People who ignore you on one platform and like you on another.

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    Oct 30, 2014 5:09 PM GMT
    Has anyone ever been hot listed by someone who rejected them on grindr?

    It seems to happen to me more and more. Maybe because my grindr pics are more conservative? icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 30, 2014 5:52 PM GMT
    I reject people on Grindr that I accepted on linkedin
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    Oct 30, 2014 5:54 PM GMT
    Maybe they're shy? Or maybe they have bipolar disorder?
  • Bunjamon

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    Oct 30, 2014 7:52 PM GMT
    I think the point is moot unless you're using the same pictures on both. They likely don't recognize that you are the same person, and may be more attracted to you in some photos more than others.
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    Oct 30, 2014 8:48 PM GMT
    Yeah i happened to me, a guy hotlisted me few weeks ago, i saw this guy first on gay.com then saw him here, he will basically know that i m talking.about him if he reads this, i just can't understand how could you ignore me than hotlist me.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 30, 2014 8:59 PM GMT
    That is pretty odd. I'm not sure how I'd react. I'd probably just make sure they know who I am.
  • muscleboundfe...

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    Oct 30, 2014 10:47 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidI think the point is moot unless you're using the same pictures on both. They likely don't recognize that you are the same person, and may be more attracted to you in some photos more than others.


    This ^^^ I've seen guys who look like very different people from different angles or with different haircuts. They probably don't even recognize you. They are just lusting after you, after all.
  • muscleboundfe...

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    Oct 30, 2014 10:49 PM GMT
    calime61 saidYeah i happened to me, a guy hotlisted me few weeks ago, i saw this guy first on gay.com then saw him here, he will basically know that i m talking.about him if he reads this, i just can't understand how could you ignore me than hotlist me.


    The same way a dude can fuck you and not call you back or give you a fake number.
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    Oct 31, 2014 1:18 AM GMT
    ^^^ Trust me, if they fuck me, they call me back!!! Never been given a fake number. I have been ignored, blocked on 1 site but been loved on another. I usually wait until I have met them then I tell. icon_lol.gif