Is it strang I'm only into a guy's muscles and not looking for sex?

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    Nov 14, 2014 3:41 AM GMT
    Are there any other guys out there attracted to muscles but not looking for sex? Am I the only one????
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 14, 2014 4:29 AM GMT
    Do you beat off to men or women?
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    Nov 14, 2014 4:38 AM GMT
    Guys flexing their muscles


    Here are my favorites

    http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=FLI1JSorUpC5C5ZA63wnZfqA
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    Nov 14, 2014 4:43 AM GMT
    If it's strange, then I'm strange too.

    Honestly, there are other exciting things to do. I'd rather spend time with someone who wants to go camping or spot me in the gym, than someone who just wants my pants off--or visa versa.

    Basically, when it comes to developing relationships with others, sex is one of the last things on my mind. There are so many other qualities that make people interesting. And there are qualities about bodybuilders, both in their physique and their mentality, that in my eyes make them more than just 'a good fuck' as some would put it.

    If I try to make friends, it's because of more than just 'I want to get in your pants'. I'm into guys who want to live life to the fullest outside the bedroom.
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    Nov 14, 2014 4:53 AM GMT
    It is very strang indeedicon_razz.gif
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    Nov 14, 2014 4:58 AM GMT
    Austxdude787 saidAre there any other guys out there attracted to muscles but not looking for sex? Am I the only one????



    From your profile: "Morals and religion are important to me. I find I'm forever caught in a battle with my attractions to men and my faith. Not sure how this is all gonna work out."

    Organized religion has fucked up many people emotionally. I'd bet this is where the dysfunction is coming from.
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 14, 2014 5:22 AM GMT
    I've actually felt that way about some guys, too. But not most. I do think it is a block. Give yourself permission to try more with just one guy. See what happens. You can be honest with him. He'll have fun testing you and the worst that could happen is that you both laugh a lot. There'll be in intimacy either way that will be nice for you both.
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    Nov 14, 2014 5:37 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    Austxdude787 saidAre there any other guys out there attracted to muscles but not looking for sex? Am I the only one????



    From your profile: "Morals and religion are important to me. I find I'm forever caught in a battle with my attractions to men and my faith. Not sure how this is all gonna work out."

    Organized religion has fucked up many people emotionally. I'd bet this is where the dysfunction is coming from.


    Just allow yourself to enjoy what you want. Not sure what you are, bi gay, but there is only one line in the bible about men with men sounding wrong. Leviticus something like men should not lie with men as they do with woman. This was more about procreation. Same section states it is better for a man to burry his seed in the belly of a whore that to let it hit the ground. In that same vein mastubation is equal a sin to jerking off. If this was the case 98% of men will be in hell.

    Relax enjoy what you desire.
    Question do you get hard seeing or touching a guys muscles?
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    Nov 14, 2014 6:56 AM GMT
    No you're not strange. We all have our fetishes. I'm similar to you that I don't really care for sex but guys' muscles and body hair. icon_redface.gif
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    Nov 14, 2014 12:49 PM GMT
    Hey guys
    Thanks for all of the encouraging word! I'll be trying to just enjoy the presence of guys in the future and hopefully the right guy will come along. Mikemikemike asked if I get hard touching other guys muscles. I do and as a matter of fact that's what I usually ejaculate to
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    Nov 14, 2014 1:25 PM GMT
    Do you find the act of sucking dick or fucking guys repulsive?
    Do you find two guys kissing weird?
    If the answer is yes, most probably, you've internalized homophobia where despite your attraction towards guys, anything sexual disgusts you.
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    Nov 14, 2014 1:28 PM GMT
    pazzy saidwhy can't the guy just be bicurious or admire the male physique in peace without folks rushing to judgment thinking that he's secretly gay? you can admire the male physique, think another male is attractive and still be straight. just like it's possible for a gay man to admire the female anatomy, physique or the beauty of a woman without wanting to have sex with her because they aren't attracted to her like that.

    Yeah, I can admire a pretty woman, but no way I am going to ejaculate thinking about a woman. OP does find male anatomy attractive enough to ejaculate while watching or thinking about it. So I don't think it's just some non-sexual admiration.
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    Nov 14, 2014 1:59 PM GMT
    Austxdude787 saidAre there any other guys out there attracted to muscles but not looking for sex? Am I the only one????
    Nope, you're not the only one.
    <-- me too
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    Nov 15, 2014 9:42 AM GMT
    So how do I find you guys to meet up with?
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    Nov 15, 2014 10:03 AM GMT
    not so strange around here i'm sure icon_lol.gif

    good luck.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Nov 15, 2014 6:03 PM GMT
    Austxdude787 saidAre there any other guys out there attracted to muscles but not looking for sex? Am I the only one????
    You live in Austin, so being weird and abnormal is second nature. What do you expecticon_question.gif