Why my friend (BFF) gets all the attention? Please, tips!


  • Nov 12, 2014 10:02 AM GMT
    Me and my friend always hangout together, and we have a common friend girl that's is the type of girls that knows loads of gay people. Sometimes she calls one of her buddies to hang with us, and than the guy interest go directlies to my BFF, letting me feeling rejected, ugly, boring and etc.

    He met 2 boyfriends through her and currently is in a long term relationship of almost 3 years and I think they probably are going to get married.

    I wonder why he gets so much more attention they I do, I mean, when I meet guys or go out what this girl and she brings a friend I can hold a conversation.

    I can make people laugh, but this ability isn't getting me any sex Or sexual adventures, and not even a boyfriend.

    I don't think I'm ugly, but he's pretty tall and have a car,maybe it's this...

  • Nov 12, 2014 10:04 AM GMT
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  • BloodFlame

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    Nov 14, 2014 7:54 AM GMT
    I'm not sure what the problem could be but maybe overall body language. Some people have more positive and inviting vibes then others.

    You seemed to bring in height into this stating your friend is pretty tall. Well.., I have heard that it's harder for shorter men to get attention but still, you shouldn't let that deter you because there are guys who are into shorter men.

    All in all, just stop comparing yourself to him. You are two different people and I'm sure you'll meet some guys. Just keep a positive attitude.
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    Nov 15, 2014 3:36 AM GMT
    BloodFlame saidAll in all, just stop comparing yourself to him. You are two different people and I'm sure you'll meet some guys. Just keep a positive attitude.


    ^that

    get happy with yourself first.