being a complete and utter submissive bottom

  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 13, 2014 12:53 AM GMT
    so i had this grindr meet today. i saw his face, he asked for various pics of me which I obliged. Went to his house; basically, i blew him and he slapped me about a bit, fucked me, came in like less than ten strokes of being inside me (his dick was ridiculous huge so that was surprising) even tho I didnt get off and I didn't talk I thought it was hot.

    this is totally normal right?
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    Nov 13, 2014 12:56 AM GMT
    A true bottom should focus on pleasing his partner and shouldnt care if he doesn't cum. I understand many will disagree, but Im talking about true submissive bottoms. So yes, its normal.
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    Nov 13, 2014 12:58 AM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidso i had this grindr meet today. i saw his face, he asked for various pics of me which I obliged. Went to his house; basically, i blew him and he slapped me about a bit, fucked me, came in like less than ten strokes of being inside me (his dick was ridiculous huge so that was surprising) even tho I didnt get off and I didn't talk I thought it was hot.

    this is totally normal right?


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  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 13, 2014 12:58 AM GMT
    David3K saidA true bottom should focus on pleasing his partner and shouldnt care if he doesn't cum. I understand many will disagree, but Im talking about true submissive bottoms. So yes, its normal.


    thats the thing it was like i didn't get off at all, none of it, save the hitting was pleasurable for me but the fact that i made him cum so soon while inside me, i was so pleased with myself.
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    Nov 13, 2014 12:59 AM GMT
    David3K saidA true bottom should focus on pleasing his partner and shouldnt care if he doesn't cum. I understand many will disagree, but Im talking about true submissive bottoms. So yes, its normal.


    A true top should focus on pleasing his bottom too, right? He makes sure the bottom gets his fill too. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 13, 2014 12:59 AM GMT
    polfsky said
    David3K saidA true bottom should focus on pleasing his partner and shouldnt care if he doesn't cum. I understand many will disagree, but Im talking about true submissive bottoms. So yes, its normal.


    A true top should focus on pleasing his bottom too, right? He makes sure the bottom gets his fill too. icon_smile.gif


    im clearly a selfless bottom
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:00 AM GMT
    ZakSayWhat saidso i had this grindr meet today. i saw his face, he asked for various pics of me which I obliged. Went to his house; basically, i blew him and he slapped me about a bit, fucked me, came in like less than ten strokes of being inside me (his dick was ridiculous huge so that was surprising) even tho I didnt get off and I didn't talk I thought it was hot.

    this is totally normal right?
    If you had fun, why would anyone else's opinion matter? Go with it and be happy. icon_biggrin.gif
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Nov 13, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    ZakSayWhat saidso i had this grindr meet today. i saw his face, he asked for various pics of me which I obliged. Went to his house; basically, i blew him and he slapped me about a bit, fucked me, came in like less than ten strokes of being inside me (his dick was ridiculous huge so that was surprising) even tho I didnt get off and I didn't talk I thought it was hot.

    this is totally normal right?
    If you had fun, why would anyone else's opinion matter? Go with it and be happy. icon_biggrin.gif


    i just worry about my mental health i guess, in the long run
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:07 AM GMT
    polfsky said
    David3K saidA true bottom should focus on pleasing his partner and shouldnt care if he doesn't cum. I understand many will disagree, but Im talking about true submissive bottoms. So yes, its normal.


    A true top should focus on pleasing his bottom too, right? He makes sure the bottom gets his fill too. icon_smile.gif

    Absolutely true, but a true bottom craves to please the top, so that should be taken into account too. In other words its the knowledge to know the bottom is getting pleasure by pleasing you. What works for you to get your "fill" will differ than what others need.
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    Nov 13, 2014 1:08 AM GMT
    ZakSayWhat said
    paulflexes said
    ZakSayWhat saidso i had this grindr meet today. i saw his face, he asked for various pics of me which I obliged. Went to his house; basically, i blew him and he slapped me about a bit, fucked me, came in like less than ten strokes of being inside me (his dick was ridiculous huge so that was surprising) even tho I didnt get off and I didn't talk I thought it was hot.

    this is totally normal right?
    If you had fun, why would anyone else's opinion matter? Go with it and be happy. icon_biggrin.gif


    i just worry about my mental health i guess, in the long run
    Your mental health will be much better if you learn to acept the past and learn from it, regardless of whether the experiences were good or bad.