If you knew a celebrity is really gay?

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    Nov 11, 2014 8:14 AM GMT
    Everyone wants to know, would you tell?

    Over this last weekend, im not saying where or with whom but I got a surprise celebrity sex romp at a certain place in LA. He is very well known and has had gay rumors forever, at least I know now that this man is really gay and I suppose others at this place also know now about this man even though I didn't hear anyone else talking, I don't think anyone wanted to be rude, he was there for the same thing, sex romp. Very nice, body, ass that I got to feel up through his jock strap, but disappointingly small in the front package department, lol, I would still date or marry him if he ever came out, im guessing a bottom with that ass. Its not my place to give this man away until he is ready himself, he still has a ways to go in his celebrity status and career so I will not reveal his identity.

    Its just killing me not to say anything, I usually am discreet when required but this is my first ever close encounter with a high profile celebrity that was a bit of a shock, not something that would happen every day, its not like we were buying groceries, lol. I just kept it cool even though our encounter didn't last long, I didn't ask any questions, it appears he left the building before I did.

    So, if this happened to you, would you blab to everyone or keep your celebrity run in, your own secret?
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    Nov 11, 2014 8:54 AM GMT
    If I were in your situation - I would probably mention it to friends - I wouldn't put it out on the internet. If he's having sex at the baths/sex club/bar/restroom, he can hardly expect everyone not to notice if he's well-known. That's why your guy is a rumor - other men have been with him and talked. I'm not a celebrity watcher, so I probably wouldn't even recognize the guy unless he were ultra-famous. But why are you hesitant to mention where you were? You're not going to shock anyone on RJ.
  • Bowyn_Aerrow

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    Nov 11, 2014 9:01 AM GMT
    On a personal level, I keep everyone's secrets. Everyone who knows me knows they can confess all sorts of things and it doesn't go past my lips.

    I have literally taken confession, and then there are all the dying terminal patients who have said things to me which are rather juicy bits of gossip, and if I didn't have a code of honor some of what has been told to me could have earned me a nice profit.

    To me, silence is an issue of honor.

    If you do not have that sort of honor-issue, then lets look at this as the 'gay thing' that it is.



    Outing a person is verboten by the gay code.

    Regardless of their celebrity, class or stature in society. Even if the person is a sworn enemy, we in the LGBT community frown on outting a person. The one who outs a person is the one who ends up hated the most.

    I assume you were in the closet at one time, think back to what it would have been like to have someone rip you kicking and screaming from our closet. Think of how you would have felt having to face all of those people you came out to not being the one to inform them, but having to answer them as to why it was you didn't trust them enough to tell them yourself.

    I do not envy celebrities. Every part of their life 'must' be exposed for the delight and satisfaction of people who they will never know or met but who seem to think that they are 'owed' every detail of these people's lives.

    Celebrities are people too, and like anyone else deserve the honor, respect and dignity that all humans want.



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    Nov 11, 2014 9:04 AM GMT
    No.

    Period.

    It is a highly personal situation.

    And the op is as common as the day is long.

    Enjoy your brush with greatness

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    Nov 11, 2014 9:13 AM GMT
    Puppenjunge saidIf I were in your situation - I would probably mention it to friends - I wouldn't put it out on the internet. If he's having sex at the baths/sex club/bar/restroom, he can hardly expect everyone not to notice if he's well-known. That's why your guy is a rumor - other men have been with him and talked. I'm not a celebrity watcher, so I probably wouldn't even recognize the guy unless he was ultra-famous. But why are you hesitant to mention where you were? You're not going to shock anyone on RJ.


    This is Hollywood and I am not part of any of this industry, if someone within this industry tells the general public or their friends, then that is there thing. There must be a 'common courtesy' within this industry if a celebrity is closeted and others know, they remain that way until they themselves reveal it and or go public, much like many others, Rock Hudson and Freddie Mercury. The industry insiders know, other celebrities know, some in the local gay community know, why haven't they come forward? Since I am making this part and story public on RJ, the place is irrelevant, you wouldn't want this place known as a closeted celebrity hang out, where the paparazzi can hang out and 'catch' the celebrity in the act, celebrities have enough problems with paparazzi, I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I would just rather not say and bring any attention to it, maybe this man frequently goes there, who knows.
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    Nov 11, 2014 9:28 AM GMT
    Bowyn_Aerrow saidOn a personal level, I keep everyone's secrets. Everyone who knows me knows they can confess all sorts of things and it doesn't go past my lips.

    I have literally taken confession, and then there are all the dying terminal patients who have said things to me which are rather juicy bits of gossip, and if I didn't have a code of honor some of what has been told to me could have earned me a nice profit.

