I waited out for my first time till i was confident enough in myself as well as the person I was with, who's my now ex.
Destinharbor First thing to do is remember to be a complete person first and a sexual guy second.
This is especially important. Make sure you have some type of self-identity (Just embrace it) in your and the confidence in that identity will make sure you act correctly to what you see as acceptable and will make you less inclined to do something you might regret
For me kissing was the most intense thing ever, I love to kiss and when you like that person and the chemistry is there, it might sound cliche, but when your lips touch or any parts of your body, spark fly.
The best i can describe it is your heart is fluttering, your skin is tingling (especially where he touches you, the air around you seems thicker and all of your senses are heightened.
Sex is even more so, you just want to explode. The more body contact the better, even if the room is cold you two won't be for very long. My whole body just pulsates during.
All this however was all done with someone I was attracted to and had feelings for. Hookups aren't the same. It'll be intense but in a whole other way, More of a thrill heat of a moment feeling.
I think because its two guys everything is just that much more intense, more testosterone clashing, strength, it can get pretty hectic.
When I look back i'll say I was really lucky with my first time, because it was easily the best sex I have ever had. We ended up falling asleep 7 am in each others arms
Hopes this helps you, the first part is especially crucial