My family has been getting away from the whole gift giving thing. Keeps the pressure off. Makes the holidays less stressful and enjoyable. Only my mother gets her panties in a wad if she doesn't get a gift from you. She's always been difficult like that. I just get Dad a bottle of booze and he's happy as a clam.
Instead of gifts I would rather you invite me to your home for a little wine, cheese, and good conversation. Hell, it doesn't even have to be expensive wine; I'm no wine connoisseur. It really is the simple things that make life worth living.