    To me, silence is an issue of honor.

    If you do not have that sort of honor-issue, then lets look at this as the 'gay thing' that it is.



    Outing a person is verboten by the gay code.

    Regardless of their celebrity, class or stature in society. Even if the person is a sworn enemy, we in the LGBT community frown on outting a person. The one who outs a person is the one who ends up hated the most.

    I assume you were in the closet at one time, think back to what it would have been like to have someone rip you kicking and screaming from our closet. Think of how you would have felt having to face all of those people you came out to not being the one to inform them, but having to answer them as to why it was you didn't trust them enough to tell them yourself.

    I do not envy celebrities. Every part of their life 'must' be exposed for the delight and satisfaction of people who they will never know or met but who seem to think that they are 'owed' every detail of these people's lives.

    Celebrities are people too, and like anyone else deserve the honor, respect and dignity that all humans want.






    ^this true about celebrity, the only time I had to out someone and break the code was about a former male boss who made sexual advances towards me, I refused and then he tried to involve me in some type of blackmail scheme, when that didn't work, I was defamed, then it got real messy, but I digress, closeted gays can be criminals and or open themselves up for blackmail or extortion.

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    Nov 11, 2014 10:51 AM GMT
    Cash saidNo.

    Period.

    It is a highly personal situation.

    And the op is as common as the day is long.

    Enjoy your brush with greatness

    You are disposable





    Exactly.

    Any well educated, well bred, intelligent, decent, admirable MAN keeps his mouth shut and avoids gossip. (He also keeps his word, his promises, confidences, pays his debts, is kind to those who serve him, and to those he meets). He doesn't brag, boast, name drop or 'out' anyone.
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    Nov 11, 2014 12:33 PM GMT
    I'd keep it to myself. Besides outing him now will probably make him seem like a stereotype lol
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    Nov 11, 2014 1:34 PM GMT
    scruffLA said... He is very well known and has had gay rumors forever...
    dont see any value trying to add to an already established rumor.
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    Nov 11, 2014 3:18 PM GMT
    If it was a douchebag anti-Semite like a Mel Gibshit, then you might hail the news so a passing ship would know. If it was a hypocritical homophobe then you'd absolutely string signal flags from highest yardarm so everyone could see. But if he was a good guy, someone living otherwise honestly and not hurting others, then you pass silently, two ships in the night.

    Two things with so-called celebrity sightings. You might not know someone out of context--you might recognize immediately on stage or behind screen but not so much in person--or you might not know them out of makeup haha, because the stage is so very staged. But also you might think someone looks like a celebrity when they are not, all the doppelgangers. People are not quite fingerprints; they're more limited editions.

    My actor bud (professionally closeted but open to family and friends) and I did frequent some sex clubs together and also he went on his own, had lots of fun there, never an issue. I don't know if that would play the same today on two counts. One being all the cameras at hand. It seems to me that would introduce risk and paranoia. Countering that, I don't know if he'd be closeted today, though none of us have outed him even in death.

    I haven't been out there in a while but I do remember those places were pretty busy and it's a very different ballgame today. So I find it hard to imagine a picture of that, even if just in the parking lot of the establishment, not getting around. I doubt there are as many closeted famous actors risking outing themselves today as there were before the cellphone.
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 11, 2014 8:27 PM GMT
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    Cash saidNo.

    Period.

    It is a highly personal situation.

    And the op is as common as the day is long.

    Enjoy your brush with greatness

    You are disposable





    Exactly.

    Any well educated, well bred, intelligent, decent, admirable MAN keeps his mouth shut and avoids gossip. (He also keeps his word, his promises, confidences, pays his debts, is kind to those who serve him, and to those he meets). He doesn't brag, boast, name drop or 'out' anyone.

    Nicely put.
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    Nov 11, 2014 8:35 PM GMT
    A friend of mine has an ex who used to work as a concierge at an LA hotel where tons of celebrities frequent. He hooked up with 3 celebrities, one of them is currently on a popular TV show. At first I didn't believe him but my friend said he wouldn't make up stuff like that.

    If I was the one who hooked up with those celebrities, I wouldn't tell anyone. I don't see the difference in hooking up with celebs compared to guys I've been with in the past. I respect the other guy's privacy and I'd prefer to keep it that way. Now....if I can just have one night with Liam Hemsworth. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 11, 2014 9:18 PM GMT
    I always thought that "guys" who play kiss-and-tell were pretty low on the food chain.

    "guys"who play fuck-and-tell seem to Me to be several steps beneath the gutter...
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 11, 2014 9:54 PM GMT
    Maybe he's not gay - just "curious," as they say. Not nice to tell-gossip.

