Scars and marks

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    Nov 12, 2014 6:49 PM GMT
    It's a sensitive subject I guess, but could you date someone with very prominent facial/body scars or marks?

    I'd be okay with it as long as there wasn't anything too disfiguring. I'm not shallow...

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    Nov 12, 2014 6:54 PM GMT
    Bonaparts saidsince when dating somebody who has a scar means you are not shallow?


    It means you can see past something on the outside and value a person for their personality and other attractive features.
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    Nov 12, 2014 7:04 PM GMT
    No, I said very prominent. Much different than a few acne scars.
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    Nov 12, 2014 7:08 PM GMT
    Are you drunk?
  • Nakedman1969

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    Nov 13, 2014 12:04 AM GMT
    I guess you wouldn't date me because of my scar because its goes from the top of my stomach to the top of my pubes.
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    Nov 13, 2014 12:12 AM GMT
    I <3 all my scars. Especially the ones caused by bicycle crashes.
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    Nov 13, 2014 12:17 AM GMT
    I have a scar that kinda cross my eyebrow, never caused me any problems, if anything I got the "its sexy" more than once.
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Nov 13, 2014 12:21 AM GMT
    The scars doesnt influence that fact, so it depends if that person can make good conversation.

    Beauty fades anyways, If you go for something shallow like that you're going to be growing old with eventually an ugly wrinkly old man who's a huge asshole because his younger pretty face got him everything
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:15 AM GMT
    Man, rock it! It is you! Who you are, your personality. It becomes you. It is you. The sooner you embrace it the better off you will be. I have suffered for a very long time with depression because I saw myself as nothing more than a piece of nasty trash not worthy of sun light. But now I'm just kind of embracing life, letting go of everything that held me back for years and years.

    Also if people don't want to be with you or hang out with you just because of a scar, it shows how shallow and pathetic they are within their own sad little lives.

    Cheers man
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:20 AM GMT
    Wouldn't bother me at all. I'm very picky about the guys I date but superficial things are not the kind of things I look for.
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:27 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidWouldn't bother me at all. I'm very picky about the guys I date but superficial things are not the kind of things I look for.

    Yeah, that's one way to put it
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:38 AM GMT
    no scars?
    just think it shows the boy is not trying hard enough in life.
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:41 AM GMT
    pellaz saidno scars?
    just think it shows the boy is not trying hard enough in life.
    +1

    A person with no scars is a person who never had fun.
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    Nov 13, 2014 2:05 AM GMT
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    Scruffypup saidWouldn't bother me at all. I'm very picky about the guys I date but superficial things are not the kind of things I look for.

    Yeah, that's one way to put it


    I'm very sorry you don't have any guys that would date you, but no need to be bitter that I do. And all that bitterness certainly doesn't make you any more attractive either.
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    Nov 13, 2014 2:18 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    Sharkspeare said
    Scruffypup saidWouldn't bother me at all. I'm very picky about the guys I date but superficial things are not the kind of things I look for.

    Yeah, that's one way to put it


    I'm very sorry you don't have any guys that would date you, but no need to be bitter that I do. And all that bitterness certainly doesn't make you any more attractive either.

    yeah, I bet they're just lining up for a piece of trash
    Up north we call that "slumming"
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    Nov 13, 2014 2:22 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    Sharkspeare said
    Scruffypup saidWouldn't bother me at all. I'm very picky about the guys I date but superficial things are not the kind of things I look for.

    Yeah, that's one way to put it


    I'm very sorry you don't have any guys that would date you, but no need to be bitter that I do. And all that bitterness certainly doesn't make you any more attractive either.


    Now this seems like old times!! Most people in the olden days would see this post for the humor it was meant to be. The RJ we have today members find it offensive and racist. Go figure. Cue the crazy fucker in 3 2 1
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    Nov 13, 2014 4:08 AM GMT
    Might bother me at first but if you truly love the person you will look beyond their flaws.
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    Nov 13, 2014 4:20 AM GMT
    hahaha I have a few soccer injury scars on my leg and hand from when I was younger but I don't think guys notice them...icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 13, 2014 4:22 AM GMT
    Chase646 saidMan, rock it! It is you! Who you are, your personality. It becomes you. It is you. The sooner you embrace it the better off you will be. I have suffered for a very long time with depression because I saw myself as nothing more than a piece of nasty trash not worthy of sun light. But now I'm just kind of embracing life, letting go of everything that held me back for years and years.

    Also if people don't want to be with you or hang out with you just because of a scar, it shows how shallow and pathetic they are within their own sad little lives.

    Cheers man


    Definitely agree. I dealt with deep cystic acne for a long, long time. and have scar tissues over most of my back and chest. but as time goes on and you get older, you learn to just accept who you are and move on with life. no point in being held back by yourself.
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    Nov 13, 2014 8:10 AM GMT
    Silly question.
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    Nov 13, 2014 8:20 AM GMT
    I'm covered in scars, except for my face. I still have scars from when I was 12 .
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    Nov 13, 2014 8:26 AM GMT
    Nakedman1969 saidI guess you wouldn't date me because of my scar because its goes from the top of my stomach to the top of my pubes.


    He looks younger than his stated age and you look older and not in shape at all. It's probably this.
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    Nov 13, 2014 8:27 AM GMT
    Jms31 saidIt's a sensitive subject I guess, but could you date someone with very prominent facial/body scars or marks?

    I'd be okay with it as long as there wasn't anything too disfiguring. I'm not shallow...



    And to your question, I would.
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    Nov 13, 2014 2:56 PM GMT
    I have 'stretch marks' from weight lifting....kind of embarrassing but not that big of a deal...
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    Nov 13, 2014 3:08 PM GMT
    colostomy_1.jpg

    Would you date a man with an ostomy?

    What if he was into letting you do a Philadelphia sidecar?