Are my new "friends" just in it for sex?

  • Markz0ne45

    Posts: 59

    Oct 29, 2014 10:38 PM GMT
    Long story short, I have been with some people because of a guy I met via my friend. They're not cruel people, it's just that I find them shallow. Sure everyone for the most part loves sex. We have fooled around several times. I had sex with like 4 people and I get along with one guy on a communication level. It seems the other 3 just want dick and that's all.

    I brought this up to one of them, they told me I take things to seriously and that I'm 21 and I should be having fun instead of worrying about a relationship. He was implying that I'm in one because they admitted to being polygamist.

    So should I just listen to them? Or am I right?
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    Oct 29, 2014 10:53 PM GMT
    you should do what you feel is correct.

    if you feel you dont want to hang out with them then you shouldn't force yourself

    if you want new circle of friends or increase this circle then i suggest you dont fuck them, or if you want new friends to play with have least have a system that they and yourself know whats going to happen.

    u can be 21 and worry about relationships etc. just because your young doesn't mean its the stereotypical " am free and ill do what i want and have as much fun as i can etc"

    am far from that myself. and get tired of people saying that to me as well.

    i hope this helps to a degree.
    remember although its hard try not to do anything u dont want to in the sense it makes you question who you are.
  • Markz0ne45

    Posts: 59

    Oct 29, 2014 11:08 PM GMT
    Only because I had a connection. Had nothing to do with my work.
  • SilverRRCloud

    Posts: 851

    Oct 30, 2014 7:35 PM GMT
    They are how they are. If they are in for sex, you can either go along, have some fun, if and when it suits you or not. It is really your call.

    Not too many guys out there expect you to be a virgin or celibate if you want to build up a LTR with a dude you click up with. Everyone has his history, and that's good so.