Two cancers, a year and 1 day apart. Good match?

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    Nov 02, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
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    Two cancers, a year and 1 day apart (1986 and 1987). Good match?

    We start off talking everyday, but I was never convinced this guy was taking me seriously. Especially since he said right up front he wants sex. so I asked him if we could get to know each other on a more personal level, and his reply was

    meaning what

    my reply: discussing more about each other, past experiences, how we feel currently and

    no response from him.

    So I said thanks for being honest and I understand where you're coming from: u just out to have a good time, I think.

    That's what I need to start doing too. Have fun.

    and we haven't talked since.


    StephenOABC:

    In Chinese Astrology

    You - Fire Tiger
    Him - Fire Rabbit

    You can read about this in Chinese Sexual Astrology by Shelly Wu.

    He is your Peach Blossom.
    You are not his Peach Blossom.

    You're Lovers in Kind for the sake of accomplishments, growth, and progress.

    Tiger-Rabbit
    The Tiger's energy level and verve tends to overwhelm the easily beleaguered Rabbit. The Tiger is boisterous and fearless, while the Rabbit is understated and fainthearted. There are much better matches for both. - Shelly Wu

    "If you've ever obsessively wondered why you couldn't seem to disconnect from a distressing love affair, or why you were attracted to someone utterly unsuited for you, a peach blossom connection might have been the culprit." - Shelly Wu

    After two relationships with people born in the year of the Cat/Rabbit, I can tell you, the Tiger Rabbit relationship is dysfunctional. I'm a Water-Tiger. One person was a Metal-Cat/Rabbit and the other was a Water-Cat/Rabbit.

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    Nov 02, 2014 1:09 AM GMT
    He is your Peach Blossom.
    You are not his Peach Blossom.

    He's a lela sluh.

    That's what Tom Wolfe wrote in "A Man in Full."

    I don't know where I was when he translated lela sluh but I probably fell on the floor laughing physically or mentally.

    lela sluh was a Vietnamese(?) mother talking about her daughter: little slut.

    He/she (the Cat/Rabbit) is a peach blossom not only to the Tiger but the Tiger's trine: Tiger-Horse-Dog.
  • mybud

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    Nov 02, 2014 2:33 AM GMT
    Sometimes being intense kills the mood...Second, there's no match between you and him...He wanted sex...you gave it to him willingly...He says bye...The end.
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    Nov 02, 2014 3:11 AM GMT
    mybud saidHe wanted sex...you gave it to him willingly...He says bye...The end.


    More than sex was going on:

    You're Lovers in Kind for the sake of accomplishments, growth, and progress.
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    Nov 02, 2014 3:25 AM GMT
    StephenOABC said
    mybud saidHe wanted sex...you gave it to him willingly...He says bye...The end.


    More than sex was going on:

    You're Lovers in Kind for the sake of accomplishments, growth, and progress.
    I'll be honest...I think the more that was going on..was only in your mind...Not trying to be a prick...That's how I see it...Good Luck.
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    Nov 02, 2014 12:19 PM GMT
    mybud said
    StephenOABC said
    mybud saidHe wanted sex...you gave it to him willingly...He says bye...The end.


    More than sex was going on:

    You're Lovers in Kind for the sake of accomplishments, growth, and progress.
    I'll be honest...I think the more that was going on..was only in your mind...Not trying to be a prick...That's how I see it...Good Luck.


    You can send a child to the best school. He may not get all the school has to offer. Astrology is true in its fulness. With us being Lovers in Kind, we did make progress in Life. I did help him become more accomplished. For a Russian man to have a homosexual relationship when his adult son made the father's home an empty nest was a good thing and an indication that the affection we shared wasn't just sexual. Later, when my lover's room for growth, progress, and accomplishments no longer was feasible to be activated by me, the relationship ended. Again, if it was his choice not to pick-up and value all the Life Lessons of our togetherness, it wasn't because those treasures were not there.
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Nov 02, 2014 7:01 PM GMT
    Stephen don't give up on your desires for passion beyond the physical in a gay relationship! there are plenty of guys like you out there. Unfortunately internet forums such as this, when looking for approval on your perception of passion as in love vs lust, lust seems to be the prefered and easiest way out.

    Unfortunately most men are the least interested in sharing common interests out of fear of commitment among other things. I have been hurt before many times, but that have not changed my perception of love beyond the physical! why? because I had experienced and seen the huge differences and benefits of love vs lust!
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    Nov 03, 2014 2:34 PM GMT
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    Two cancers, a year and 1 day apart (1986 and 1987). Good match?

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    If the cancer reappears after a year of remission, then a more aggressive therapy may be necessary. However the prognosis is not as good.
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    Nov 03, 2014 4:40 PM GMT
    LEANDRO_NJ saidStephen don't give up on your desires for passion beyond the physical in a gay relationship! there are plenty of guys like you out there. Unfortunately internet forums such as this, when looking for approval on your perception of passion as in love vs lust, lust seems to be the prefered and easiest way out.

