, 2014 12:02 PM GMT
    Bottoming doesn't "destroy" your anus.
    If you're being that rough when you top you're doing it wrong!
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    Oct 28, 2014 2:53 PM GMT
    Only way your bottom be hurt is if you have something to big or to long shoved up in you.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Oct 28, 2014 5:27 PM GMT
    At this time and age, most bottom dudes advertise as such, and so do the tops. Being a bottom has largely stopped being frowned down upon, so no one wants to waste their time and energy on hooking up with the incompatible guys.

    The dudes who do not go into the role specifics are usually bottom guys or versatile types, not focused on the top/bottom roles.

    Be as it may, you may still bump into another top whom you find attractive, and who may or may not be available for what you want of him. This comes with the territory. Shrug with your shoulders, and move on. The next qualified dude will be happy to bottom anyway.

    SC