Polygamist Marriages

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    Oct 29, 2014 1:44 AM GMT
    If polygamist marriages are ever legalized here, would you ever get married to 2 guys or if you are bi to a guy and woman? Why or why not?
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    Oct 29, 2014 2:00 AM GMT
    I don't believe in marriage in any way so, I really don't care. I don't see the problem with people being polyamorous. At least they aren't cheating or sending their nudes to random strangers behind their SOs backs.
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    Oct 29, 2014 2:45 AM GMT
    If everyone married two people at a time the divorce rate would go up by at least 50%.
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    Oct 29, 2014 2:51 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidIf everyone married two people at a time the divorce rate would go up by at least 50%.



    Their sex lives would be more interesting.
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    Oct 29, 2014 3:02 AM GMT
    Id like to be in a polygamist relationship I think one extra takes the pressure off the relationship and allows you to grow more.....also I like commune like living.
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    Oct 29, 2014 3:12 AM GMT
    Lost my wife several years ago, Rejuvinated myself with men who like to love back (and me front!)
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    Oct 29, 2014 5:35 AM GMT
    No, I would still want to be with only one guy. This type of thing I don't share. icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 29, 2014 7:05 AM GMT
    I think they are already legal in South Africa. The President is said to have 6 wives now. So, if he were gay, he could have six husbands. Somehow I doubt that they have thought all this through. Are the President's 2nd and 3rd wives also the "spouses" of wives 5 and 6?

    Anyway, it seems hard enough for most guys on here to find one man. How much more difficult would it be to find two (or three)?
  • Buddha

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    Oct 29, 2014 11:16 AM GMT
    I don't mind open relationships when it comes to sex, but I'd only marry one person.
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    Nov 27, 2014 5:30 AM GMT
    Had the opportunity, but nixed it. 3 is not a good relationaship. (Think about the complications)

    But aside from that, can 3 people equally love each other? Or is this just sex?

    Tommy
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    Nov 27, 2014 5:33 AM GMT
    Emotional monogamy is too important to me.
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    Nov 27, 2014 5:38 AM GMT
    relationships are a lot of work, just thinking big love would be difficult.
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    Nov 27, 2014 6:32 AM GMT
    I can imagine doing it, or some sort of little tribal arrangement. Not the coercive old-guy-gets-all-the girls-kick-out-all-the-boys sort of thing that gives polygamy a bad name.

    But finding one partner is hard enough. It might be that finding two is exponentially harder. Or it might be that there is some sort of energy barrier where four or five is actually more stable than two? Dunno.

    I know a couple of guys my age that came out of the old beat/hippie free love colonies. They have just as many hang-ups as the rest of us. icon_neutral.gif