    Unfortunately most men are the least interested in sharing common interests out of fear of commitment among other things. I have been hurt before many times, but that have not changed my perception of love beyond the physical! why? because I had experienced and seen the huge differences and benefits of love vs lust!


    Thank you.
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    Nov 03, 2014 4:42 PM GMT
    StephenOABC saidHe is your Peach Blossom.
    You are not his Peach Blossom.

    He's a lela sluh.

    That's what Tom Wolfe wrote in "A Man in Full."

    I don't know where I was when he translated lela sluh but I probably fell on the floor laughing physically or mentally.

    lela sluh was a Vietnamese(?) mother talking about her daughter: little slut.

    He/she (the Cat/Rabbit) is a peach blossom not only to the Tiger but the Tiger's trine: Tiger-Horse-Dog.


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    He is not that into me as i am to him?

    What does it mean if his Venus doesn't aspest any of my planets? Just his Venus opposition my mars.

    Does that mean he would not feel romantic connected to me?
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    Nov 03, 2014 4:56 PM GMT
    Question:
    He is not that into me as i am to him?

    Answer:
    Right. The Peach Blossoms are Romantic Objects of Desire.

    Here's a list of Peach Blossoms (and there are only 4):

    1. Rooster only for Monkey, Rat, and Dragon
    2. Horse only for Rooster, Ox, and Snake
    3. Cat/Rabbit only for Tiger, Dog, and Horse
    4. Rat only for Goat, Pig, and Cat/Rabbit

    So, the Cat/Rabbit person has 3 people chasing him and he's chasing Rats.

    Question:
    What does it mean if his Venus doesn't aspect any of my planets?

    It means his Personal Heaven isn't blessing you.
    Please post a Synastry chart. You posted a Composite chart but that's the third person in the relationship, the relationship. There's you, him, and the relationship. Couples have to care about themselves, each other, and the relationship.

    Comment:
    Just his Venus opposition my Mars.

    Answer:
    Please look up Venus opposition Mars.

    Question:
    Does that mean he would not feel romantic connected to me?

    Answer:
    He would be more romantically connected to a year of the Rat person.
    He'd consume you but have the capacity to be more romantically involved with a year of the Rat person.

    Wise Advice: don't base a relationship on romantic connection, now that you know the phenomenon of the Peach Blossoms.
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    Nov 04, 2014 4:02 AM GMT
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    Lol little slut ha ha. Yeah now that he mentions it I have been involved with one pretty slutty man whore cancer. They are usually honest though even the slutty ones. Just ask him. Bite the bullet and tell him how you feel and see if he feels that way too.

    Person asking astrological advice:

    Sounds simple, but can't help but feel deeply frightened by his interpretation of my declaration. Sorry if i sound like a cry baby.

    Now were meeting up tonight, any suggestions on how i should respond to him.

    StephenOABC:

    About his Venus opposition your Mars

    Venus opposition other person's Mars

    This is a relationship that is sparked by an irresistible sexual attraction and romantic desire. Your passion and desire for one another will always remain alive. If either of you is prone to possessiveness or jealousy, then you may find yourself feeling very uncomfortable by even subtle indications that you are competing with other suitors.


    Given the Peach Blossom phenomenon, you are or will be competing with other suitors. It's not just about you. His Venus is not cooperating with your Warrior's need for Victory.
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    Nov 06, 2014 10:28 PM GMT
    He is a Leo rising, why does it seem like he is shy around me or timid, not as confident as i would expect him to be?

    Answer: He is a Year of the Cat/Rabbit person.

    He doesn't talk much, but he will ask follow up questions when i say i like something. He is very observant, and i just know he is reading every little sign / body language just as i do.

    Cats and Tigers are felines.

    I would like him to take the lead and be a bit more aggressive in pursuing me. I feel like i have to initiate everything. If he can't start showing more interest, im slowly losing my interest in him.

    Answer: Lose interest in him. A cat cannot be more aggressive than a tiger.

    I want him to know he is the cutest thing ever and i would & want to do everything for him, but i cannot allow myself to open up until i know for sure he feels the same...

    Answer: He doesn't feel the same. You're different people with different options. You're not a peach blossom to anyone. He's a peach blossom to two others; and, he has his own peach blossom.
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    Nov 18, 2014 12:28 AM GMT
    Personally, I don't really believe in the whole zodiac thing. Past experiences are the reason why. I am a Cancer, and it says that Cancers are more dependent, and submissive when it comes to certain things. I highly disagree. It also says that we Cancers aren't well matched with an Aquarius. My best friend is an Aquarius.
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    Jan 18, 2015 11:50 AM GMT
    Venus is square mars and opposite the moon.