How did you overcome your infatuations?

  • infinitefrien...

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    Nov 11, 2014 5:35 PM GMT
    Ok, I think a guy is really cute in every way but he may not like me.

    I need to get over him very quickly and focus on more important things... until I am also cuter inside and out

    How do I get over him, genuinely
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    Nov 11, 2014 5:38 PM GMT
    infinitefriend9 saidHow do I get over him, genuinely
    Have sex with him.
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    Nov 11, 2014 6:12 PM GMT
    Marry Him.

    Trust Me, 6 months in and You will just stare at Him over dinner and say to Yourself, "who IS this person and what in the hell was I thinking?!!?"
  • infinitefrien...

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    Nov 11, 2014 10:16 PM GMT
    Cash saidMarry Him.

    Trust Me, 6 months in and You will just stare at Him over dinner and say to Yourself, "who IS this person and what in the hell was I thinking?!!?"


    Haha, well I hope that isn't true

    I don't think I'd marry him even if he proposed. I just want a piece of him until I get bored and say 'done that; had sex with a guy I thought was very cute' - I know I sound like a sociopath :S
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 11, 2014 10:21 PM GMT
    infinitefriend9 said
    Cash saidMarry Him.

    Trust Me, 6 months in and You will just stare at Him over dinner and say to Yourself, "who IS this person and what in the hell was I thinking?!!?"


    Haha, well I hope that isn't true

    I don't think I'd marry him even if he proposed. I just want a piece of him until I get bored and say 'done that; had sex with a guy I thought was very cute' - I know I sound like a sociopath :S

    Not a sociopath, just a typical young gay man/boy.

    Obviously, you don't need to get over him - you already are.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Nov 11, 2014 10:56 PM GMT
    It can be a challenge. I think you have to be logical and practical (which can be tough). What are the odds of this being successful?

    Get focused on other things that you know are positive and proactive.
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    Nov 12, 2014 3:20 AM GMT
    I need an advice too myself. Need to get over a crush with someone who's way out of my league.
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    Nov 12, 2014 5:53 PM GMT
    infinitefriend9 said
    Cash saidMarry Him.

    Trust Me, 6 months in and You will just stare at Him over dinner and say to Yourself, "who IS this person and what in the hell was I thinking?!!?"


    Haha, well I hope that isn't true

    I don't think I'd marry him even if he proposed. I just want a piece of him until I get bored and say 'done that; had sex with a guy I thought was very cute' - I know I sound like a sociopath :S


    I wouldn't say sociopath but I hope one day someone uses and discards you like yesterday's leftovers. You deserve no better treatment than that.

    I thought you had to be 18 and over to be on this site? I got over crushes in junior high and high school.
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    Nov 12, 2014 8:05 PM GMT
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  • infinitefrien...

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    Nov 13, 2014 7:15 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    infinitefriend9 said
    Cash saidMarry Him.

    Trust Me, 6 months in and You will just stare at Him over dinner and say to Yourself, "who IS this person and what in the hell was I thinking?!!?"


    Haha, well I hope that isn't true

    I don't think I'd marry him even if he proposed. I just want a piece of him until I get bored and say 'done that; had sex with a guy I thought was very cute' - I know I sound like a sociopath :S


    I wouldn't say sociopath but I hope one day someone uses and discards you like yesterday's leftovers. You deserve no better treatment than that.

    I thought you had to be 18 and over to be on this site? I got over crushes in junior high and high school.


    Why you so rude!!
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 13, 2014 9:36 PM GMT
    Jack off and take a nap?
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    Nov 13, 2014 9:43 PM GMT
    I'm very blunt so I've just learned how to say fuck it and fuck them. Time isn't promised and the one thing you can't get back. So why waste it being infatuated with something that'll never happen when there's more important things that I should be infatuated with?

    Fuck that jazz.

    #moveon