Dominant/Sub/Switch - Which Are You ?

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    Nov 09, 2014 8:10 PM GMT
    Ok so this for the kinky guys of RJ - answer this one question - where do you fall on the BDSM scale ?

    Are you:
    a) Dominant
    b) Submissive
    c) Switch

    I'm b) total sub.
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    Nov 09, 2014 8:50 PM GMT
    Whenever I have been with a guy in some way or another I've been submissive. Would be open to switching though.

    Whateveryo I would have thought looking at your pictures you had a dominant streak too icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 09, 2014 11:59 PM GMT
    a) Dominant

    But I wouldn't say I am into whole BDSM thing. I do enjoy being dominant without any special kink. Ok, I have once fisted a guy. That's it.
  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 10, 2014 4:41 AM GMT
    I am predominately a sub....

    However I would like to take a big strong man, tie him down to a table and then proceed to use him for my pleasure... Not top him anally, but definitely have control over the situation icon_wink.gif

    Tease, torment, milk for a while, get him all hot, bothered and begging for more...
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    Nov 10, 2014 6:44 AM GMT
    DannyW said
    Whateveryo I would have thought looking at your pictures you had a dominant streak too icon_cool.gif


    Ha well I think everyone does to an extent but nope - primarily sub here.

    Don't judge a book by it's cover icon_wink.gif
  • vhotti26

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    Nov 10, 2014 9:28 AM GMT
    Tend do be more on the dom side even when I bottom.
  • Sunny_x9

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    Nov 10, 2014 2:36 PM GMT
    I m complete Dominant
    ( hope it means I like to Dominate my bottom partner )
    not interested in BDSM though
  • funguy222

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    Nov 13, 2014 1:21 PM GMT
    Im definitely a sub
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 13, 2014 1:58 PM GMT
    sub
  • peter4u77

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    Nov 19, 2014 2:51 AM GMT
    total sub and I loved it

  • Nov 19, 2014 7:23 PM GMT
    B.

    I like the exhilaration that comes with giving over control to someone.
  • tmac_3000

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    Nov 22, 2014 2:19 PM GMT
    Woot my first message icon_razz.gif

    I'm not sure if switch means the same thing as fluctuate, but I go through big sub streaks for weeks or months where all I want to do is be dominated by older men, then suddenly flip to being more dominant and assertive. But either way my submissive side is stronger than my dominant one.

    PS I'm currently in the submissive stage haha
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 22, 2014 4:20 PM GMT
    Switch but chemistry determines which. In any given encounter I'm one or the other. I'm talking pretty vanilla. The kinkier it gets the more sub. Not into restraints or anything too extreme.
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    Nov 22, 2014 9:19 PM GMT
    I'm mostly sub , love to suck cock and have a guy pound my booty , I normally beg to be f'ed as the guy is doing me.......had one tell me no more after he f'ed me two times.
    So , I used my dildo as he watched.
  • secretperv7

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    Feb 27, 2015 11:16 AM GMT
    I guess I'm a sub. Although I've never been known to turn down a blowjob or handjob, I like nothing more than to serve nice cock however it needs it.
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    Feb 27, 2015 12:01 PM GMT
    I'd have to say I switch it up...

    I feel you lose a certain aspect of the sexual experience if you put limits on yourself for a particular role. If you always dominate, you'll never know the joy that is giving up yourself wholly to someone else, and similarly, if you always sub, you'll never know they joy of HAVING some give their self up wholly to you.

    I prefer having a partner who feels the same way... and we both know when to dominate, and when to submit.
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    Feb 27, 2015 3:27 PM GMT
    JonSpringon saidI'd have to say I switch it up...

    I feel you lose a certain aspect of the sexual experience if you put limits on yourself for a particular role. If you always dominate, you'll never know the joy that is giving up yourself wholly to someone else, and similarly, if you always sub, you'll never know they joy of HAVING some give their self up wholly to you.

    I prefer having a partner who feels the same way... and we both know when to dominate, and when to submit.

    Agree. But you experiment more these things when you are in a relationship with someone. In that case, I think making your partner happy is something which gives you the satisfaction most.
  • vhotti26

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    Feb 27, 2015 5:09 PM GMT
    Switch, but more to the dom side even when I bottom... hate just lying there and letting him do the job.