Oct 30, 2014 10:55 PM GMT
Do you think playing hard to get is a good thing or does it turn you off? Do you think it makes guys more desirable? Discuss
Men that play hard to get...
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Oct 30, 2014 10:55 PM GMT -
Oct 31, 2014 4:27 AM GMTEvery dude out there is free to choose who he wants to mess up with. He can play "hard to get" if you let him do so.
With so many hot guys around, you can move on to the next willing dude who is not into games, and get going.
Judging by what I have seen recently, very few guys go for the "hard to get" dude these days. And why should they?
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Oct 31, 2014 4:39 AM GMTI don't care for games. I wouldn't give the hard to get guy a chance. -
Oct 31, 2014 4:44 AM GMTDepends on how hot he is. If he's a lot hotter than me obviously I'll have to work harder to win his attention. If he isn't, then he's not worth the trouble. -
Oct 31, 2014 5:51 AM GMTI don't play hard to get.
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Oct 31, 2014 6:43 PM GMTxrichx saidI don't play hard to get.
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Nov 04, 2014 2:03 AM GMTDepends on what you mean by 'hard to get'.
Personal experience has taught me that a guy who is accusing another of playing hard to get or being a prude or ice queen just missed the total message which was 'no I don't want to have sex with you, please leave me alone'.
Gay guys don't rely on the 'hard to play' card nearly as often as guys accuse them of doing so.
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Nov 04, 2014 2:07 AM GMTgays know other gays are flaky, so they like to keep a lot of backup options in-case their main pursuit doesn't go well, hence they don't outright reject you and appear to play hard to get instead It's a catch22; everyone's flaky because everyone else is -
Nov 04, 2014 6:29 AM GMTAs usual, moderation is the key to everything. You don't want them to be desperate but at the same time, you don't want them to lead you on endlessly. -
Nov 04, 2014 7:20 AM GMTchristastic saidgays know other gays are flaky, so they like to keep a lot of backup options in-case their main pursuit doesn't go well, hence they don't outright reject you and appear to play hard to get instead
It's a catch22; everyone's flaky because everyone else is
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Nov 04, 2014 7:45 AM GMTxrichx saidI don't play hard to get.
Hahaha I can relate
On a serious note, I think men seldom play hard to get for the sake of it.
It normally stems from actually not being into you and trying to give you hints rather than flat out say it and be accused if being a bitchy queen.
Then there are those who are just actually really shy or oblivious to the innuendos of flirting.
Then there are those that have little confidence or are unaware of their attractiveness that they would firstly think the person is just very friendly as opposed to thinking "oh yeah they're flirting with me". Unless someone were to say out right their exact intentions, these people normally tend to give the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.
I'm sure there are other reasons still but honestly who cares. If they don't show interest then just forget about it and move on. Take the subtle rejection gracefully and leave it at that. -
Nov 04, 2014 10:15 AM GMTThe best way for a guy to play hard to get, is actually for him to push to be platonic friends. Less awkward and less chance of being dropped. -
Nov 04, 2014 1:32 PM GMTA good man is hard to get, or something like that. -
Nov 11, 2014 3:17 AM GMTmuscleboundfem said
christastic saidgays know other gays are flaky, so they like to keep a lot of backup options in-case their main pursuit doesn't go well, hence they don't outright reject you and appear to play hard to get instead
It's a catch22; everyone's flaky because everyone else is
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Nov 11, 2014 3:21 AM GMTI don't play hard to get. I really am. -
Nov 11, 2014 3:28 AM GMTpaulflexes said
I don't play hard to get. I really am.
More like hard to catch.
Speaking of which, how's the biking going? Anything new? -
Nov 11, 2014 3:33 AM GMTsmartmoney saidA good man is hard to get, or something like that.
Along with its companion: "And a hard man is good to get". -
Nov 11, 2014 3:34 AM GMTpaulflexes saidI don't play hard to get. I really am.
I'm pretty sure you just can't get a hard on. -
Nov 12, 2014 11:18 AM GMTif they play hard to get, that means they are not interested initially or at all....I don't think it's right to lead someone on if you're not into him. Sometimes, it's just the way it is. He's not that into you to begin with.
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Nov 14, 2014 5:52 AM GMTConversely, I've been recently hanging out with this guy who was playing hard to get big time, but after twisting his arm and finally getting him to come hang out, he was all excited about meeting me and expressing regret that he didn't try to meet me sooner lol.
Sometimes gays are a bit too insecure and always trying to preemptively reject the other guy first, at the slightest hint of disinterest. What happened to "pursuing" someone haha. -
Nov 14, 2014 6:00 AM GMTA hard man is good to find
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Nov 14, 2014 10:48 PM GMTArt_Deco said
New park bike, and learning (err, trying to learn) new tricks at the BMX park.paulflexes said
I don't play hard to get. I really am.
More like hard to catch.
Speaking of which, how's the biking going? Anything new? -
Nov 16, 2014 7:54 AM GMTMost gays are flakey and want an instant thing now. I'd say after 1-2 days waiting, ditch him. He's not worth it.
