How is to be with another guy for first time?

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    Nov 13, 2014 3:02 PM GMT
    I am completely new with guy's relationship. I have never kiss or touch another guy. I have been in my closet for all those years, and I have put and end to my fake life. I will like to hear from you guys and give some advice please. Thank you
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    Nov 13, 2014 3:08 PM GMT
    It's like heaven, without the boring harp music.
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 13, 2014 3:59 PM GMT
    Good for you. Looks like you're British living in Canada so no reason not to start living an authentic life. First thing to do is remember to be a complete person first and a sexual guy second. Start with your profile. Describe what you like about yourself or give some indication of things you enjoy doing. Give others a way to connect. Then put yourself out there and contact guys that you think might be a good fit. Don't just be passive and wait. And be honest with them but not necessarily in the first three sentences. Remember, complete guy first, sexual guy second. Once you've met a guy you like (not necessarily expect to spend the rest of your life with), ask him out on a date. You can confess inexperience. It will probably be exciting for him. Be honest. Be nervous. Don't shut down. Remember, he's probably nervous, too.

    The rest will take care of itself. Have fun!
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    Nov 14, 2014 5:28 PM GMT
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    Nov 14, 2014 5:37 PM GMT
    Like any form of real intimacy with someone you care about, it's the greatest thing in the world.
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    Nov 14, 2014 5:37 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidWell lookie here! I ... work in leather, neoprene, S&M/bondage...
    if a boy wears a clown uniform on a date bail.
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    Nov 14, 2014 6:06 PM GMT
    Welcome to Gayworld. Destinharbor gave great advice.

    Sex: read up on safe sex practices before you get started. Use protection for anal sex. There is a very old book that is still au courant: The Joy of Gay Sex - tells everything you may want to know about gay sex.

    Rent some gay films from Netflix; try Wolfe Video. Next May, go to the Toronto gay film festival and see a bunch:
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    Go meet some gay guys in real life: local gay sports clubs/gay organizations, etc.

    How is to be with another guy for first time? Can be good or not so good - depending on who you are with. It is the 2nd and 3rd times that are going to be great!
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Nov 14, 2014 6:25 PM GMT
    I waited out for my first time till i was confident enough in myself as well as the person I was with, who's my now ex.

    Destinharbor First thing to do is remember to be a complete person first and a sexual guy second.

    This is especially important. Make sure you have some type of self-identity (Just embrace it) in your and the confidence in that identity will make sure you act correctly to what you see as acceptable and will make you less inclined to do something you might regret

    For me kissing was the most intense thing ever, I love to kiss and when you like that person and the chemistry is there, it might sound cliche, but when your lips touch or any parts of your body, spark fly.

    The best i can describe it is your heart is fluttering, your skin is tingling (especially where he touches you, the air around you seems thicker and all of your senses are heightened.

    Sex is even more so, you just want to explode. The more body contact the better, even if the room is cold you two won't be for very long. My whole body just pulsates during.

    All this however was all done with someone I was attracted to and had feelings for. Hookups aren't the same. It'll be intense but in a whole other way, More of a thrill heat of a moment feeling.

    I think because its two guys everything is just that much more intense, more testosterone clashing, strength, it can get pretty hectic.

    When I look back i'll say I was really lucky with my first time, because it was easily the best sex I have ever had. We ended up falling asleep 7 am in each others arms icon_smile.gif

    Hopes this helps you, the first part is especially crucial
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    Nov 14, 2014 6:45 PM GMT
    Thank you man.
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    Nov 15, 2014 1:37 AM GMT
    Aleco_Graves saidI waited out for my first time till i was confident enough in myself as well as the person I was with, who's my now ex.

    Destinharbor First thing to do is remember to be a complete person first and a sexual guy second.
    ...

    The best i can describe it is your heart is fluttering, your skin is tingling (especially where he touches you, the air around you seems thicker and all of your senses are heightened.

    ...


    I remember the first time my current BF and I were sexually intimate. When I took him in my arms I could feel his body tremble. Right then and there I new I had the real thing.
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    Nov 16, 2014 6:59 AM GMT
    Best of luck. But don't be in a hurry. Ur' not the only one that must walk down that path. Someday it will also be my firt time also. Its huge for me. Scary even. My advise is take your time.... If it happen it happen. Best of wishes and good luck... Regards!
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    Nov 16, 2014 8:13 AM GMT
    It is either VERY expensive and involves a dinner jacket....or is very quick in a Mustang behind a Dairy Queen....
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Nov 16, 2014 12:04 PM GMT
    Cash saidIt is either VERY expensive and involves a dinner jacket....or is very quick in a Mustang behind a Dairy Queen....


    then someone will have to show you the porper way icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 16, 2014 2:01 PM GMT
    Cash saidIt is either VERY expensive and involves a dinner jacket....or is very quick in a Mustang behind a Dairy Queen....

    I've got the 'Stang, but no Dairy Queen... There's a nice little spot behind a Burger King billboard that I've been to before... How's that sound?
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    Nov 16, 2014 2:51 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    Aleco_Graves saidI waited out for my first time till i was confident enough in myself as well as the person I was with, who's my now ex.

    Destinharbor First thing to do is remember to be a complete person first and a sexual guy second.
    ...

    The best i can describe it is your heart is fluttering, your skin is tingling (especially where he touches you, the air around you seems thicker and all of your senses are heightened.

    ...


    I remember the first time my current BF and I were sexually intimate. When I took him in my arms I could feel his body tremble. Right then and there I new I had the real thing.


    WOWWWW, soooo romantic. I want that. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gif