how old were you when you had your first proper relationship?

  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 03, 2014 10:33 PM GMT
    fo real, i'm 31 and i have never been in one.
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    Nov 03, 2014 10:40 PM GMT
    16
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    Nov 03, 2014 10:45 PM GMT
    I reckon I'm too difficult for a "proper" relationship icon_cry.gif
    buttfuck it at least there are guys I can hump when I'm horny
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 03, 2014 10:49 PM GMT
    why are you difficult?


    i tend to have casual sex, ive on;ly had sex with one guy this year that i actually was attracted. but i guess im not the loving kind. it takes all sorts to make the world go round i guess
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    Nov 03, 2014 11:06 PM GMT
    First was at 15. Lol...everyone thought I was 25!!!

    The last one I had lasted 14 years.

    I think I still have a few good runs left in Me...

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    Nov 03, 2014 11:10 PM GMT
    Cash saidFirst was at 15. Lol...everyone thought I was 25!!!

    The last one I had lasted 14 years.

    I think I still have a few good runs lefts in Me...

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    I expect you do.
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 03, 2014 11:16 PM GMT
    mmmmm interesting
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    Nov 03, 2014 11:26 PM GMT
    22, a few months after coming out. Lasted only 9.5 weeks, but those were incredible.
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    Nov 03, 2014 11:31 PM GMT
    ive never had a PROPER healthy relationship.


    I spent my youth chasing the wrong guys and now I only date assholes because I treat men like shit and wouldn't want to subject a good guy to that.
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    Nov 03, 2014 11:34 PM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN saidive never had a PROPER healthy relationship.


    I spent my youth chasing the wrong guys and now I only date assholes because I treat men like shit and wouldn't want to subject a good guy to that.


    Somehow, I don't believe You actually treat anyone badly.

    That doesn't seem to be who You are.
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    Nov 04, 2014 12:12 AM GMT
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  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 04, 2014 12:14 AM GMT
    Never been in a proper realtionship, all of mine were very inappropriate. icon_lol.gif

    My real live in with the fella, dedicated to one another relationship, didn't happen until I was nearly 25.

    Prior to that not even a single date.... I was so far in the closet I thought I was naturally celibate.

    Good thing I was wrong!

  • HndsmKansan

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    Nov 04, 2014 12:18 AM GMT
    Really 16, but my longest term one was my one and only partner, 13.5 years and it was a gay relationship and thus, "proper"..hahaha

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  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 04, 2014 12:24 AM GMT
    wow. you guys were all so young.
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 04, 2014 12:25 AM GMT
    i dunno I think I'm too selfish; i'm not sure if i want to be in a relationship but i feel like i should want one.
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    Nov 04, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not sure if i want to be in a relationship but i feel like i should want one.

    Could you explain that? Do you think you'd be a happier more fulfilled person if you were in a relationship?
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    Nov 04, 2014 7:55 AM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidwhy are you difficult?


    i tend to have casual sex, ive on;ly had sex with one guy this year that i actually was attracted. but i guess im not the loving kind. it takes all sorts to make the world go round i guess


    First of all you can get used to happiness and love etc too. Whenever I feel I'm not that much in love, or not completely happy or am bored I make trouble so I become furious and sad and angry and disappointed for a little time. This way I can stop myself cheating my bed-man and make myself adore him again and worship my personal superhero. So it's good to him too except the part when I hate him but that is for hours only. It would be a lot easier if they could forget about it and let me be who I am, I just need to fight, for us.

    Second, my mood controls me, when I don't feel like doing something I can't do it without hating it, that's why they call me Grumpy icon_evil.gif

    So my boyfriends think I'm selfish because of these.. But I am not, otherwise I wouldn't let them fuck me all the time, I'm not that much of a bottom. I like prostate massages but only once in a month or so.
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    Nov 04, 2014 8:11 AM GMT
    Well I've dated plenty of guys, but I'd say my first real relationship was probably last year (I was 30). I knew him a long time and we were madly in love. He moved to Hong Kong for a job not long into our relationship, and I was completely gutted. Tried to make it work long distance, but it was impossible.

    We'd still be together today if he hadn't left icon_neutral.gif
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 04, 2014 9:52 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    ZakSayWhat saidi'm not sure if i want to be in a relationship but i feel like i should want one.

    Could you explain that? Do you think you'd be a happier more fulfilled person if you were in a relationship?



    No. I don't think I have the capability and space to have someone in my life. But im also aware that im getting older particularly in a gay space when I do have that space available to fit in someone significant i don't want to be judged


    It's like being out of work for a number of years and a new employer wondering why you were out of work
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 04, 2014 9:54 AM GMT
    Invariably I don't want to be an indiscriminate slut either just to prove that I can still be desirable


  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 04, 2014 1:07 PM GMT
    Jms31 saidWell I've dated plenty of guys, but I'd say my first real relationship was probably last year (I was 30). I knew him a long time and we were madly in love. He moved to Hong Kong for a job not long into our relationship, and I was completely gutted. Tried to make it work long distance, but it was impossible.

    We'd still be together today if he hadn't left icon_neutral.gif



    That's sad. Im the type that is 100% loyal at the detriment to myself. I feel like if I was in a relationship Id lose all of me and if it wasn't resciprocated in the long term my heart would break in ways Id never know
  • Sunny_x9

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    Nov 05, 2014 1:32 AM GMT
    2 years back with twink boy of 16 age
    I don't know the reason for what he liked me so much
    I had relation with him for about 1 year
    then he relocated to some other state
    * oh I still like
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    Nov 05, 2014 1:42 AM GMT
    I was 23 dating a 29 year old. We were together for 2 years.
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    Nov 06, 2014 7:00 PM GMT
    15 years old and it wasn't great but it lasted longer than a year so I guess it counts as my first relationship.
  • CuteGamerboy

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    Nov 06, 2014 7:51 PM GMT
    I think i was 15, but i call that high school love but i still think of it as a real relationship. And you know your in a relationship if you guys can like read the other one thoughs before they can get it out.icon_cool.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gif