    But give us all your guess as to his age - are we talking 18-20? 30ish? 60ish?

    And - do you think that he recognized that he was recognized? (Couldn't care less) Or just oblivious?
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    Nov 11, 2014 9:59 PM GMT
    Cash saidI always thought that "guys" who play kiss-and-tell were pretty low on the food chain.

    "guys"who play fuck-and-tell seem to Me to be several steps beneath the gutter...

    Reading carefully, it seems that not only kissing, but also fucking was not involved. Sounds more like a blowjob. So if the name parted his lips, would this be just "in" the gutter, as opposed to below it?
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    Nov 11, 2014 10:18 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidA friend of mine has an ex who used to work as a concierge at an LA hotel where tons of celebrities frequent. He hooked up with 3 celebrities, one of them is currently on a popular TV show.

    I would guess from your tale, that your friend concierge enjoyed the experiences. Like realizing a fantasy of bedding prince Harry. At the same time, does not the situation bring to mind the situation of the ultra rich waving their fingers in the direction of the lowly servants to get a sexual dalliance? The Hollywood types (admittedly only the attractive ones), who make millions, fly in private jets, and daily bathe their egos in fame, publicity, and undeserved worship, get to indulge their sexual desires for an hour or so with the help - someone who is paid probably less than one tenth of 1 per cent of their income - no strings attached. Like the head of the IMF getting to have sex with the maid - because that's his desire?
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    Nov 12, 2014 2:44 AM GMT
    scruffLA said I would still date or marry him if he ever came out


    Don't risk upsetting your future husband.
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    Nov 12, 2014 2:46 AM GMT
    I must be a horrible person because I'm dying to know.


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    Nov 12, 2014 2:50 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI must be a horrible person because I'm dying to know.


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    Some people would agree that you are (certainly not me). But would please forward the answer if you get one? (Wild horses could not get me to tell another soul).
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    Nov 12, 2014 2:52 AM GMT
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    HottJoe saidI must be a horrible person because I'm dying to know.


    Email me?icon_biggrin.gif


    Some people would agree that you are (certainly not me). But would please forward the answer if you get one? (Wild horses could not get me to tell another soul).

    I want a list of those people!icon_evil.gif

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    Nov 12, 2014 2:56 AM GMT
    A porn star I knew said he has slept with Tom Cruise.

    And Mr. X claims that George Clooney is gay.

    I don't know how much truth is in that though....icon_surprised.gif
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    Nov 12, 2014 2:59 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidA porn star I knew said he has slept with Tom Cruise.

    And Mr. X claims that George Clooney is gay.

    I don't know how much truth is in that though....icon_surprised.gif

    Was the porn star's drug of the moment a truth serum?

    And has Mr. X started ly8ing to you? George just married a young(er) lawyer (female).
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    Nov 12, 2014 3:01 AM GMT
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    jmusmc85 saidA porn star I knew said he has slept with Tom Cruise.

    And Mr. X claims that George Clooney is gay.

    I don't know how much truth is in that though....icon_surprised.gif

    Was the porn star's drug of the moment a truth serum?

    And has Mr. X started ly8ing to you? George just married a young(er) lawyer (female).


    The porn star was actually a good friend of mine in the Marines...he has gone on to star in a popular Bravo reality show...if you look him up he shouldn't be that ..hard to find.

    And I don't know why Mr. X would lie to me about this. The marriage doesn't mean a thing these days....you know that....he has A LOT to lose....
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    Nov 12, 2014 3:04 AM GMT
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    HikerSkier said
    jmusmc85 saidA porn star I knew said he has slept with Tom Cruise.

    And Mr. X claims that George Clooney is gay.

    I don't know how much truth is in that though....icon_surprised.gif

    Was the porn star's drug of the moment a truth serum?

    And has Mr. X started ly8ing to you? George just married a young(er) lawyer (female).


    The porn star was actually a good friend of mine in the Marines...he has gone on to star in a popular Bravo reality show...if you look him up he shouldn't be that ..hard to find.

    And I don't know why Mr. X would lie to me about this. The marriage doesn't mean a thing these days....you know that....he has A LOT to lose....


    I think porn star friend would have to be really into Scientology to get within fucking distance of Tom.
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    Nov 12, 2014 3:41 AM GMT
    Suetonius saidMaybe he's not gay - just "curious," as they say. Not nice to tell-gossip.

    But give us all your guess as to his age - are we talking 18-20? 30ish? 60ish?

    And - do you think that he recognized that he was recognized? (Couldn't care less) Or just oblivious?



    Yes, he maybe just curious (but with already rumors?)
    Yes, he knew he had been recognized (couldn't care less, neither did anyone else)